We neglect the importance of sex

[cola]

We here neglect the importance of sex.
You can be as aloof, charming and even handsome as you want. If you aren't good in bed, its irrelevant.

Women are more sexual than we are.
They truly want to give you the goods. However due to societal stigma, they often make you work for it a bit.

Biologists say that the reason women are more vocal in bed is because their animal brain literally is trying to call more men over.
In other words when you strip them to the core, they all are sluts looking for a creampie orgy.

With that being said, here are some of my sex tips.

-Its not about pounding its about rhythm.-

-If you have a small penis learn to work angles

-You have to give her a lot of foreplay. She should be close to cumming before you penetrate.

-Master oral sex. Lick the ****oris in a circular motion. Clockwise and counter CW.

- Dominate her. Don't ask her can you *** in her mouth, like a wild animal when you are about to ***, grab a head full of hair and shove it in her mouth.

-When you penetrate, imagine trying to go through her. Imagine trying to pierce through the other end of her body.

-Talk a lot of sh*t. Ask who's p*ussy is this. Tell her how much she turns you on


-Lightly choke her


-If you have a large penis be gentle. Try not to slam into her cervix, it hurts.


-Dont be afraid to moan some, they like to know you are pleased.

- If you masturbate everyday stop. Limit it to 1x a week and do away with porn

-Do cardio. After 4 days of cardio my erections can hold a wet towel up.

 

[dustmuffin]

Good advice....I dont masturbate at all. Makes sex with women all the better.

 

[Juanto]

Have to say, made the mistake quite often of not cutting out the porn when being with a GF, bad idea. I think it really hurts the libido.

From your experience, is 20/25 minutes of cardio 3/4 times a week enough for you to be able to maintain a good performance in the sack?

 

[Juanto]

I would add another one: BE PATIENT. Sometimes you just want to cut to the chase and skip alot of the foreplay, which is always a bad idea (unless SHE decides to go for it earlier)

 

[cola]

Have to say, made the mistake quite often of not cutting out the porn when being with a GF, bad idea. I think it really hurts the libido.

From your experience, is 20/25 minutes of cardio 3/4 times a week enough for you to be able to maintain a good performance in the sack?

20 minutes of HIIT .. this isn't health & fitness but google "HIIT Cardio"..

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm cosigning being in good cardio shape makes longer and stronger erections

 

[Dingo]

You're absolutely correct....

If you suck in the sack don't expect many if any second chances.

 

[stevo]

Good pointers.

Take A Break.

This has been really helpful for me. I pound for a bit, I stop while inside her, I don't move. You can stare in her eyes or kiss her or whatever else you want. Let her feel the whole erection inside her. Pull up a bit so the front of your D is touching her cli-t and front wall and just stay there.

This is what she remembers. You drag her out of fantasy and give her a real life memory of filling her up.

I tell her to enjoy the moment and we stay there for a few seconds. The girls usually go wild because they have the D inside them, and all they want is some motion. Some will stand grinding on their own, then I pull out.

You're the man, you control the pace. She's the woman, begging for more.

Women want prolonged seks not the wham bam like most men do.

If you pound consistently, you'll cu-m before you're ready. Pound. Stop. Kiss. Go Slow. Stop. Get head. Pound. Stop. Go slow, Go in circles. She cums. You cu-m.

 

[cola]

Women are not more sexual than we are. testosterone is the hormone for sexual drive. Women with higher testosterone are more likely to cheat. female body builders report that one of the main side effects of taking steroids is a 100x increase in sex drive.

Women want sex just as much as we do. They just value the emotional aspect of sex, where we enjoy the physical.

This is why whispering in her ear will make her wetter..

But yes, scientifically speaking you are correct about testosterone.

 

[thatfeel]

You seriously don't need to do HIIT or any form of cardio to have good cardiovascular performance in bed, it's simply not that strenuous like cycling or running. If you're not overweight you'll be fine. Ejaculatory stamina is another beast entirely and no matter how much cardio you do you won't fix that without practice(either more sex, kegels, anti depressants like celexa, aromatase inhibitors like aromasin).

I rarely do cardio and my lifts aren't that impressive since I don't really eat that much but when I took celexa or aromasin I could last night all.

 

[cola]

Well I agree to an extent. but does having an emotional connection with a real cool chick not make sex more enjoyable for you?

I love to whisper "I could fvck you forever" the first time I sleep with a girl.

Nope. Her doing anything I say makes sex enjoyable.
But like Christian Grey im a bit of a "sexual sadist"

 

[cola]

You seriously don't need to do HIIT or any form of cardio to have good cardiovascular performance in bed, it's simply not that strenuous like cycling or running. If you're not overweight you'll be fine. Ejaculatory stamina is another beast entirely and no matter how much cardio you do you won't fix that without practice(either more sex, kegels, anti depressants like celexa, aromatase inhibitors like aromasin).

