We haven't talked in 6 days

[bizzym]

I live about 2 hours away. She's from the city where I'm at and vice versa so she was just down here last weekend and I'll be moving soon.

I left late and I got caught in traffic. She got upset and said I'm always late and this messed up our dinner plans. She was saying how I keep arriving hours late messing up the plans to go anywhere so we never do. I told her I'd be there at 8:30 so I called at 8:15 to let her know I'm 40 minutes away and stuck in traffic. We had plans to go to dinner. She said we never go out and I told her it's a good thing she goes out with her friends all the time and said why can't we just order pizza and stay in. I said we'll go out to which she said you've been saying this for months that we'll go out and we haven't and I don't believe you. That's when I got ticked off and called her brat and started making jokes and which I guess she didn't find funny. I was about 30 minutes away from her and she really ticked me off so I told her I wasn't coming anymore and she said "okay", I said "okay" and hung up.

That was 6 days ago. We haven't gone this long without talking before.

I guess it's over?

 

[soulforge]

Why are you so boring dude? Would it Kill you to take the chick out occasionally!

You don't take her out for months, then suggest a fukin pizza instead.. Hehe

Hmmm she must be getting really wet for you Bruv!



Fuk sake man, you can't expect a chick to keep giving you that Vagina on a plate, when you don't do chit for her.

Your always late and it's been months since you took her out.. Not good man!

See now she might go find some dude, who will smash her puzzy HARD and take her out for a drink and meal once a while too.

ENJOY that pizza man!

 

[bizzym]

Why are you so boring dude? Would it Kill you to take the chick out occasionally!

You don't take her out for months, then suggest a fukin pizza instead.. Hehe

Hmmm she must be getting really wet for you Bruv!



Fuk sake man, you can't expect a chick to keep giving you that Vagina on a plate, when you don't do chit for her.

Your always late and it's been months since you took her out.. Not good man!

See now she might go find some dude, who will smash her puzzy HARD and take her out for a drink and meal once a while too.

ENJOY that pizza man!

It's not that. It just I'll get off work then drive 2/2.5 hours to see her and by then it's 9 and I'm just exhausted. I told her it's a lot easier for me to take her out when she's down here. She's only been down here once.

 

[wifehunter]

LDRs all fail eventually. Cohabitation is the natural course of things.

 

[marmel75]

LDRs all fail eventually. Cohabitation is the natural course of things.

Eventually the sex isn't worth the hassle.

 

[Billtx49]

I left late and I got caught in traffic. She got upset and said I'm always late and this messed up our dinner plans. She was saying how I keep arriving hours late messing up the plans to go anywhere so we never do. I told her I'd be there at 8:30 so I called at 8:15 to let her know I'm 40 minutes away and stuck in traffic.
I guess it's over?

Yep it’s definitely over and you’re asking a net forum about this fvckedup level of your life action?
Be where and when you say you will be in your local environment, or you’re not a trustworthy person… and guess what, she’s still pissed.…

 

[soulforge]

It's not that. It just I'll get off work then drive 2/2.5 hours to see her and by then it's 9 and I'm just exhausted. I told her it's a lot easier for me to take her out when she's down here. She's only been down here once.

You drive 2/2.5 hours to see a chick? Bruv that is where you went wrong.

Your doing all the travelling.. And she has only been over once.. I would have NEXTED this type of situation ages Ago!

Is there a reason why she has only been once?

 

[Ranger]

To think that it hasn’t been over in her mind for much longer would be intellectually dishonest. She’s complaining.
Let’s break it down it the terms of our lingo.
You understand the mental hamster right?
So criticism is almost always the result of the justification hamster. That little motor that runs in her head.
When she had real desire for you...she would be critical of the friggin traffic and start rubbing up against you.

Flash forward. Now. It’s obvious her little hamster has been running full speed. Her actions while you were away were detrimental to the relationship. But there’s no real justification other than..”It just happened”. In other words, out of her control. The responsibility of this needs to be shifter off of her or she’s just a dirty s!ut.

