It's rare, but there are still women who are much better than those 3s or 4s who don't behave the same way. Women's preferences (what they do, not what they say) aren't logical and don't make much sense to us men. So it's easy for us to think (and have our egos destroyed) "this psycho 4/10 doesn't think I'm attractive enough, how am I going to find an above average pleasant chick who likes me?." There are 8s who think I'm "hot." There are 3s who think I'm ugly. There are 6s who think I have a great personality but don't look good enough. There are 7s who think I look too good for them. There are 2s who think I'm garbage in every way.