Meisterman
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Before you read this read the original post here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221994
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She texted me yesterday asking me when I am available because she left a pair of pants at my apartment from when we fu*ked 2 weeks ago, and she needs to start mailing boxes back home, so she wanted to know when she could come get them.
I told her she could get them whenever she wants. She lives literally right next door. A few hours later she texts me saying she's at my door. So I open up and give her the pants. Exchange conversation very briefly, probably a minute or so. Then I say "see ya" and we part ways.
She had friends over so I don't think she wasn't trying to hang out, but she did kinda pause at the door and I'm the one who closed the conversation. I wasn't trying to pursue anything yesterday anyway. Both our apartments were full, I didn't want to see her, I already committed going till at least Thursday until reaching out to her by being scarce.
The thing is, she's not going out of state for another 2-3 weeks, so it seems weird to me she messaged me asking for her pants back, like it's a big sense of urgency or something. She also seemed friendly and enthused in the texts, but that's just in her nature.
My question is...
A) Do you think her sending that was just an excuse to contact me? AKA her hamster was spinning and she caved.
B) Or is it just a SH!T test to see how I react?
C) Or is it her trying to get me hooked again so she feels validated in going cold/NC as of lately?
D) Or is it that she literally just wanted her pants back?
I know she's done stuff like this in the past like "What time does your class end, I need a ride to the phone store to get it fixed" and "Hey do you know the campus policy for...(proceed to say something irrelevant)" almost like an excuse to text without being needy. Of course whenever I oblige for a favor, or chase her, her interest decreases without fail. That's why I know trying to escalate would have backfired anyway.
So I plan to go NC another day and then possibly hit her up tomorrow night, which was my original plan in the first place. Just trying to understand her motives better so I can use it to my advantage.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221994
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She texted me yesterday asking me when I am available because she left a pair of pants at my apartment from when we fu*ked 2 weeks ago, and she needs to start mailing boxes back home, so she wanted to know when she could come get them.
I told her she could get them whenever she wants. She lives literally right next door. A few hours later she texts me saying she's at my door. So I open up and give her the pants. Exchange conversation very briefly, probably a minute or so. Then I say "see ya" and we part ways.
She had friends over so I don't think she wasn't trying to hang out, but she did kinda pause at the door and I'm the one who closed the conversation. I wasn't trying to pursue anything yesterday anyway. Both our apartments were full, I didn't want to see her, I already committed going till at least Thursday until reaching out to her by being scarce.
The thing is, she's not going out of state for another 2-3 weeks, so it seems weird to me she messaged me asking for her pants back, like it's a big sense of urgency or something. She also seemed friendly and enthused in the texts, but that's just in her nature.
My question is...
A) Do you think her sending that was just an excuse to contact me? AKA her hamster was spinning and she caved.
B) Or is it just a SH!T test to see how I react?
C) Or is it her trying to get me hooked again so she feels validated in going cold/NC as of lately?
D) Or is it that she literally just wanted her pants back?
I know she's done stuff like this in the past like "What time does your class end, I need a ride to the phone store to get it fixed" and "Hey do you know the campus policy for...(proceed to say something irrelevant)" almost like an excuse to text without being needy. Of course whenever I oblige for a favor, or chase her, her interest decreases without fail. That's why I know trying to escalate would have backfired anyway.
So I plan to go NC another day and then possibly hit her up tomorrow night, which was my original plan in the first place. Just trying to understand her motives better so I can use it to my advantage.