Enter the boyfriend. So this is a very simple thing to start an argument and tell you how you’ve been really bad. Always late and ruining plans. And you fell for it. It’s a very simple matter to add one hour to the plans to cover traffic.
1). A woman is solipsistic. She does or says nothing that doesn’t default in favor of her and/or her children.
2). A woman is a master of psychological warfare. She wanted you to get angry and at the very least, give her a reason to break up with you. But she didn’t have to. You fully took the bait.

When the woman starts to become critical of simple things or things that appear to be out of your control or she doesn’t like your shoes and blows it into a big deal, you have her.
Now if you broke a piece of her fine China or accidentally wrecked her car...that’s understandable. Even then the new exciting guy can break her China and dent her car but she will still drag him to the bed room. Anything he does is forgiven.
When the justification hamster has been running and she goes critical...you ask..with sternness so it’s not mistaken...”what have you DONE?”
Then stay cool and watch the fireworks. I’ve done this. Works every time.

NO WOMAN quits a man without another man to run to. Ever. She been seeing someone else.

 

[Ranger]

Absolutely correct, although I personally have had mixed effects saying "what have you done". Come to Jesus moments are rarer and rarer, you have to actually dump them to get much of a confession.

Oh I’m sure. It’s the reaction that’s exquisite. Instantly they turn around and start to walk away barking something in denile of any wrong doing. They will not look you in the eye and will find a way to hide their face as the hamster gets her to turn it back on you. Lol

 

[Chi Town]

No, it's not over. It's the waiting game where both of you guys get into a dispute and then start ignoring each other until one of you give in. You actually handled it right by not sucking up to her or letting her make you feel bad, she was being a brat and you called her out on it.

Most guys would of been like "ok baby I'm sorry, I'm moving as fast as I can"
Or, "ok your right, I will work on being better at being on time from now on"

That's exactly what you don't do.
Now you say it's been 6 days? Ok well at this point enough time has past where you can give her a call or send her a little text(if you want to) it wouldn't be a big deal, or you can wait it out until she contacts you and just go on enjoying your life.

If you do decide to contact her don't even bring up the situation, you forgot all about it lol, remember we are men so we don't hold grudges over petty emotional ****, that's for women.

You already showed your not needy by saying "I won't come" then hanging up then letting some days go by without trying to contact her, at this point you can't go wrong no matter what you do as long as you don't try to suck up to her and believe me she will try to bait you into doing that, don't call for it.

 

[Murk]

Reminds me of a past relationship, you're really not treating this girl right.

Be honest here, you don't really care much about her and you don't see this as a long-term set up, that's what your actions say, girls don't stick around for that ****.

 

[Infern0]

It's not that. It just I'll get off work then drive 2/2.5 hours to see her and by then it's 9 and I'm just exhausted. I told her it's a lot easier for me to take her out when she's down here. She's only been down here once.

If it's a 2 hour drive you go over there on Friday after work so you don't have to worry about the time.

Slam a damn Rockstar down your neck and take the girl out.

 

[soulforge]

If it's a 2 hour drive you go over there on Friday after work so you don't have to worry about the time.

Slam a damn Rockstar down your neck and take the girl out.

OP in this day and age, unless your SMV is through the fukin roof, no chick is going to let you keep pounding that PUZZY if your going to make ZERO effort to take her out once a while.

She lives over 2 hours away? Well its you who made that decision to get involved with a chick in a LDR

Does that mean she should just sit at home with you every night, whack you off, then get her crusty azz pizza as a treat after!

2 hour drive in NOT going to kill you.. Take the hoe out once in a while, take her for a meal.

Your complacent and lazy... I don't blame her for biching and moaning about it.

Dude woman have hundreds of options these days.. They aint gona stick around for a crusty ass pizza once a week.

Get with reality!

