NewDestiny47
Don Juan
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Well my girl of the past year is a pretty jealous one and had a lot of issues, i'll be honest though I kind of saw us working through them b/c aside from her jealousy she was a cool person, I don't know if leaving her was the right call.
It was sort of a mutual breakup I guess. I told her I should just leave her if she wasn't happy/always so stressed/jealous in this relationship, we said we'd stay friends. This was the most awkward conversation I've ever had! You should have seen the two of us trying so damn hard to act like we didn't care, and it was some BAD acting... even on my part i'll admit.
In the middle of all of this she actually tried to come on to me and suggested we should "let out our frustrations" (and you know what she meant by that...) claiming that is what would make her happy, i casually declined and she tried to insist a few more times then gave up.
She then throws this random line at me saying how she's going to go out with this guy friend of hers in a week... oh man, here come the mindgames! Obviously trying to burn me with that one! I just threw some C&F line at her which seemed to throw her off guard.
What's up with this one guys? To be totally honest there's obviously still strong feelings on both sides but IMO we're both trying to out-do the other and prove who's tougher. Do I have odds at winning this one back? Should I play the jealousy card (which is her huge weakspot)? I already have another girl very interested in me at the moment so there'd be no need to fake anything, in fact I plan on dating her ASAP... I see no bad coming out of that, i'll meet a cool new girl AND when word gets around the ex will realize what's up and either come back to me or try to out-do me. Win-Win situation but I've never been in something like this, am I taking the best approach?
It was sort of a mutual breakup I guess. I told her I should just leave her if she wasn't happy/always so stressed/jealous in this relationship, we said we'd stay friends. This was the most awkward conversation I've ever had! You should have seen the two of us trying so damn hard to act like we didn't care, and it was some BAD acting... even on my part i'll admit.
In the middle of all of this she actually tried to come on to me and suggested we should "let out our frustrations" (and you know what she meant by that...) claiming that is what would make her happy, i casually declined and she tried to insist a few more times then gave up.
She then throws this random line at me saying how she's going to go out with this guy friend of hers in a week... oh man, here come the mindgames! Obviously trying to burn me with that one! I just threw some C&F line at her which seemed to throw her off guard.
What's up with this one guys? To be totally honest there's obviously still strong feelings on both sides but IMO we're both trying to out-do the other and prove who's tougher. Do I have odds at winning this one back? Should I play the jealousy card (which is her huge weakspot)? I already have another girl very interested in me at the moment so there'd be no need to fake anything, in fact I plan on dating her ASAP... I see no bad coming out of that, i'll meet a cool new girl AND when word gets around the ex will realize what's up and either come back to me or try to out-do me. Win-Win situation but I've never been in something like this, am I taking the best approach?