Way too much blaming the women on this site.

[Infern0]

Something I just want to address.

Many, many times on this site I see guys post along the lines of the following.

"My girlfriend dumped me because I was being immature"

Or they put that they got friend zoned or rejected, then when they talk about their interactions it's riddled with weak, needy, insecure behaviour, oftentimes verging on stalkerish behaviour.

You see people on this site for YEARS who are making basic errors.

"I went for a date with a girl last night and I've texted her 7 times in 3 hours and she ain't responding. .....AW ALERT!"

Then we have multiple posters calling the girl an attention ***** or a slut or blah blah, and then the advice "spin plates"

We are men on this site, correct?

Part of being a man is accepting responsibility for our mistakes, and self improvement. But too many on this site DON'T do that, and until they do, history will repeat.

If the guy was in any way alpha , he wouldn't be on so suave posting how he got played by an "attention *****" because those type of games only work on AFC!

if she plays games you vet her out early and then next her ass before she causes enough trouble to post about her. It's called pre screening. If you tolerate bad behavior it's your own fault. Most women WILL take the piss if you invite them to by being a weak ass doormat.

Instead of blaming the women, there needs to be more accountability.

There needs to be less "she's an AW slut", and more "she was right to reject you because you behaved like a *****"

These nice guys can't learn unless they get the hard word

 

[Suspens]

Then we have multiple posters calling the girl an attention ***** or a slut or blah blah, and then the advice "spin plates"

Most women are slutty attention hoes, nothing offensive or misogynistic about that statement.

 

[Infern0]

Most women are slutty attention hoes, nothing offensive or misogynistic about that statement.

Funny how they only behave like attention *****s around/to AFC's though, isn't it.

 

[Suspens]

Lol yes, as a good looking short AFC, I can confirm that.

 

[Dante1a]

I think that if you are blaming women in general, you are coming at it from the wrong direction.

Some girls suck and have no integrity. And I'm VERY happy that they show me that early on, so I don't have to waste time with them. Many, many women are awesome, beautiful, fun, sexy and honorable. (Honorable in a feminine way..which means we don't truly expect them to keep their word like we would a man. If we don't expect that and we just chill the **** out about it, then things tend to work better.)

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Something I just want to address.

Many, many times on this site I see guys post along the lines of the following.

"My girlfriend dumped me because I was being immature"

Or they put that they got friend zoned or rejected, then when they talk about their interactions it's riddled with weak, needy, insecure behaviour, oftentimes verging on stalkerish behaviour.

You see people on this site for YEARS who are making basic errors.

"I went for a date with a girl last night and I've texted her 7 times in 3 hours and she ain't responding. .....AW ALERT!"

Then we have multiple posters calling the girl an attention ***** or a slut or blah blah, and then the advice "spin plates"

We are men on this site, correct?

Part of being a man is accepting responsibility for our mistakes, and self improvement. But too many on this site DON'T do that, and until they do, history will repeat.

If the guy was in any way alpha , he wouldn't be on so suave posting how he got played by an "attention *****" because those type of games only work on AFC!

if she plays games you vet her out early and then next her ass before she causes enough trouble to post about her. It's called pre screening. If you tolerate bad behavior it's your own fault. Most women WILL take the piss if you invite them to by being a weak ass doormat.

Instead of blaming the women, there needs to be more accountability.

There needs to be less "she's an AW slut", and more "she was right to reject you because you behaved like a *****"

These nice guys can't learn unless they get the hard word

I agree with what you're saying and I've noticed the same thing in general here too but I try to help out where I can. I'm not posting in every single thread I see where the guy is clearly doing stupid stuff. A lot of these guys receive great advice but never take it. So if I don't waste my time on low value women, why would I waste my time with low value 'men' who don't want to listen to reason?

