Wanting To Help A Young African Lady

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Just wondering what your friends think about you sending her money? Are they helping out too?

Instead of taking on all the responsibility why not approach it as a group?

I'd be worried about sending a lot of money to someone in a poor area. You might be setting her up for a lot of trouble if others find out.

If it is all legit I'd send in smaller amounts over a longer period of time.
 

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Powerlifter said:
The purpose of my thread was to see if anyone has experienced that part of the world Tanzani specifically it's Moshi, Tanzani and it's people and I end up getting the 3rd degree for wanting to help a young lady who lives there who is studying to be a doctor which checks out from friends and family who know her personally. I was only sharing information about my experience so far with this lady and others in the area and wondered if other had similar experiences if any.

I am blamed for being a troll and I should be banned for wanting to help a less fortune individual out.

So to be a real man is to be selffish and self centered and to turn a blind eye.

I intend to share my wealth where I see fit being I am single and never married with no kids. I am sorry I bored the forum with my thread so Moderators delete this thread and unregister my account please.

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If this is truly just you sharing your wealth, and not being Captain Educate-A-Ho, then God bless you. :woo:

Someone please move this to Anything Else.
 

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Dear Moderator,
In the best interests of this site you should close this thread.
 

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Powerlifter said:
The purpose of my thread was to see if anyone has experienced that part of the world Tanzani specifically it's Moshi, Tanzani and it's people and I end up getting the 3rd degree for wanting to help a young lady who lives there who is studying to be a doctor which checks out from friends and family who know her personally. I was only sharing information about my experience so far with this lady and others in the area and wondered if other had similar experiences if any.

I am blamed for being a troll and I should be banned for wanting to help a less fortune individual out.

So to be a real man is to be selffish and self centered and to turn a blind eye.

I intend to share my wealth where I see fit being I am single and never married with no kids. I am sorry I bored the forum with my thread so Moderators delete this thread and unregister my account please.

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Powerlifter, ignore all the fvckin idiots on here.

If you know it is legit, then never feel guilty about doing something like this.

Personally, I sponsor 5 kids (3 boys, 2 girls: 3 in Uganda, 1 in South Africa, 1 in Thailand) and also put money towards sponsoring a seeing eye dog in training.

Not big money, but about $4,000 a year. Sure I couldn't spend the money on something else like a big screen TV, but thus makes me feel much better.

Warrior74 said:
LOL. this has no bearing on anything this forum is about to be honest. Bringing this part of your personal life here you have to expect scrutiny. It would be foolish not to, it would be just as foolish to get butthurt over opinions that disagree with yours and run off with your tail between your legs. Chalk it up as a mistake to even post this and carry on. No Emo brah.
I disagree with the first part.

Helping others less fortunate than yourself may not get you laid, but it is a sign of a good human being.

However, I agree with the second part: others may question your motives, but only you know why you are doing it. Fvck the opinions of others.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thanks Runner83 we are brothers and God bless you!

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runner83 said:
Powerlifter, ignore all the fvckin idiots on here.

If you know it is legit, then never feel guilty about doing something like this.

Personally, I sponsor 5 kids (3 boys, 2 girls: 3 in Uganda, 1 in South Africa, 1 in Thailand) and also put money towards sponsoring a seeing eye dog in training.

Not big money, but about $4,000 a year. Sure I couldn't spend the money on something else like a big screen TV, but thus makes me feel much better.



I disagree with the first part.

Helping others less fortunate than yourself may not get you laid, but it is a sign of a good human being.

However, I agree with the second part: others may question your motives, but only you know why you are doing it. Fvck the opinions of others.
 

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Squirrels, if I am not mistaken your black with a short and thin penis and one day soon your ancestry will kick your black niger ass where it belongs as my thread is to mature for your ignorant ass.

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QUOTE=squirrels]If this is truly just you sharing your wealth, and not being Captain Educate-A-Ho, then God bless you. :woo:

Someone please move this to Anything Else.[/QUOTE]
 

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I appreciate your advice Slickster my friends see no problem with it as they know her personally. They are not as well off as I am so that is the reason a group giving isn't possible.

She is in an area that won't effect her safety her friends are all Christian and the medical school she is enrolled in is a christian organization.

What I send in my opinion is a smaller amount and so far all is good.

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Slickster said:
Just wondering what your friends think about you sending her money? Are they helping out too?

Instead of taking on all the responsibility why not approach it as a group?

I'd be worried about sending a lot of money to someone in a poor area. You might be setting her up for a lot of trouble if others find out.

If it is all legit I'd send in smaller amounts over a longer period of time.
 

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Squirrels, if I am not mistaken your black with a short and thin penis and one day soon your ancestry will kick your black niger ass where it belongs as my thread is to mature for your ignorant ass.

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QUOTE=squirrels]If this is truly just you sharing your wealth, and not being Captain Educate-A-Ho, then God bless you. :woo:

Someone please move this to Anything Else.
[/QUOTE]


wait, what?
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I just wanted to add to my other post that your a joke and dumbass and should learn to read before you post your ignorance child.

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Iceberg said:
I was going to write a nice, polite explanation of why this is stupid. Then I decided to research your other posts to see if you had a history of saying/asking stupid questions.

You do.

So, I dont know if you're a troll or whatever. But the fact that you even took the time to write this question already tells me that you think it's a dumb idea. Because if I had to send some money to my friend in Mexico, I'd just do it. I wouldn't come on the Don Juan Discussion Board and ask. Maybe I'd even Google "Wiring money to foreign countries". But I have no idea why a logical person would come here for advice on this, except for the purpose of trolling.

So you know this is stupid, and you're just asking because you want people to pay attention to you.

Congrats.
 

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Your post shows your ignorant ass for what it is bro. You have no clue and no I am not hurt especially when it comes from the expert of this forum I am going to be 52 Warror72 child you have not experience like I have so get over your dam self.

I had respect for you Warrior but now my nose is full of snot ready to blow out your bullcrap.

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Warrior74 said:
LOL. this has no bearing on anything this forum is about to be honest. Bringing this part of your personal life here you have to expect scrutiny. It would be foolish not to, it would be just as foolish to get butthurt over opinions that disagree with yours and run off with your tail between your legs. Chalk it up as a mistake to even post this and carry on. No Emo brah.
 

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Well, I get e-mails all the time from women I don't know who want money[eventually] I just tell them I don't give money to strangers upfront[amazing how fast they leave].

BUT if you have PERSONAL friends who know her,may be a different deal.
 

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Mods,
Why hasn't this thread been removed? This is no place her for racist remarks.
 

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Powerlifter said:
Squirrels, if I am not mistaken your black with a short and thin penis and one day soon your ancestry will kick your black niger ass where it belongs as my thread is to mature for your ignorant ass.

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:crackup:
 

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Your post shows your ignorant ass for what it is bro. You have no clue and no I am not hurt especially when it comes from the expert of this forum I am going to be 52 Warror72 child you have not experience like I have so get over your dam self.

I had respect for you Warrior but now my nose is full of snot ready to blow out your bullcrap.

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I don't give a damn if you respect me or not. I'm not your son or your Dad. You shoulda put this in Anything else if any where, it had nothing to do with dating or anything else for that matter, it was well random. What was you point of even posting this? What did you hope to achieve? You sound really butthurt, you're kinda too old not to know the consequences of your own actions aren't you? What, you thought you were gonna get some props from these cynical fvcks. :) Good luck with that!
 
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