want my girl back!

source55

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Hello,

My half year gf left me on march, nad since then we talked a little less and argued a lot al i said some words I shouldn't some were really mean. She left me becase we argued too much. It was my fault because i always got mad at whatever she did and was too jelous... Now I know what I did wrong, but now 3months have passed and she kind of got over me... But I didn't. We were still making out 2weeks ago but then I broke down and said i want her back and she said we are never gonna be back again just friends...She was the best thing that haplened to me. (A lot of reasons)
I really badly want her back no matter what. She said we can be just friends ...
Is there any hope left?

Dont tell me to forget her. Used your guides in the last 3months and it didnt help! I just simply cant accept that she is gone.
 

AttackFormation

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In five words: There is no hope left.

If you can't accept that she is gone, if you don't see how pathetic you are right now and the improvement that YOU have the power to make, fine - remain an AFC.

Stop obsessing over someone who is glad to be rid of you. Look at yourself, is this the man you want to be? The guides are GUIDES, only you can help yourself.
 

El Payaso

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Troll. Poor effort.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Sino Zane

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Stop. Just stop.

Likely there is no hope to get her back, but your best shot is to improve yourself and let her see these improvements and what she's missing out on.

Also, spend the plates, amigo.
 

jacob

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there is maybe one last chance that will reignite her attraction for you, but it's a long shot since it's already been 4 months since the break up.

The only chance is to make her jealous. If you got her on a social network, make sure she sees a picture of you and a girl together happy. Make sure that her friends tell her about it and she hears news that your dating someone else, but in order for this to work the new girl has to really like you and you guys went out on a few real dates.

Either than that, it's a lost cause bro all the begging and pleading will only make her run away more and she'll lose all respect for you if she already hasn't by now...
 

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Well I made mistakes, I let my self so low... And made her just freak out how weird I can get.
Sorry jacob, she said she kind of sees me as a brother or a friend.... So she would be happy to see me with someone.
My best shot would be just like Silo Zane said....Also I kind of know, what was that reason she fell for me....

Im sorry guys...Tried to let her go...There are some things that people don't understand...Some of us just can't let go of things...Yesterday my only thought was suicide....

(btw i was with her half a year, and before we were best friends for 2 years)
 

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source55 said:
Well I made mistakes, I let my self so low... And made her just freak out how weird I can get.
Sorry jacob, she said she kind of sees me as a brother or a friend.... So she would be happy to see me with someone.
My best shot would be just like Silo Zane said....Also I kind of know, what was that reason she fell for me....

Im sorry guys...Tried to let her go...There are some things that people don't understand...Some of us just can't let go of things...Yesterday my only thought was suicide....

(btw i was with her half a year, and before we were best friends for 2 years)
I understand where you are coming from. It can certainly be very hard to move on from a woman whom you've had a bunch of great experiences with, and whom you've gone through so many emotions for.

Life is a series of ups and downs. Right now, it is at its low point for you. But if you keep at it, and aim towards improving yourself and meeting new people and especially newer, hotter women, life will get better for you. Trust me. You have to be strong. The strong survive and the weak do not. going through this type of experience is happening for a reason, and your main goal should be to come out stronger as a result.

Good luck.

Sino Zane
 

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First off, you will never get her back. You can have sex with her, but the relationship is done. If you want to screw her again:

jacob said:
The only chance is to make her jealous. If you got her on a social network, make sure she sees a picture of you and a girl together happy.
Combine that with ignoring her and she'll be running back. Tell her to meet up at your place, bang her, then EXCOMMUNICATE. PERIOD.

My best advice to you is to remember the time before her and think as you did when you were single. Find a girl you like ASAP and start new. Dwelling in emotional bs is the worst thing you could do to yourself.
 

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Well there will be no sex, because we never had it, she's a virgin and afraid of such things... She doesn't finger and nothing....

Well see what will happen, I hope that if im gonna be fun like I was last year she will fall for me...

Last year it was like best friends, and then I did some things that made her fall in love...but maybe u cant succeed 2x...

Also im gonna try to make her jelaous...but that wont maybe work....i know her...she's gonna be happy for me actually :S
 

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FOR ****SAKES! Okay... First mistake.. Apologizing for being an ******* -- she was probably being a *****. Now you are turning into a little cry baby anti-seducer that would drive any women away period! I am not sorry but I am going to chill lol. Okay so you want her back? Well then I recommend that you want some other hab and get her then rub it in your last one's face. Then she will want you. Godspeed brotha.
 

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I just can't work this out, I can't know if she even cares.. Now she is showing the I don't care looks, but I know her too well...I know that she can act like she doesn't care, but then later she would go cry in her bed.
Im trying stuff like you adviced btw...

Found out, her parents hate me...
 
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Okay, things are looking bad.
I'm now probably sure, it's never gonna be like it was.
She wants to go out more and hang with friends.
She got bored of me.
Her parents really hate me.

I just have to get over this. I cant. 3 months later and I can't.
I just can't accept stuff -.-
Also I have a problem that I will never find a girl so sexy and fun at the same time. Guys. im watching porn where the girl looks like her. She's the hottest thing ever omg. I can't get over this neither.
 

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You guys really dont know about him ? o_O
Hes actually rich because of poker and now hes really rich and rubs it in our faces with hot girls and cars :D
 
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