Virgin: First-timers DONT have to lose virginity to a wh**e, right?

j8snx1

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I read that post about the 29-year-old-virgin guy, and some DJ's suggested that a virgin should bang a prostitue/easy girl to gain first-hand experience on sex.

Seriously...is that necessary? I'm a virgin and I'm not ashamed to admit it. I don't think you NEED a loose-as-a-grandma's **** to get a feel on what sex is like. If the girl you are with (assuming the guy and girl are really close) and has sex but the guy doesnt do so hot, then the girl would give him a second chance if she really cares for him, no?

In my case, I don't want to sell my virginity away just to see what sex is like. Giving it away to a girl who's lost her's eons ago doesn't sound like a healthy plan. Most of you guys here are either older than me or had sex earlier, so what do you guys think?

First time sex with a loose one: Necessary or Unnecessary?
 

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You seem like the type of person that likes to earn something. There are people who don't neccesarily like that feeling.

Am I right?
 

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I lost mine when I was 18 to someone who I was deeply in love with.

And let me tell you, boy did I become a pro the very next day.

I don't think it matters who you screw honestly.

Good Luck!
 

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Do it the right way, with someone whom there is at least a realistic chance of a LTR. And a woman should not dump you if you are bad the first time.

Being with a prostitute is not going to help. She will pretend to enjoy herself so that you finish faster and require less work from her. You could be awful at sex, and a hooker is not going to tell you. She just wants your money. There is a hooker blog at http://www.nyhotties.com/ and it reinforces these ideas. All of this girl's clients think that they really turn her on, but she is just a good actress.
 

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Losing your virginity to a prostitute is pathetic. Afterwards, if that's your thing and you are willing to risk getting AIDS or some other nasty virus, then fine. But your first time? No. Never.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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For the past couple of days, I've been trying to find a post about a guy on here who paid an escort so he could lose his virginity. It was by the member named "Lionheart". After he had done so, he found himself somewhat ashamed of his actions.

The post seems to have vanished into sosuave history. I have yet to check the wayback machine for it.

EDIT : Sorry, the poster's name was Lionfox (and I still can't find the thread)
 
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i read

i read a statistic that said that 99 percent of hookers in new york city are heroine addicts..... and of the them 95 percent have aids.....I'm 20 and a virgin...imagine how bad it would suck to lose it to a hooker and then find out that you got aids...
 

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Re: i read

Originally posted by drdrew
i read a statistic that said that 99 percent of hookers in new york city are heroine addicts..... and of the them 95 percent have aids.....I'm 20 and a virgin...imagine how bad it would suck to lose it to a hooker and then find out that you got aids...
Bull****

Do you believe everything you "read"....

MORON!!!
 

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Re: i read

Originally posted by drdrew
i read a statistic that said that 99 percent of hookers in new york city are heroine addicts..... and of the them 95 percent have aids.....I'm 20 and a virgin...imagine how bad it would suck to lose it to a hooker and then find out that you got aids...
That definatly wins the BS award of the day. First of there's no way to even sample to come up with a statistic like that accurately. Second if were to hire a "escort" from a service and they were heroin addicts, that buisness would go out of buisness rather quickly.

Prostitution is the world oldest profession and there are tons of high dollar hookers who are safe and heroin free, especially in a city like NY.

Still I recommend self improvment over highering the services. It's really just a cop out for people who've given up themselves and refuse to attempt to develop their game.

Here's a little tid bit I got from talking to some actual hookers while inside the Luxor one night drinking at the nile bar. Turns out the bulk of their clients are married or otherwise involved. Maybe that's just the scene here because of the anomnity of vegas and the fact it's a tourist destination. They commented that most of the guys, even the ones who looked like they'd shell out a ton of dough because they looked that pathetic and desperate would rather take their chances around town at bars and clubs then just get a hooker. Though that's not the case EVERY time but usually regular single dudes on vacation aren't too interested in hookers. Business men who only have a few nights in town and married/involved gus are apparently where the money is for LV hookers.

...Pimps, be sure to take note.
 

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Even prostitutes serves a purpose. If you understand what they're offering, you would know whether you require the services of one. It's all fine and dandy to use them as long as you're fully aware of what you're paying for.
 

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theres no reason u cant practice stuff on a regular girl..... "yo lemme try somethin..."
 

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No, it's not recommended that you lose your virginity to a hooker or s!ut.


The NYC story about the hookers is BS.
 

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Hahahah thanks fellas.

I wasn't planning on banging a prostitute for my first but I just wanted to know the answer to that question, since some people here resorted to that method in order to be "good in bed." :crackup:

I will never, EVER resort to prostitutes.

And yes I am the kind of guy who likes to earn something :D
It's a hell of a lot more satisfying than taking the easy route...after all, sex IS overrated.
 

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Re: i read

Originally posted by drdrew
i read a statistic that said that 99 percent of hookers in new york city are heroine addicts..... and of the them 95 percent have aids..

if you did high school maths then you'll know that statistics are calculated by taking a random sample from a community, not by going around and testing every single prostitute in NYC

although most statistics might be close to the truth, some are way off
 

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I was actually pretty damn good my first time. I attribute it to porn and a good imagination. Also the fact that I have a hard time cumming helped - I outlasted the girl easily.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Originally posted by j8snx1
First time sex with a loose one: Necessary or Unnecessary?
your 17.

don't worry about it yat

on the other hand if your 29 and still hold the card, and you wana get it over with....and you don't care who you do it with.... it's a valid alternitive.
 

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I think if you make a goal to get laid within 1 year, you're still in high school, you should be able to accomplish that goal.

If after 1 year you haven't succeeded, then go get an escort. You're in los angeles? There is NO chance of getting busted by cops, if you do your homework. If you see an escort from off the internet, you'll pay a lot, but those girls are not on drugs. A streetwalker, ya, they're on drugs. So obviously, stick to the internet.

This way, you'll get into college having already lost your v-card. Just don't make hookers a habit.

peace
 

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Originally posted by j8snx1
I read that post about the 29-year-old-virgin guy, and some DJ's suggested that a virgin should bang a prostitue/easy girl to gain first-hand experience on sex.
He wanted a know the easest way to get laid. I can't think of a easier way than a prostitue (i can think of cheaper
:D)

Originally posted by j8snx1
Seriously...is that necessary?
If it being a virgin bothers you that much then I say go to a prostitue and get it over with.
 

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Man, you are 17, not 29. When I was your age, I was maybe 1 out of 15 who had done it. When you are 29, you are 1 out of 1000 who hasn't done it, so that's a completely different thing.

Back on topic, I think everyone should make his own choice about this. We can't give suggestions about your first time.
 
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