I rarely do cardio and my lifts aren't that impressive since I don't really eat that much but when I took celexa or aromasin I could last night all.

Sex isnt strenuous? Pound her from the back rapidly at the same quick pace for 5 minutes straight without stoppig.. then tell me sex isn't strenuous..

 

[thatfeel]

Muscle fatigue isn't really a thing with sex, depending on the position you mostly hinge at a joint with very minimal contractile force in the muscle fibers. At least, one that isn't under any kind of significant load. You should be able to naturally last a lot longer in bed in a cardiovascular sense than if you actually went and cycled or ran. When girls say "he only lasted 5 minutes" it's cause he couldn't control his load .

Idk, just my opinion and experience. I hate cardio but don't have an issue in the sack.

 

[Yewki]

We here neglect the importance of sex.
You can be as aloof, charming and even handsome as you want. If you aren't good in bed, its irrelevant.

It's kind of ironic you say the importance of sex is neglected, but then say that it's more important than being a charming, likable person. Perhaps the problem is that you over value sex

 

[cola]

It's kind of ironic you say the importance of sex is neglected, but then say that it's more important than being a charming, likable person. Perhaps the problem is that you over value sex

Huh? Reread that and tell me how it makes sense?
Sex is neglected by guys on this forum as in maybe bad sex is why your women act up.
Sex is more important than being charming.
You only need enough charm to get her in bed

 

[marmel75]

Women are not more sexual than we are. testosterone is the hormone for sexual drive. Women with higher testosterone are more likely to cheat. female body builders report that one of the main side effects of taking steroids is a 100x increase in sex drive.

The problem is the vast majority of guys over 30 have low testosterone levels due to all the environmental xenoestrogens floating around that wreak havoc on the male endocrine system. Hell, more and more guys in their 20s are having issues...men really ARE becoming more feminine and it's through no fault of their own.

The amount of testosterone a male needs to feel "beastly" is far greater than a woman needs...towards the top of the normal range, 700+...most guys are hanging out in the 300-400 level...not gonna get it done

 

[BeTheChange]

The problem is the vast majority of guys over 30 have low testosterone levels due to all the environmental xenoestrogens floating around that wreak havoc on the male endocrine system. Hell, more and more guys in their 20s are having issues...men really ARE becoming more feminine and it's through no fault of their own.

The amount of testosterone a male needs to feel "beastly" is far greater than a woman needs...towards the top of the normal range, 700+...most guys are hanging out in the 300-400 level...not gonna get it done

What are the best ways to avoid these testosterone lowering chemicals?

 

[marmel75]

What are the best ways to avoid these testosterone lowering chemicals?

It's impossible to completely avoid them, they are everywhere. You can only minimize them as much as possible...

1) Dont heat food in plastic containers, the heat is what causes the release of their estrogenic components.

2) Avoid anything with BPA in it(BPA is in plastics)

3) Eat organic. Or better yet, local organic. Pesticides are a huge contributor to xenoestrogens. Especially do not drink any form of non organic, non grass Fed milk or eat non organic beef. This is a huge contributor as they are pumped full of hormones and are very sick animals, due to being fed a diet that is not in line with what they should be eating. In fact products from grass Fed cows and grain Fed cows should be classified as a totally different food items---they are THAT different in every way nutrionally.

4) Look into Progesterone, it acts as a secondary male sex hormone which acts to supercharge testosterone and antogonizes estrogen.

5) Lift weights...it will increase your testosterone levels and help burn fat.

6) Stay away from processed foods...contain a wide array of crap that causes numerous issues hormonally.

7) Lose weight...fat is estrogenic itself and creates a negative feedback loop in the body where the more fat there is, the more estrogen gets produced and the lower your testosterone level drops as estrogen is the hormonal marker used bby the body to regulate sex hormone production.

 

[Juanto]

Does it not fapping for like 4/5 days and not watching porn before meeting a girl improve your performance in the sack?

 

[dustmuffin]

The problem is the vast majority of guys over 30 have low testosterone levels due to all the environmental xenoestrogens floating around that wreak havoc on the male endocrine system. Hell, more and more guys in their 20s are having issues...men really ARE becoming more feminine and it's through no fault of their own.

The amount of testosterone a male needs to feel "beastly" is far greater than a woman needs...towards the top of the normal range, 700+...most guys are hanging out in the 300-400 level...not gonna get it done

Mine is about 1k...Thank you testosterone injections.....