Well, congrats to you level 1 SSer. Now you have some experience with actual women and SS, even though it was online, you feel the power of the tool in your hands.
Now the time has come for you to learn how to use this system with the maximum effectiveness. This is what this lesson is about. It will explain to you some additional steps you should go through, to guarantee the effectiveness of your weasel phrases.
This process requires attention to details and some memorization. First, you find a customized key to the individual and them once you have it, you can apply it repeatedly with great success.
How do you do it??? First, you have to identify whether she's a visual, audio or kinesthetic person. Then you identify what her values are and what her desired states are, what she would like to experience. You do it by listening carefully and by paying attention. Then, when you know exactly how she perceive the world and what she wants to experience, you construct a weasel phrase that makes her feel exactly the way she wants and the message is presented in the most comprehendible form for her.
The original method used by Jeffries to identify this is as follows:
You ask a question: "Was it something you saw??? Was it something you heard??? Was it something you felt???"
They will choose to reply "I felt blah blah blah" and you conclude: "aha!! She's kinesthetic!!!!!" I have no idea whether Jeffries actually pulled this off, but the convo stalls quite often during this trick. I've tried it many times and it always came out too artificial and too cheesy. This is not the way people talk and girls become very conscious about the way you talk and say: "Do you always talk like this??" or "You sound strange"
So I have developed a much easier way to determine what her primary sensory system is. Everything can be said in different ways, for example if a person is convinced that there is a fair chance of something bad happening in the future, they can say it many different ways:
Kinesthetic:
I have a bad feeling about this.
I feel trouble with my gut.
I feel something is gonna go wrong.
Visual:
I see we're not gonna get away with this easy.
I see that something bad will happen.
I see no other way
Audio:
I have a voice inside me telling ...
You know a little voice that tells you....
Something tells me that....
And very rarely you will see someone saying:
I smell trouble = aromatic person
See how easy it is to identify what sensory system a person has.
If other words, we know how to bypass the little fat logical guy, because all logical guys are the same. But the cute "feelings girls" are all different. Some of them have big eyes and are deaf. Some of them have big ears and are almost blind. So if you tell a half blind girl: "see the incredible attraction", it wont do any good, because the image will be blurry. But if you say: "have you ever had this voice telling you that you are just fascinated by him" she will definitely hear this voice with her big ears and will be incredibly fascinated.
Exercise 2.1:
Pick a movie on your DVD/VCR. Listen to the dialogue and determine whether the characters are visual/audio/kinesthetic. Post your results here: http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum8/HTML/000089.html
Now that you have identified her main sensory system, how do you use it??? You pick those commands verbs that will work best to your subject.
Audio:
Hear...
Tells...
You know, when you have this voice telling you....
When something tells you....
Kinesthetic:
Feel.....
Sense.....
Touch.....
Grab.....
Seize....
Visual:
See....
Imagine...
Picture....
Paint....
Like a movie....
Then you substitute the weasel phrases that she needs to comprehend you better. When you have visual person, you use visual weasel phrases most of the time. If audio, then audio. The girl will be able to go into much deeper trances because you are communicating through the most efficient way possible.
To find out her values, do a research to eliciting values, but usually its easy to figure out. We all want to be loved, accepted, to be secure, trusted, to be free, havo good sex, be in love, have a feeling of self worth, but sometimes some needs are deeper than the other ones. It is your job to identify those needs and satisfy them.
Exercise 2:
Find out whether your parents/girlfriends/friends' sensory systems are and put them in trance. Post your results here. http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum8/HTML/000090.html
This concludes VSSM lesson 2. Guys, bump it from time to time, cause cant do it alone.
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_-=/Comrade Vronski\=-_
[This message has been edited by Vronski (edited 12-07-2002).]
Now the time has come for you to learn how to use this system with the maximum effectiveness. This is what this lesson is about. It will explain to you some additional steps you should go through, to guarantee the effectiveness of your weasel phrases.
This process requires attention to details and some memorization. First, you find a customized key to the individual and them once you have it, you can apply it repeatedly with great success.
How do you do it??? First, you have to identify whether she's a visual, audio or kinesthetic person. Then you identify what her values are and what her desired states are, what she would like to experience. You do it by listening carefully and by paying attention. Then, when you know exactly how she perceive the world and what she wants to experience, you construct a weasel phrase that makes her feel exactly the way she wants and the message is presented in the most comprehendible form for her.
The original method used by Jeffries to identify this is as follows:
You ask a question: "Was it something you saw??? Was it something you heard??? Was it something you felt???"
They will choose to reply "I felt blah blah blah" and you conclude: "aha!! She's kinesthetic!!!!!" I have no idea whether Jeffries actually pulled this off, but the convo stalls quite often during this trick. I've tried it many times and it always came out too artificial and too cheesy. This is not the way people talk and girls become very conscious about the way you talk and say: "Do you always talk like this??" or "You sound strange"
So I have developed a much easier way to determine what her primary sensory system is. Everything can be said in different ways, for example if a person is convinced that there is a fair chance of something bad happening in the future, they can say it many different ways:
Kinesthetic:
I have a bad feeling about this.
I feel trouble with my gut.
I feel something is gonna go wrong.
Visual:
I see we're not gonna get away with this easy.
I see that something bad will happen.
I see no other way
Audio:
I have a voice inside me telling ...
You know a little voice that tells you....
Something tells me that....
And very rarely you will see someone saying:
I smell trouble = aromatic person
See how easy it is to identify what sensory system a person has.
If other words, we know how to bypass the little fat logical guy, because all logical guys are the same. But the cute "feelings girls" are all different. Some of them have big eyes and are deaf. Some of them have big ears and are almost blind. So if you tell a half blind girl: "see the incredible attraction", it wont do any good, because the image will be blurry. But if you say: "have you ever had this voice telling you that you are just fascinated by him" she will definitely hear this voice with her big ears and will be incredibly fascinated.
Exercise 2.1:
Pick a movie on your DVD/VCR. Listen to the dialogue and determine whether the characters are visual/audio/kinesthetic. Post your results here: http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum8/HTML/000089.html
Now that you have identified her main sensory system, how do you use it??? You pick those commands verbs that will work best to your subject.
Audio:
Hear...
Tells...
You know, when you have this voice telling you....
When something tells you....
Kinesthetic:
Feel.....
Sense.....
Touch.....
Grab.....
Seize....
Visual:
See....
Imagine...
Picture....
Paint....
Like a movie....
Then you substitute the weasel phrases that she needs to comprehend you better. When you have visual person, you use visual weasel phrases most of the time. If audio, then audio. The girl will be able to go into much deeper trances because you are communicating through the most efficient way possible.
To find out her values, do a research to eliciting values, but usually its easy to figure out. We all want to be loved, accepted, to be secure, trusted, to be free, havo good sex, be in love, have a feeling of self worth, but sometimes some needs are deeper than the other ones. It is your job to identify those needs and satisfy them.
Exercise 2:
Find out whether your parents/girlfriends/friends' sensory systems are and put them in trance. Post your results here. http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum8/HTML/000090.html
This concludes VSSM lesson 2. Guys, bump it from time to time, cause cant do it alone.
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_-=/Comrade Vronski\=-_
[This message has been edited by Vronski (edited 12-07-2002).]