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I have made this point before lol. Yes, some girls are bad, but they have most of the power at the start unless you are James Bond or something. They have so many options to choose from, but most of them are AFCs too. Once you advance than she starts losing power. In addition, I feel like the posters here tell only 75%% of the story or tell a little lie to make their posts look better. We are all guilty of it lol

 

[skinnyguy]

OP is about to get blasted by Poon King lolll

 

[Dhoulmagus]

OP is about to get blasted by Poon King lolll

The return of kings sponsor on this board lol

 

[piranha45]

That's a fundamental problem with many men; they think the women are capable of functioning autonomously to men. Women are given FAR too much credit in this regard.

Women can only react. This is a well-established part of their gender identity.

Furthermore, women can only react to what men put forth.

 

[No.Danny]

I'm just here for Poon Queen

 

[Yewki]

If the guy was in any way alpha , he wouldn't be on so suave posting how he got played by an "attention *****" because those type of games only work on AFC!

There's lots of posers on this site. Some of the big names who have been posting for years still linger around all bitter and repeat the same slanted advice and mantras. Having sex with lots of women does not mean you're alpha, or even smart for that matter. Being so worked up about women to hang around for years hating on them does, however, make you pretty damn pathetic.

 

[old married dude]

What's wrong with blaming them? lol

It's pretty much true that people who use emotion over logic in decision making make poor choices most of the time.

 

[Yewki]

What's wrong with blaming them? lol

It's pretty much true that people who use emotion over logic in decision making make poor choices most of the time.

For about every crazy woman, you can probably find a pathetic chump of a guy out there. So what you end up having are a lot of pathetic chumps calling women crazy and blaming them for everything.

 

[Peña]

True to a point. Many men will just blame women just to blame because they refuse to accept their own bad qualities and will not change who they are. Others will blame because they only been around low quality women in bars and have no experience with any better women. They think all women are like that when it is not like that. Posters will make angry posts calling all women this or that and claiming you will get a divorce with a corrupt system if you get married. Making hypotheticals do not make it to be true that it will happen.

A woman with red flags deserves blame but the man should take more blame for not picking it up. Some women deserve the blame and should be blamed for their bad actions. Experience will help you weed out bad women. I say the blame should be on the person at fault.

 

[skinnyguy]

This is controversial but would you say that a so called BPD wouldn't act that way around Brad Pitt? A serial flake won't do that to Channing Tatum?

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

This is controversial but would you say that a so called BPD wouldn't act that way around Brad Pitt? A serial flake won't do that to Channing Tatum?

Now we all know as part of most of these BPD and NPD's "systems" they will put celebrity on a pedestal. So of course no they will not. They will "hit it" if they can and peg their counter just to say they did it.

They will bend over backwards for these guys, cater to them, and eat $hit if it so requires. And they will do this, while feeding non-celebrity guys buckets and garbage cans full of bs.

 

[Peña]

This is controversial but would you say that a so called BPD wouldn't act that way around Brad Pitt? A serial flake won't do that to Channing Tatum?

Why not? A crazy woman acts crazy no matter who she is with. After she locks down her man she flips. It is their nature to do that. Crazy is crazy man.

 

[goodasitgets]

Now we all know as part of most of these BPD and NPD's "systems" they will put celebrity on a pedestal. So of course no they will not. They will "hit it" if they can and peg their counter just to say they did it.

They will bend over backwards for these guys, cater to them, and eat $hit if it so requires. And they will do this, while feeding non-celebrity guys buckets and garbage cans full of bs.

Seriously? Are you saying a BPD wouldn't fvck over Brad Pitt if she thought he was slipping away? Celebrities are a bigger targets than the average joe with their $$$$$.

 

[Yewki]

Given the state of indoctrination for both men and women in today's society, I don't think it's fair to say that the only reason a woman is "crazy" is because the guy labeling her is a chump.

I did not mean only chumps acknowledge crazy women exist, but rather the chump will tend to label all women as crazy and f*cked up. This mindset allows the guy to more easily cope. Surely he can't be the problem. They're the problem.

I believe feminism and society are creating chumps and creating crazy girls.

Those things are definitely not helping.