"We" earned this money together

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So i am sitting here in my living room listening to my wife's friend, like the only other one that is married. this is the broad who i posted about last year that we went over their house and he got home from work and had to cook dinner as she sat there getting drunk all day long. she doesn't feel the love anymore so depiste the fact that he pays the mortgage on the house, he is now living out of a hotel and they are about to get a divorce. they were married 11 years.

spoiled *****. my wife doesn't even really like her, she distances herself more and more from her. she's smokin hot though especially to be her age. to be 41 years old she is easily an HB8.5 or 9. very very pretty but that's alla bout she has going for her


so depsite having no skill set at all, and her husband working his ass off for 10 years, she is sitting here explaining to mywife and me how she has every right to "their" money as he does. she "runs the house" and keeps "things in order so he can work". mind you they have no kids. nor does she cook or clean around the house. her sole job is to wake up, watch TV, do whatever bull**** errands she has to do and come home and drink wine.

make no mistake i love my wife and she is a very important part of what i do and i would even go so far as to say that she is a reason why i am more productive, but let's not kid ourselves; what i make is my money. for her support, love, taking care of my needs, and making sure that everything runs accordingly, she gets to share what i have. but make no mistake if she got up and left tomorrow i could hire a mexican errand woman and pay her 500 dollars a week to do everyt5hing that my wife does, besides blow me from time to time lol.

it's not fair to say that its' your money when you don't have any contributing factor to the money. like my dad and my step mom are getting a divorce. she's an RN, he owns a janitorial service. she clears like 70k a year he clears like 80k a year. i get that. but like this dude, he makes probably like 120k a year give or take. he's very good at what he does. she has no positive influence on the income whatsoever. considering he is dead tired when he gets home and he still has to cook she is probably making it worse. yet she still thinks she is entitled to half of his ****. pisses me off.

like, i am so nice, i could even understand like, if he said look for one year i will pay you X a mount because i know you have not had a job in a while but after that you are on your own. here you can take some **** around the house to and keep your car as long as you are still paying on it yourself. but i mean, he is going to have to sale the house for the simple reason she wants half of it, despite the fact that he has paid every last mortgage bill himself.


this rant isn't so much about women are evil, there are some crappy men out there too.. but for the love of god SCREEN SCREEN SCREEN. she saw a mark, she took him, and got to live worry and rent free for 11 years. 87
 

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Seems like I recall you posting about them a year and half to two years ago. "We earned this money together!" Uh...yeah, what the fvck ever!! Only way I could see her having a valid point is if she raised their children together and was at stay at home mom!!

That is one thing about not being well off...I never have to concern myself with some gold digger trying to get her greedy paws all over my stash!

I was talking to a 68 year old neighbor of mine yesterday and he said a lot has changed these days.. It said it used to be they liked you for you, but now a good majority of them are OUT for the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
 

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SoldMySoul said:
Seems like I recall you posting about them a year and half to two years ago. "We earned this money together!" Uh...yeah, what the fvck ever!! Only way I could see her having a valid point is if she raised their children together and was at stay at home mom!!

That is one thing about not being well off...I never have to concern myself with some gold digger trying to get her greedy paws all over my stash!

I was talking to a 68 year old neighbor of mine yesterday and he said a lot has changed these days.. It said it used to be they liked you for you, but now a good majority of them are OUT for the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
`the thing is he really isn't well off. he's a professional and makes what a normal professional makes.

just a woman looking for a way to skate by in life on her looks as long as possible.
 

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backbreaker said:
it's not fair
One of the first things they do at law school is beat that sentence out of your head. There's always the poor kid who is the first one to say it, and then the professor will berate the hell out of him for 15 minutes or so in front of 60 people to set an example. There is no place in the law for your personal sense of fairness. Even when you might be morally or factually correct, the law does not care what you think. And in the eyes of the law, half of every dollar you make belongs to your wife.
 

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Please tell me he got a pre-nup??

and what about you backbreaker. Do you have a pre-nup.

Most guys here think with their ego when they get married. Saying things such as " I'm too fly, she will never leave me." Yet when the divorce papers are in their hands there looking like Forrest Gump. A marriage is a business and you got to treat it like one. You bring assets and she brings assets. Together you were better! Even marriage papers have the same seal that businesses have.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Please tell me he got a pre-nup??

and what about you backbreaker. Do you have a pre-nup.

Most guys here think with their ego when they get married. Saying things such as " I'm too fly, she will never leave me." Yet when the divorce papers are in their hands there looking like Forrest Gump. A marriage is a business and you got to treat it like one. You bring assets and she brings assets. Together you were better! Even marriage papers have the same seal that businesses have.
I did not ask. i don't think it matters because he really didn't have antyhing before he was married, he was just getting ginto his profession. so half that **** is his regardless.

yes i have a pre nup for the exact opposite reason everything I made a hell of alot of money before I met my wife, I bought my house before we were married, and by bought i mean i have the deed to it bought, and there is no way in hell she's getting half that. i mean of course i hope to never have to go through a divorce but in the event that it did happen we have a pre nup that was non negotiable.
 

