DonJuanByNature said:
now let me explain...
Don Juan (true don juan) is someone that seduces women BY ANY MEANS POSSIBLE>..
Thus, like it or not.. he would simply NOT CARE if you gave him EVEN THE OBVIOUS "im not interested" signals and STILL try to seduce your as.s... even if you had a sign that said "guys dont talk to me" he would still try to talk to you....
The point is here, wether you like it or not, very FEW women actually know what they want, and if you listen to their advice or suggestion you will be a lost cause... This site is made to help AFC.. women posting on here will only confuse them...
I will agree there is always exception to the rule.. BUT, very rare...
If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck..its a fcking duck...
The point I am trying to make IS THIS!!!!!!!!!!!! the man DID NOT NEED HELP FROM THIS SITE... THE MAN CAN POST ON HERE AND HELP YOU GUYS OUT.. fact of the matter, is he probably threw the napkin out and didnt give 2 shi.ts.... I would have acted same way as he did.. and laugh at girl that gave me napkin.. You didn't understand his true intent.. he was aware of signals and he knew what he was doing.. duh...
Ok, I read, I listened, I re-read and really tried to grasp. Answer a question for me, pretty please, it may help me see that light….doubtful, but I am open to correction.
If he was fully aware of the signals and knew what he was doing…
WHY??? Why would a mature man (age only) hit on/seduce an obvious “dead end”?
Would he do it for practice? Extra energy to waste? Brush up on his technique?
To me, and married women I know, it is extremely pathetic and desperate for a mature man to try to hit on a married woman. I mean if he is only after as$, why go for someone with strikes against her?
Again, we are talking people in their late 20’s – 30’s here, not 16 – 18 and still sporting monkey hormones. Yes, mature men still have monkey hormones; they just use a finer form of valor in dealing with them.
The “art of seduction” goes WELL BEYOND the starting gate. You preach proudly the “starting gate”, even invented your own “starts”, rarely do you speak of the ‘beyond’. I am not talking marriage or even long term, just something beyond. Your 200+ posts on approach methods lead me to believe 1.) you’re only 14 or 2.) you’re failing fast.
So, when he approached, I evaluated, in my little chick like mind, that a 30ish year old man, still at the starting gate of an approach, hitting on a married women that is displaying total non-interest, could really benefit from this site.
OMG! are YOU in Florida???? O_O
You want to just agree to respectfully disagree?? I am game, if not fire away, I am bullet proof.
Ok, (.)(.), I did not speak of me directly AND didn’t use the word “hubs” once. Do I get ½ a point??? *winks*