dagreatgrizz23
Don Juan
Don Juans,
There's this girl I've been talking to... for the entire second semester, which is about to end as were admist finals week. We had a thing last year, but things weren't going the way as I liked. I walked away. During this years first semester she would randomly text me a bunch of bull****, but it turns out she was still into me.
Now, at the beginning of this semester she sends me a text on the very first day. At first I was very hesitant towards her because the first go around didn't work it too well, and I was focused on other girls and other aspects of my life. This girl kept pursuing, kept texting me etc.. Ive taken her on a date event to my fraternity bar crawl, she's taken me to her sorority formal. Ive paid for most of our times out, and she has paid once or twice.
We had a conversation two weeks ago. She told me she didn't want a relationship, and asked me what I wanted from this. I told her I wanted to hook up, I wanted more then just kissing, clearly; I said that I wanted to take things in stride and see where things go. She told me that she was uncomfortable about the topic but she was thinking about hooking up with me, but she "wasn't sure if she wanted to like me in that way, but she does like me". I also informed her that I would be very hesitant to hang out with her over the summer if we were not to hook up. This was all in person.
Now, the semester is coming to a conclusion. The conversation about hooking up came up again. She told me that she didn't really want to hook up, and that maybe we could just be friends. I told her thats not an option as that would be playing me and that I cannot be just friends with her, or just her boy toy who she makes out with every once in awhile. I've went from contacting her every once in awhile to almost no contact whatsoever... only replying to her snapchats or text messages about "how she misses me".
Am I doing the right thing? Do I maintain distant? This girl will be thinking about me all summer, if I leave her like this. Its been essentially 12 weeks since we've been hanging out. We were going to the library, getting food, going to the pool. Its pretty obvious that this girl likes me, but its also pretty bogus that she hasn't put out. She doesn't know what she wants, but I have other girls particularly those at home that are waiting for me.
There's this girl I've been talking to... for the entire second semester, which is about to end as were admist finals week. We had a thing last year, but things weren't going the way as I liked. I walked away. During this years first semester she would randomly text me a bunch of bull****, but it turns out she was still into me.
Now, at the beginning of this semester she sends me a text on the very first day. At first I was very hesitant towards her because the first go around didn't work it too well, and I was focused on other girls and other aspects of my life. This girl kept pursuing, kept texting me etc.. Ive taken her on a date event to my fraternity bar crawl, she's taken me to her sorority formal. Ive paid for most of our times out, and she has paid once or twice.
We had a conversation two weeks ago. She told me she didn't want a relationship, and asked me what I wanted from this. I told her I wanted to hook up, I wanted more then just kissing, clearly; I said that I wanted to take things in stride and see where things go. She told me that she was uncomfortable about the topic but she was thinking about hooking up with me, but she "wasn't sure if she wanted to like me in that way, but she does like me". I also informed her that I would be very hesitant to hang out with her over the summer if we were not to hook up. This was all in person.
Now, the semester is coming to a conclusion. The conversation about hooking up came up again. She told me that she didn't really want to hook up, and that maybe we could just be friends. I told her thats not an option as that would be playing me and that I cannot be just friends with her, or just her boy toy who she makes out with every once in awhile. I've went from contacting her every once in awhile to almost no contact whatsoever... only replying to her snapchats or text messages about "how she misses me".
Am I doing the right thing? Do I maintain distant? This girl will be thinking about me all summer, if I leave her like this. Its been essentially 12 weeks since we've been hanging out. We were going to the library, getting food, going to the pool. Its pretty obvious that this girl likes me, but its also pretty bogus that she hasn't put out. She doesn't know what she wants, but I have other girls particularly those at home that are waiting for me.
