Ways of keeping a girl interested between dates?

[solo1]

Are there any good ways of keeping a girl interested between dates?

I've been seeing this girl recently and had a couple dates with her so far. But the problem is she's the shy/quiet type and usually doesnt talk much period.
And with our schedules, the only time we actually have a chance to get together is during saturdays.

 

[Fuglydude]

I use text messages a lot...to the point of where my girlfriend had to switch her cell phone plan have free texts cause I'm such a text ho.

I think dropping girls a few texts here and there w/ fluff talk...how was ur day, etc...kindsa stuff has em excited. This is basic stuff, but I totally love naughti suggestive texts too...

Just have fun w/ whatever you're doing!

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

Give her the gift of missing you bro. Only call to setup dates. Between dates do not contact her until you have been seeing each other for 2 months.

 

[DJDoomage]

keeping a girl interested = stalking her


You are interesting to a girl when you show her good time, then dissapear and make her miss it.

 

[solo1]

I use text messages a lot...to the point of where my girlfriend had to switch her cell phone plan have free texts cause I'm such a text ho.

I think dropping girls a few texts here and there w/ fluff talk...how was ur day, etc...kindsa stuff has em excited. This is basic stuff, but I totally love naughti suggestive texts too...

Just have fun w/ whatever you're doing!

Depending on the girl this could really work, the last girl i dated was like that. But this one isnt much of a conversationlist and kind of a loner so i doubt it'll work.

Give her the gift of missing you bro. Only call to setup dates. Between dates do not contact her until you have been seeing each other for 2 months.

you're probably right, i can see where htis is headed and likely this is it. But its odd not talking to someone on an occassional basis considering the fact that you're seeing each other.

keeping a girl interested = stalking her


You are interesting to a girl when you show her good time, then dissapear and make her miss it.

I agree but disappear too long and she'll lose interest - "out of sight out of mind". I think on our next date im gonna turn up the heat and get a little more c&f and more teasing.

 

[Nighthawk]

Dirty texts about what you are going to do to her and what she is going to do to you. Don't fall for that shy act, she'll eat it up.

Works best if you've already got to the heavy petting stage, I wouldn't try it with someone who isn't showing moderate to high interest already.

I think a lot of less experienced posters think that this might backfire and she'll think you're a creep or a pervert, which is very AFC. I'd love to hear from anyone who tried dirty texts and it didn't work.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Are there any good ways of keeping a girl interested between dates?

I've been seeing this girl recently and had a couple dates with her so far. But the problem is she's the shy/quiet type and usually doesnt talk much period.
And with our schedules, the only time we actually have a chance to get together is during saturdays.

I'm always amazed when guys choose to date women who have some type of difficulty with dating. So do you depend on actually "doing" something whenever the two of you are together to offset her shyness?

 

[solo1]

Dirty texts about what you are going to do to her and what she is going to do to you. Don't fall for that shy act, she'll eat it up.

Works best if you've already got to the heavy petting stage, I wouldn't try it with someone who isn't showing moderate to high interest already.

I think a lot of less experienced posters think that this might backfire and she'll think you're a creep or a pervert, which is very AFC. I'd love to hear from anyone who tried dirty texts and it didn't work.

YOU BET...dirty texts do work...i've done it in the past. yea i know..shy girls are sex freaks...im definitely turning things up with her.

wth is the petting stage?

I'm always amazed when guys choose to date women who have some type of difficulty with dating. So do you depend on actually "doing" something whenever the two of you are together to offset her shyness?

Everybody loves some kind of challenge...
Anyway it doesnt quite seems she's exactly shy, moreso the quiet type who doesnt get out much/socialize much.
Once you get the girl to trust you and show her a good time(that you're not a perv/desperate)...it becomes fairly easy to turn things up.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

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Everybody loves some kind of challenge...
Anyway it doesnt quite seems she's exactly shy, moreso the quiet type who doesnt get out much/socialize much.
Once you get the girl to trust you and show her a good time(that you're not a perv/desperate)...it becomes fairly easy to turn things up.

Eh, give me a woman who's capable and willing to entertain me to keep me interested.