Was i ever in the game?

magevis

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I never actually posted anything previously but I'm not new to SS. I have been following silently for quite a while.
OK.There's this chic a hb9. I met her 4 months ago in a mall by cold approach. I was new in the town we met by then so I asked her to guide me to the nearest bus stop as I needed to head home.we walked for a short while,like 10 minutes,through which I tried to game her though she wasn't that enthusiastic.
After she pointed to the bus stop as she walked away to where she was heading(back to work.she worked at a supermarket for nivea promotion then), I held her her back and told her to wait.I then proceeded to tell her that I wanted to see her again.she said that she wasn't going to give me her number.
I told her that's not what I wanted.what I wanted was to see her again.she told me the name of the supermarket and when she's on duty.
a few weeks later I was back to the town so u passed by her workplace.she wasn't so thrilled to see me, I must say.she said she had a busy day and we could talk some other day.no biggie.I left.
I went back just over a week later only to be told that she no longer works at the place anymore.I was disappointed to say the least
I forgot about her anyway, until I bumped into her in a mall,last week.she seemed pleased to see me and kept giggling and all that, as we chatted for a while.I did not ask for her number.again.although I mentioned seeing each other again , at which point she said OK and went into silence as if waiting for me to ask for her number.as I said, I did not.
Luck was on my side (or so I thought) when we inadvertently met in the streets yesterday what I mean is I changed direction to follow her in the opposite when we met as she wouldn't stop.yeah i know.I wasn't doing it in a weird or desperate manner and was sure to be playful about it although she acted aloof.

Now here is where it all starts.we are walking along a street with boutiques. she stops and gets into one to check out clothes.I stay outside chatting up a text book vendor by a kiosk so as to not seem desperate.suddenly she calls out my name. I ignore as I continue to chat up the vendor.she's persistent. I look back and she signals me to come.

I continue with the vendor for another minute then I head into the boutique.
she shows me a dress and asks me to pay for it. I casually say no. she puts the dress back and we walk out.without asking, she says she's not giving me her number and that she is bad news(her words).I tell her I'm worse.
she makes to walk away and I reach for her arm. she points at me and says 'dont!' in a matter of fact voice. I let go and tell her bye.
It's definitely over.Next.
 

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She views you as an AFC chump. She thought you'd buy her the dress. Personally I'd be insulted.
 

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Wow. That's pathetic. Why would she think you'd buy anything for her? You need to get your game tightened up.
She viewed him as the type of guy who would...that's never a good sign when you come off like that...
 

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Wow. That's pathetic. Why would she think you'd buy anything for her? You need to get your game tightened up.
How? what part of my game? I need examples from my story of things I might have done to make me come off like the provider type.
 

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How? what part of my game? I need examples from my story of things I might have done to make me come off like the provider type.
It's impossible to know. Most of what you communicate is non verbal...body language, tonality, etc...perhaps you came off as weak in these areas but again there is no way of knowing. What is for sure is you were never in the game. No woman who likes a guy is going to not give their number...
 

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you should have gotten the hint when she didnt want to give you her number the first time you saw her.
You would have saved you a lot of energy and time with a woman that was not into you from the begining.

I dont really understand why you persisted so much...lmao.

You had to get rejected like four times to understand that she wasnt into you.
 

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It was a good idea to ask her the way to the bus station and since you were talking with her for 10 minutes , you might had said some afc sh!t to her that turned her off(i came into this conclusion because you were smart enough to give up at your 4th attemt and not at the 10th as most of people are doing) and not allowing you take from her the digits. From this point you should had taken your way and leave this b!tch behind.

Rule number one: Get her fcking digits , if not ,abandon the ship
 

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she shows me a dress and asks me to pay for it. I casually say no. she puts the dress back and we walk out.without asking, she says she's not giving me her number and that she is bad news(her words).
If you bought the dress she may have let you hold her hand. Now you'll never know.
 

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If you bought the dress she may have let you hold her hand. Now you'll never know.
To quote marcus aurelius, each day provides its own gifts.
 
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