 

[Infern0]

OP in this day and age, unless your SMV is through the fukin roof, no chick is going to let you keep pounding that PUZZY if your going to make ZERO effort to take her out once a while.

She lives over 2 hours away? Well its you who made that decision to get involved with a chick in a LDR

Does that mean she should just sit at home with you every night, whack you off, then get her crusty azz pizza as a treat after!

2 hour drive in NOT going to kill you.. Take the hoe out once in a while, take her for a meal.

Your complacent and lazy... I don't blame her for biching and moaning about it.

Dude woman have hundreds of options these days.. They aint gona stick around for a crusty ass pizza once a week.

Get with reality!

Yup

A 2 hour drive barely even qualifies as long distance, I've had jobs where I've commuted almost that THERE AND BACK

OP out here like it's some huge sacrifice to undertake this epic journey

 

[Murk]

I did a 4-hour commute every day for a year.

 

[The Diver]

let her know I'm 40 minutes away and stuck in traffic.

From my own experience, get a cool motorbike and you'll be there in half the time,,,,,, and the leather jacket always looks cool ,,,,,, Lol

 

[Spaz]

It's the distance.

After work and driving a good 2 hours in a traffic jam will take a toll on any man. And when he reaches his destination he'll just be glad to rest.

Your girlfriend or any woman for that matter obviously needs a proper date, it can be cheap but it must be exciting for her. Dating at her place just doesn't excite any woman.

Neither of you r in the wrong here. It's just the circumstances that you've both put yourselves in.

A more viable option for this to work is meeting each other only on weekends and perhaps maybe once on weekdays. That's a good 2 X per week date/sex. But she also has to compromise and meet you half the time.

Propose meeting up for discussion. Listen more and if you need to talk; ask follow up questions that's helpful to her and non confrontational.

 

[Chi Town]

Why are you guys trying to get the OP to compromise for her? The OP did nothing wrong at all, if he doesn't wanna drive 2 hours, 4 hours, hell 30 minutes, then he has the right to feel like that. Just because some of you guys wouldn't mind doing it doesn't mean he has to feel the same way.

OP, continue on what you been doing, if your not comfortable taking that drive then don't. That's called being a man. Your needs, wants and desires comes before hers.
The only thing is that you should stop being boring and take her out more and do more exiting activities and do it on YOUR TERMS.

If she doesn't like it then oh well. There's a time to compromise and be understanding, this is not one of those times. You don't have to be a ******* to her but follow your gut and do what's best for you. If I'm going to see a girl, I will get there when I get there, if she wants to be a ***** about then I won't make the effort to come.

 

[soulforge]

OP is CLEARLY in the WRONG.

Did anyone force op to date a girl this far away? NO

Did OP choose to travel that far of a distance just to get his Dik wet? YES

These are the CHOICES a grown ass man has made.. So now the drive is too much for him?

So this chick should have to settle for a dried up fukin Pizza every weekend?

What fukin world do you live in.. I'm not saying you should spend a ton of money on these hoes, or take them to all the great expensive places!

But.. You do have to make some effort if you want CONTINUE tapping that azz!

Taking her out once a fortnight, is that so fukin hard?

Take her for the odd meal, that gona break the bank?

As I said before, hoes have got multiple options.. If you choose to make ZERO EFFORT then don't be surprised if she drops your boring ass, while your scanning through the PIZZA menu!


If a two hour drive, kills you off for the rest of the night and you can't even manage to sit at a restaurant table and eat, using knives and forks, then I would say you are one WEAK ASS mofo!

Next you'll be telling her, it was a two hour drive, so now my dik doesn't work.. Lol

 

[soulforge]

OP who said LDR relationships are easy? They are hard work!

If you CHOOSE to get into an LDR, then guess what, you have to go the EXTRA mile, to make it work.

This would INCLUDE taking her out for a meal once in a while, after your 2 hour EPIC Journey!