Before you all start busting on me why I want her back its something I can't explain. In short this is what happened.....We dated for about one month. Things started off really good I got her by being C&F around her at work. Well the first couple of dates were good.....really good. Christmas eve came around and we exchanged gifts she wrote me a card telling me how she had fallen for me so bad and that I was one in a million. We kissed that night for our first time and it was amazing.
About 4 days go by and she says that she wants her space. This is where I made a mistake and believe that I entered the "wuss" zone. I really did not give it to her. So about a week goes by and we meet and she tells me she doesn't think that this is going to work and she does not feel "chemistry" anymore. I told her how I felt about her and that I was pretty upset because I couldnt possibly figure out how her feelings for me could have changed in a matter of days. Get this: "The day before we broke up she sent me a text from a party when she was semi drunk say: I love you and I want to have sex with you." I always thought the mind spole the truth when drunk. She told me she wanted to be friends and I told her I would give it a try but I think it is going to be hard.
So the last couple of days I figured I would not initiate any conversation with her. She has started all conversations the last 2 or 3 days. When we are talking I am always nice to her and helping her. But again I have started busting on her for little things she says that don't make sence. Yesterday she texted my phone 13 times....she hasnt done that at all other than when we were dating. Last night I did sent her one text which was in an effort to make her remeber the good times we had. But it was in a subtle way: "I said I'm in ____ and we are lost again."(Her and I got lost in the city and she told me it was the most fun ever) When I got home I signed on AIM and she sent me another text. This time I busted on her a little more and I could tell I was making her mad. Then I lightened it a little and she said I was on her good side again. She then sent me about 5 pictures of herself out of the blue for really no reason. I think I got her chasing me again and I'm not sure what to do or say to her. Any advice on this situation? Usually I don't chase after ex's but she is different so please don't tell me not too I just want advice on how to get her back.
About 4 days go by and she says that she wants her space. This is where I made a mistake and believe that I entered the "wuss" zone. I really did not give it to her. So about a week goes by and we meet and she tells me she doesn't think that this is going to work and she does not feel "chemistry" anymore. I told her how I felt about her and that I was pretty upset because I couldnt possibly figure out how her feelings for me could have changed in a matter of days. Get this: "The day before we broke up she sent me a text from a party when she was semi drunk say: I love you and I want to have sex with you." I always thought the mind spole the truth when drunk. She told me she wanted to be friends and I told her I would give it a try but I think it is going to be hard.
So the last couple of days I figured I would not initiate any conversation with her. She has started all conversations the last 2 or 3 days. When we are talking I am always nice to her and helping her. But again I have started busting on her for little things she says that don't make sence. Yesterday she texted my phone 13 times....she hasnt done that at all other than when we were dating. Last night I did sent her one text which was in an effort to make her remeber the good times we had. But it was in a subtle way: "I said I'm in ____ and we are lost again."(Her and I got lost in the city and she told me it was the most fun ever) When I got home I signed on AIM and she sent me another text. This time I busted on her a little more and I could tell I was making her mad. Then I lightened it a little and she said I was on her good side again. She then sent me about 5 pictures of herself out of the blue for really no reason. I think I got her chasing me again and I'm not sure what to do or say to her. Any advice on this situation? Usually I don't chase after ex's but she is different so please don't tell me not too I just want advice on how to get her back.
