Okay, this might mean nothing to you until you actually go through it. Watching my friend experience what I'm about to tell you has scared me enough not to simply let a girl feel as though we're actually going out without finding out more about her first. Here's the story:
My friend met this girl at a club. Got her digits. Called her out. Joined me and my girlfriend for a movie. Sort of a double date thing. This double-date was around one week after he knew her. She looked pretty innocent, smart.. and quiet. Needless to say, my friends endorsed her as a quality propect, and my friend (Lets call him A) starts getting more serious with her.
I ask him how things are going between him and the girl (We'll call her P for Psycho) another week after that. He found out that she had slits on her wrists, and that she's emotionally unstable. Get her pissed, and she'll go real, REAL crazy. He starts avoiding her, afraid that doing anything drastic might cause her to commit suicide.
We go clubbing last night. She was there. She FORCED him to kiss her in the club in front of everyone. He tried to stop her, but she wouldn't. She bit his neck.. and my friend got more uncomfortable. He asks her to stop all this, and that there's nothing between them, and that she should stop acting this way.. but she wouldn't.
He ditches her and goes to another place. She doesn't let him go. She kneels down in front of everyone in the club, begging him not to go. A gets really terrified and goes away. The girl gets vulgar and cries to another friend about how sad she is about that. Not able to stand it, A asked me to ask one of my female friends to act as his fling. We didn't know P was SUPER-SUICIDAL then. We thought the slits were done when she was immature, and that she grew out of it. We thought that by doing this, she would just stop cold-turkey and never bother A again. I mean, a normal girl would just tell A to f*ck off most of the time. So P comes back and tries to molest A again, and my female friend tries to save the day.
P sees my female friend hugging A, and she went ballistic. She grabbed a bottle, and wanted to smash her head in right there right then. She was wailing words like 'that f*cking b*tch should die' and that she was stealing him away from her and all.. and she screamed. She screamed so loud that even with the loud music in the club, I could still hear her voice clearly from a good distance away.
We separated the two chicks before somebody got hurt. Only then, a friend of hers came and told us that P just tried to commit suicide again last Sunday. P was blabbing about how she was going to hurt this, and that, and herself, etc. A got really disturbed, as a casual date turned into a stalking suicidal psycho.
A is now really worried about her, because he wouldn't be able to take the responsibility of someone killing herself over him, but there's nothing he could do. He can't date her now that he knows her true colors, and he's so afraid to tell her to f*ck off, fearing that she'd jump off a building. She refuses to talk calmly, and only wants a yes/no answer.
Thats whats going on now on this part of the world. If there are women like these here, there definetely are more around the world. I'm not only talking about women here. Anyone could be crazy. Watch who you hang out with, and who you date. It might cost you your life.
My friend met this girl at a club. Got her digits. Called her out. Joined me and my girlfriend for a movie. Sort of a double date thing. This double-date was around one week after he knew her. She looked pretty innocent, smart.. and quiet. Needless to say, my friends endorsed her as a quality propect, and my friend (Lets call him A) starts getting more serious with her.
I ask him how things are going between him and the girl (We'll call her P for Psycho) another week after that. He found out that she had slits on her wrists, and that she's emotionally unstable. Get her pissed, and she'll go real, REAL crazy. He starts avoiding her, afraid that doing anything drastic might cause her to commit suicide.
We go clubbing last night. She was there. She FORCED him to kiss her in the club in front of everyone. He tried to stop her, but she wouldn't. She bit his neck.. and my friend got more uncomfortable. He asks her to stop all this, and that there's nothing between them, and that she should stop acting this way.. but she wouldn't.
He ditches her and goes to another place. She doesn't let him go. She kneels down in front of everyone in the club, begging him not to go. A gets really terrified and goes away. The girl gets vulgar and cries to another friend about how sad she is about that. Not able to stand it, A asked me to ask one of my female friends to act as his fling. We didn't know P was SUPER-SUICIDAL then. We thought the slits were done when she was immature, and that she grew out of it. We thought that by doing this, she would just stop cold-turkey and never bother A again. I mean, a normal girl would just tell A to f*ck off most of the time. So P comes back and tries to molest A again, and my female friend tries to save the day.
P sees my female friend hugging A, and she went ballistic. She grabbed a bottle, and wanted to smash her head in right there right then. She was wailing words like 'that f*cking b*tch should die' and that she was stealing him away from her and all.. and she screamed. She screamed so loud that even with the loud music in the club, I could still hear her voice clearly from a good distance away.
We separated the two chicks before somebody got hurt. Only then, a friend of hers came and told us that P just tried to commit suicide again last Sunday. P was blabbing about how she was going to hurt this, and that, and herself, etc. A got really disturbed, as a casual date turned into a stalking suicidal psycho.
A is now really worried about her, because he wouldn't be able to take the responsibility of someone killing herself over him, but there's nothing he could do. He can't date her now that he knows her true colors, and he's so afraid to tell her to f*ck off, fearing that she'd jump off a building. She refuses to talk calmly, and only wants a yes/no answer.
Thats whats going on now on this part of the world. If there are women like these here, there definetely are more around the world. I'm not only talking about women here. Anyone could be crazy. Watch who you hang out with, and who you date. It might cost you your life.
