Wanna spin plates,but keep meeting women who push for exclusivity. How to deal with it

[derby1]

I humbly and completely agree bro..that's why I am here to learn. Been in so many LTR'S where everytime, at the end I had to conclude I saw it all wrong. But too many LTR'S take away from skills like what I'm looking for now. Besides that, most of my friends also only know blue pilled love, where they "just want a nice GF", so this knowledge is hard to get by.

women will try and turn you into a beta provider at your age, you are the same age as me, most women have kids, and want a guy they can control in return for transactional sex.

you will notice a lot of women our age go out with guys who arent that special and are blue pill, this is her mating strategy..

she ,moves him in her welfare house, and hes probably got a half decent job so he buys her food shopping etc

many women will ghost you if they sense your "alpha" and wont move in hers, weeks later you will see or hear about her reuniting with the beta provider.

never ever move in a womans house, she will de-ball you.

 

[derby1]

-I expected nothing but was sweeped of my feet
- I haven't felt like this for such a long time
- I feel like I am falling for you too fast.
- wanted you here on my family day(crazy I know)
-i am in control normally

weve discussed super high interest from women, probably had argument with ex the night before.

tread carefully, keep attention light, bang as quick as you can

expect to be ghosted 3 minutes after shes told you your the man of her dreams.........(I know)

 

[Gamisch]

I'm a LTR-looking guy too, which kind of sucks imo. I attract women who want to use me to assauge past hurts and to make herself "feel good" about the dating scene again (i.e., that there are "nice guys" out there who won't want to take advantage of her).

With respect to your date, could be narcissistic love bombing by the girl. This type of girl (who does this) often is looking for Ms. Perfect and deludes herself into thinking each new prospect is "the one" in order to keep herself motivated for her search. If you haven't banged her, you can suss her out by taking things sexual and see how she reacts. If she reacts positively, then this is true high interest. Just watch for the neurotic ones who will get sexual with you, only to draw back hard due to ASD.

weve discussed super high interest from women, probably had argument with ex the night before.

tread carefully, keep attention light, bang as quick as you can

expect to be ghosted 3 minutes after shes told you your the man of her dreams.........(I know)

Yup, thats why I keep posting stuff like this ,to get this kinda feedback. Back then I would be with my head in the clouds, now I am just holding back ,play along , and keep some room for reality to kick back in .

Our ego let's us believe we are " so special " that we make this happen, only to let our guard down and be hurt again. That's why I love this community! To stay sharp like a knife and learn from other Djs experiences.

Although, there is also another plus side ,(but time will tell if I am right), that is that this knowledge that we share does indeed makes us more and more attractive and gives us more and more leverage over the women we meet, I just see it happening on a daily base now. Like learning chess, you lose over and over again, but at some point you get some nice wins...

But sloots will always be sloots regardless!!