I've tried that before. It doesn't seem to work. The more you say, the bigger a grave you dig for yourself, and saying nothing is better than saying anything at all.jacob said:You see what he was doing was using the power of suggestion when he hinted that they had potential, that she was "attracted" to him by playing with her hair, eye contact etc. and he also tried coming off as a "jerk" by being assertive in the tone of his writing style but at the same time gave her validation.