The red pill manosphere speaks of the “wall” as an immovable, insurmountable monolith that all women inevitably must “hit.” The “wall” is thus misogynistically gendered as a comeuppance to women -- retribution for being young and attractive and passing us over for Chad.
There is no “wall” insofar as it’s uniquely a female phenomenon. Men hit the wall. In many cases, men hit the wall far earlier than women. In many cases, women don’t hit the wall until late middle age.
The popular jock Chad in my high school that all the hottest girls obsessed over was fat and balding by his late 20’s.
The 2 most objectively beautiful women I ever dated were in their early-mid 30’s.
Many people, men and women, begin to prioritize exercise and proper diet in their 30’s and 40’s. I am in far, far better shape now than I was in my 20’s. Many people, men and women, also let themselves go.
Some people age more poorly than others. Cameron Diaz is a more striking example of an aging female celebrity, but take a look at Brendan Fraser, Matthew Perry or even Leo DiCaprio. If there’s a “wall” these dudes hit it like brick through sheetrock. This is not gender-specific. It’s genetics, ethnicity, lifestyle (especially hard-partying celebrity lifestyles), etc.