"I don't negotiate with terrorists"
We All Go Through It
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Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Pretty Boy,
I feel sorry for all three of you...Your Partner is probably a good Woman but events have conspired against you all....You work long hours in a distant City...Go home to a lonely Bed...That's a Dogs life...It really is nobodies Fault...There are probably guys from the City where you work who go to work Where your Partner and little Boy live,wrecking their own relationships...Seems this is the way it goes...you have left your Genetic imprint,at least that you have salvaged something...Reading the posts I can't help saying what a great Guy Bradd is,sending you all that information...He is a great Asset to our Site...Good Luck to you Bradd!
I feel sorry for all three of you...Your Partner is probably a good Woman but events have conspired against you all....You work long hours in a distant City...Go home to a lonely Bed...That's a Dogs life...It really is nobodies Fault...There are probably guys from the City where you work who go to work Where your Partner and little Boy live,wrecking their own relationships...Seems this is the way it goes...you have left your Genetic imprint,at least that you have salvaged something...Reading the posts I can't help saying what a great Guy Bradd is,sending you all that information...He is a great Asset to our Site...Good Luck to you Bradd!
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
No sir. She was not a good woman. She wanted to be a stay at home mom and the only way I could have afforded that was by being independent and becoming a Consultant. I told her many times if she wanted me to stop traveling to get a job so I don't have to worry about constantly getting on every contract. She never even attempted to get a job and all she would do is nag me about every little thing. Since she had no job I always flew her out to my suites I would get by traveling. Still she was not appreciative.
Also before I got together with her I told her I don't get into relationships with girls that go to club/lounges a lot. She agreed and said she wouldn't go. Now 2 years later she calls me controlling because I never liked her going to clubs/lounges. This is something I said since before we got into a relationship so why are we arguing about it? If you never liked it we should have never gotten together.
Now she has a job making 9$ an hour and its crazy that when we break up she just gets a job within 2 weeks but when we were together I stressed to her to get a job or just stop nagging me about everything. She chose neither. I hope she enjoys her minimum job and leave me alone.
Today she also told me we would get back together if I move to Florida. While its no problem for me to move to Florida I'm not going to follow her. It's natural for a man to lead and this girl doesn't want to be led she wants to lead. When we first got together she told me she would follow me and be an aspiration to my career and would follow me. If I got a job in Cali she would go etc. Now it's all down the drain. I'm going to do whats best for me and my career so I can be the best provider for myself as well as my son and my future wife (if I somehow get married). I refuse to be held down by anyone.
Even if I did stay home and worked I would've probably made half of what I made in 9 months in an entire year. I have goals.... I've had goals before I met her.... and I will strive to make these goals. It is just a damn shame that I wasted two years of my life paying someones bills who was never even appreciative or supportive of me in the long run. I will make a promise to myself that I will never do this again. Anyone who I'm with must contribute financially. I don't care even when I am a millionaire. I'm going to be with someone who can help me, appreciate me, and hold me down.
Look the game is all about 100% co-operation. I haven't got that in a while. I deserve nothing but that and should have kicked her to the curb a long time ago. First sign of disrespect which happened a year and a half ago. Situation similar to the one now but without the kid. I should have dumped her then and not look back.
Also before I got together with her I told her I don't get into relationships with girls that go to club/lounges a lot. She agreed and said she wouldn't go. Now 2 years later she calls me controlling because I never liked her going to clubs/lounges. This is something I said since before we got into a relationship so why are we arguing about it? If you never liked it we should have never gotten together.
Now she has a job making 9$ an hour and its crazy that when we break up she just gets a job within 2 weeks but when we were together I stressed to her to get a job or just stop nagging me about everything. She chose neither. I hope she enjoys her minimum job and leave me alone.
Today she also told me we would get back together if I move to Florida. While its no problem for me to move to Florida I'm not going to follow her. It's natural for a man to lead and this girl doesn't want to be led she wants to lead. When we first got together she told me she would follow me and be an aspiration to my career and would follow me. If I got a job in Cali she would go etc. Now it's all down the drain. I'm going to do whats best for me and my career so I can be the best provider for myself as well as my son and my future wife (if I somehow get married). I refuse to be held down by anyone.
Even if I did stay home and worked I would've probably made half of what I made in 9 months in an entire year. I have goals.... I've had goals before I met her.... and I will strive to make these goals. It is just a damn shame that I wasted two years of my life paying someones bills who was never even appreciative or supportive of me in the long run. I will make a promise to myself that I will never do this again. Anyone who I'm with must contribute financially. I don't care even when I am a millionaire. I'm going to be with someone who can help me, appreciate me, and hold me down.
Look the game is all about 100% co-operation. I haven't got that in a while. I deserve nothing but that and should have kicked her to the curb a long time ago. First sign of disrespect which happened a year and a half ago. Situation similar to the one now but without the kid. I should have dumped her then and not look back.
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sodbuster
Master Don Juan
like most of us, old too soon, wise too late