Thanks guys..
TLP:
Fact: Ive been with this girl since approximately - January.
Fact 2: I only post things I would like advice on from other certified DJs on this forum.
Fact 3: I have posted 5 things about this girl since January. One of which (This post) is not even a problem, as Violent V pointed out, she's being a woman asking for more attention. So lets take this one out, and make it 4.
So you're sayin I have come across 4 issues in 4 months and so I should be single?
Ive had my share of women, and I know I can go out and get laid in NO TIME. But getting laid by different women is not my goal right now. I have goals in my life that I am achieving and as far as i can tell, this girl fits in 90% of what i need from a woman for NOW. Im not saying my needs from a woman will not change next month, but for now she fits it, and she fits it better than anyone other girl ive laid. So for now, i want her in my life. Of course, if it gets annoying with arguments and negativity, and has a detrimental effect on my goals, objectives and my bank account? Then yes i will take action and drop her like a bad habit. I have no problem with doing so.
I think its safe to say that, you can NEVER find someone that is 100% fit to what you want in someone. There will always be things that dont fit into you're lifestyle. But its a numbers game in weigh scale of pro's vs cons of being with that person. Its the same with plates, Think about it.
You're tapping a plate, you have a relationship with her. If its a long term FB, then you're still having a relationship with her. The only difference is you're not defining it. You go out and tap this girl, but to do that you spend time together right? because I have had plates before and women, especially western women, know the definition of what a bootycall is. They dont want to be that and would mostly put it out only if you spend time with them, talk and do other activities other than just s3x. Can you tell me you have a plate that you just call just to bang? with no other interaction? no talking or time together? h0e's dont count?
I appreciate women of quality, who can keep you happy and one you can fall back on if needed. Ive been playing this game since forever and ive only had one LTR in the past. Everyother chic has been a lay, a plate. That involves spending time with them, then bang bang.
Lets get this straight, everyguy on here loves spending time with females. Thats what men do. We want to go out, do stuff with them, take them back home and bone. If you say otherwise, and tell me that all you want to do is stay home and call these chics and bang em all day, thats BS. I personally like doing other activities previous to tapping. Like bowling, or movies or go karting, rock climbing, ball game etc.
Life is a lot more interesting with females bru, go out there and experience actually having a woman that IS quality. But dont mistake quality with perfection. because you'll be hard pressed to find Perfection in ANY body, not just ANY woman.
Tell me, You say who the hell wants to be in a relationship with a girl that nags etc etc etc..
Are you Perfect?
6pack?
6 figure salary?
Mercedes S6?
6 feet?
6 inches?
6 bedroom penthouse?
6000 on you're SAT?
6 Businesses?
I doubt it. so how can you say you want everyone else to be perfect?
Ive learnt to live in harmony with females than calling them out on every lil fvk up they have. Enjoying their ups and downs is actually fun. I ask here for advice but it doesnt mean im a loser for asking more experienced guys.
Ive been blessed with many of the 6's that ive listen up top, not all but most, and all i focus on...is me, my money, God and my family. if a woman can respect that and help you get further in you're goals then why not keep her around?
Think about it before you start bashing dudes that are in a relationship that is not many degrees away from that of a DJ & his favourite plate.