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+1 to BB, I kinda look up to you.
 

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Dont get married or have any kids and you dont have to worry about it. This thread really hits a nerve with me because thats all I heard when I was a kid was being beat down cause dad had to pay child support and give mom half . Part of the reason I spent most of my life an afc.
 

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It blows my mind that men get married to begin with. It's absolutely insane.
 

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bradd80 said:
Guys, keep in mind a pre nup isn't a fool proof way to protect ourselves from angry women. Remember that almost any prenup can be placed aside or modified based on the idea that courts prioritize the best interests of the children over the financial interests of the man.
this is very true.


your pre nup isn't going to mean jack **** if you are making 200k a year and the wife is a stay at home mom and you had a boat load of money before you met her. sorry bro that money is getting raided. and honestly probably somewhat rightfully so. somewhat.

like i said, i have never met anyone personally until now that has to have to go to this type of stuff so seeing this like play out to me first hand in real life is a new experience to me. you can read about it ont he forums and stuff but i have never seen it happen. my dad divorced 4 times, never had to pay a dime of alimony. all his wifes made more than him lol. my mom divorced 2 times, nothing whatsoever. and it's not like my dad was a jerk he made sure i had everything i wanted and my little brother as well. there should be no need for courts.

but then again, here is the take i am taking on the situation seeing in person. I am surprised actually how much smythoy I do not have for the guy. Simply because, Ray Charles in a imax theater could have seen this **** coming from 100 miles a way.

i mean, are you really suprised that a woman who has not even applied for a job in a deacde, who has no formal education, who drinks all day, doesn't cook, makes her husband buy her a new car every other year, is going to try to take her husband to the cleaners? beucase i'm not. if not now 5 years from now or 10 years from now. trying to prevent this from happening was the equivalent to trying to prevent the civil war. Both were invevialble. this was going to happen beucase this is what was supposed to hpapen becuase this is what women like her do.

the problem is not the systme in this case, the probelm is that this guy settled for a very low quality woman simply because she is drop dead geogorous (and depsite how ****ty of a person she is, she is in fact quite hot)

here is a novol idea.. STOP MARRYING SKANKS
 

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bradd80 said:
Guys, keep in mind a pre nup isn't a fool proof way to protect ourselves from angry women. Remember that almost any prenup can be placed aside or modified based on the idea that courts prioritize the best interests of the children over the financial interests of the man.
this is very true.


your pre nup isn't going to mean jack **** if you are making 200k a year and the wife is a stay at home mom and you had a boat load of money before you met her. sorry bro that money is getting raided. and honestly probably somewhat rightfully so. somewhat.

like i said, i have never met anyone personally until now that has to have to go to this type of stuff so seeing this like play out to me first hand in real life is a new experience to me. you can read about it ont he forums and stuff but i have never seen it happen. my dad divorced 4 times, never had to pay a dime of alimony. all his wifes made more than him lol. my mom divorced 2 times, nothing whatsoever. and it's not like my dad was a jerk he made sure i had everything i wanted and my little brother as well. there should be no need for courts.

but then again, here is the take i am taking on the situation seeing in person. I am surprised actually how much smythoy I do not have for the guy. Simply because, Ray Charles in a imax theater could have seen this **** coming from 100 miles a way.

i mean, are you really suprised that a woman who has not even applied for a job in a deacde, who has no formal education, who drinks all day, doesn't cook, makes her husband buy her a new car every other year, is going to try to take her husband to the cleaners? beucase i'm not. if not now 5 years from now or 10 years from now. trying to prevent this from happening was the equivalent to trying to prevent the civil war. Both were invevialble. this was going to happen because this is what was supposed to hpapen becuase this is what women like her do.

the problem is not the system in this case, the problem is that this guy settled for a very low quality woman simply because she is drop dead gorgeous (and despite how ****ty of a person she is, she is in fact quite hot)

here is a novel idea.. STOP MARRYING SKANKS

why would you marry a woman who can't support herself? i harp on my dad but my dad had more than game he had common sense. he didn't **** stupid women. all the woman he ended up marrying could damn well take care of themselves and when he left them or they left him, they didn't want his money they just wanted him gone and to take care of his kids, be a good dad.

better stated, why would you marry a woman who can't support her self, has never tried to support her self and then become surprised when she feels entitled to half your ****?

my wife had no issue about the prenup. she doesn't want my money what of it i have. her father probably has more than i do and she has a trust fund anyway and she is taken care of regardless of what I do. god forbid something happens to her father her and her older brother will be extremely well taken care of. if my mom gets married agagain and I am willing to bet she will in 2 years.. she makes more than any man she will date does, well over 100k a year, and that's in Arkansas not LA, she could give a **** about a pre nup. even if the man did make more than she did, her independant streak would not allow her to take a man's money like that.


so I am not really feeling bad for these guys.
 

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Hopefully he punished her in the bedroom while he had the chance, but from what it sounds like, he was probably done in 2 minutes...
 
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