we dont need a woman to be happy?
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cali4nialove
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Because you think thats all that makes you happy. I'm working on improving with women because I dont get with many, I have a great social life and everyone loves me, but I can never get to the actual hookup of gf someone. It has been driving me nuts and depressing me like heck over the last year.
Last week I found out women dont have much to do with real happiness. Last week I started a charity fund to raise coats and warm blankets for the children of Afghanistan next winter. They are helpless, innocent, and die for no reason. I have been busting my ass off all weeken...and let me tell you, making others happy, knowing that you've saved someone's life, knowing that you've completely changed someone's life...IS THE BEST FEELING IN THE WORLD. Im finally truly happy and I did it without women.
Find the thing that makes you happy. Try helping the less fortunate...there is no beter happiness than that. Helping others+Family+Friends=True happiness.
Last week I found out women dont have much to do with real happiness. Last week I started a charity fund to raise coats and warm blankets for the children of Afghanistan next winter. They are helpless, innocent, and die for no reason. I have been busting my ass off all weeken...and let me tell you, making others happy, knowing that you've saved someone's life, knowing that you've completely changed someone's life...IS THE BEST FEELING IN THE WORLD. Im finally truly happy and I did it without women.
Find the thing that makes you happy. Try helping the less fortunate...there is no beter happiness than that. Helping others+Family+Friends=True happiness.
I agree with the above.
But of course we are biologically wired to find a partner and procreate. It's biologically programmed in us. However you can change the way your brain thinks. Some of us can change our thought process and rewire it to focus on other things. Of course it takes some work and repetition to change. But eventually, through consistency and hard work, you can absolutely change what makes you happy and fulfilled.
But of course we are biologically wired to find a partner and procreate. It's biologically programmed in us. However you can change the way your brain thinks. Some of us can change our thought process and rewire it to focus on other things. Of course it takes some work and repetition to change. But eventually, through consistency and hard work, you can absolutely change what makes you happy and fulfilled.
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Because you lack self esteem.spang said:
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Very true
I am not some SS Theorist, this is from my own life after 40 years.
My mother never showed proper affection or praise during my childhood. As a result, I spent the last 38 years chasing affection and seeking approval from women even though I was a true DJ and can attract most women who I find a fancy in.
But the problem is that I never felt good enough (and good looking as well) due to the conditioning that my childhood did into my head. This is your first journey in life, to FREE yourself from your childhood conditioning. So if you were raised without a proper loving mother (who is the first experience with women in your life) and you were not 'fed' with love as you should have, then such a man would more likely to feel 'empty' later in life without a woman to make them feel safe about their inner self.
It took me almost 40 years to figure this out, to look at my past behavior with women and why they have been AFC-like. It is until I took the time to admit that I have a lot of things to 'undo' in my childhood conditioning, did I start to be picky and learning to say 'no' to things I didn't think was good enough for me (including women).
I used to hate being alone and without a woman, but now if I become single, I live it up because I realize that 'NOW' is all that we have. Enjoy what you are NOW because nothing else exists. If you are single NOW, live it up, because when one day you are in a relationship and you are dying to get out of it, you will savour those moments when you could get away from the b!tches that shackles you.
Securing yourself from within is the MOST important journey in a man's life. Without it, you are going to be destroyed by women, especially the hot looking ones, because they feed the emptiness in yourself where self-esteem is lacking. There's where you attract low quality women with BPD, personality issues because all you care about is the hot looks in her, because that is what initially verifies your ego that you are 'good enough' when your mother didn't give you that early in life.
With respect,
Exodus
Yes, I have to agree with MikeOck.MikeOck said:
I am not some SS Theorist, this is from my own life after 40 years.
My mother never showed proper affection or praise during my childhood. As a result, I spent the last 38 years chasing affection and seeking approval from women even though I was a true DJ and can attract most women who I find a fancy in.
But the problem is that I never felt good enough (and good looking as well) due to the conditioning that my childhood did into my head. This is your first journey in life, to FREE yourself from your childhood conditioning. So if you were raised without a proper loving mother (who is the first experience with women in your life) and you were not 'fed' with love as you should have, then such a man would more likely to feel 'empty' later in life without a woman to make them feel safe about their inner self.
It took me almost 40 years to figure this out, to look at my past behavior with women and why they have been AFC-like. It is until I took the time to admit that I have a lot of things to 'undo' in my childhood conditioning, did I start to be picky and learning to say 'no' to things I didn't think was good enough for me (including women).
I used to hate being alone and without a woman, but now if I become single, I live it up because I realize that 'NOW' is all that we have. Enjoy what you are NOW because nothing else exists. If you are single NOW, live it up, because when one day you are in a relationship and you are dying to get out of it, you will savour those moments when you could get away from the b!tches that shackles you.
Securing yourself from within is the MOST important journey in a man's life. Without it, you are going to be destroyed by women, especially the hot looking ones, because they feed the emptiness in yourself where self-esteem is lacking. There's where you attract low quality women with BPD, personality issues because all you care about is the hot looks in her, because that is what initially verifies your ego that you are 'good enough' when your mother didn't give you that early in life.
With respect,
Exodus
AlphaGhost
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because your making your life revolve around having a women. Stop worrying and have fun and enjoy your life. Do that to the max and bishes will flock