I have been going to a local sports bar for a couple months after moving to the area. I saw this one waitress there about a month and a half ago and she was very flirty she would eye me 10 feet coming until dropping her head and giggling. Of course I assume its what shes paid to do, none of my other friends could ever get more than the usual polite smile off of her. I have never sat at her table, I sit at the bar everytime.
It kept going on, a lot of looks exchanged etc. then about 2 weeks ago I friend got up to go use the bathroom and she came over to grab some napkins off the bar. She introduced herself to me and said it was good to finally meet me. She walked away and threw the napkins away without every using them, it was clearly an excuse to say hi.
So now when I go in I say hi by name and I still catch all the looks + now she will walk by and rub my arm and seems really happy to see me. It's tough as it can be a busy place and I still don't know if its interest or playing. I am really bad in these scenarios though I have been quite lucky with meeting bar staff.
On St Patricks day I had a bartender take my phone out of my hand, turn around and put her info in it, and then later call me at 2:45AM. I am not sure how to proceed with this situation because shes flirting but it could be just playing. I want to just give it a shot with the understanding it probably won't work but I have never directly hit on someone working in a bar.
I have seen the girl out of work (she didnt see me) and did not approach only because she was so drunk her friend was keeping her upright,this happened to be St. Patrick's day and before I actually saw her working at the bar. Another night we saw her again, lost track of her, later that night she was with a guy who clearly just picked her up that night. So she was single for sure at some point during this time and at worst is most likely dating.
My biggest problem is that I just don't want to come off as one of the many that blatantly try hitting on her. Only thing I can come up with is to just ask her if she'd like to get a drink outside of her work sometime? I'm meeting my friends at the bar later today. Sadly my approach "game" is terrible, once I get past that I'm good.
It kept going on, a lot of looks exchanged etc. then about 2 weeks ago I friend got up to go use the bathroom and she came over to grab some napkins off the bar. She introduced herself to me and said it was good to finally meet me. She walked away and threw the napkins away without every using them, it was clearly an excuse to say hi.
So now when I go in I say hi by name and I still catch all the looks + now she will walk by and rub my arm and seems really happy to see me. It's tough as it can be a busy place and I still don't know if its interest or playing. I am really bad in these scenarios though I have been quite lucky with meeting bar staff.
On St Patricks day I had a bartender take my phone out of my hand, turn around and put her info in it, and then later call me at 2:45AM. I am not sure how to proceed with this situation because shes flirting but it could be just playing. I want to just give it a shot with the understanding it probably won't work but I have never directly hit on someone working in a bar.
I have seen the girl out of work (she didnt see me) and did not approach only because she was so drunk her friend was keeping her upright,this happened to be St. Patrick's day and before I actually saw her working at the bar. Another night we saw her again, lost track of her, later that night she was with a guy who clearly just picked her up that night. So she was single for sure at some point during this time and at worst is most likely dating.
My biggest problem is that I just don't want to come off as one of the many that blatantly try hitting on her. Only thing I can come up with is to just ask her if she'd like to get a drink outside of her work sometime? I'm meeting my friends at the bar later today. Sadly my approach "game" is terrible, once I get past that I'm good.
