virgin at 20

[nightcrawler]

Don't shave it, wax it (or pluck it ouch!!) That's one of the biggest unibrows I've ever seen and you would be shaving it every day.

Also to the guy above, the only way you could not have any friends is if you are a compulsive liar or don't ever go out. I don't even try, and I have a few close friends and lots of acquaintances. Try meeting people who share a common hobby, that makes it easier for a friendship to grow.

I don't ever go out..last time I went out I was like 13 and was with my parents (I'm 20 btw)

But why go out alone? and I'm also shy (until you get to know me)

 

[young_gun]

I don't ever go out..last time I went out I was like 13 and was with my parents (I'm 20 btw)

But why go out alone? and I'm also shy (until you get to know me)

13????????? Damn son, if I don't go out Friday and Saturday every week, it's a lame weekend. Get out there!!!!!!

Oh, and you're either shy or you aren't. If you're shy until people get to know you, you're shy.

 

[AFC Savior]

idiots stop posting on this, the original poster hasnt even replied yet cuz hes a fake, lock this ****in thread!

 

[SteLee]

This is me. I try and work on my personality but the only way I can think of being intresting is to talk about myself. Most of my friends find me really boring I can tell. They come out in a good mood and by the end of the night they're bored out there minds. I cant smile with my mouth open because I have crooked teeth. This is me when Im drunk.



This is me smiling.

This is me today.

 

[ChrizZ]

I was a pretty ugly 20 year old virgin once upon a time,
in the last 3 years since then I have been laid over 100 times though with fit girls, which I never would have imagined when I was 20.

Anything is possible!

If that's true you should seriously consider creating a thread on this and how you did it.

 

[wolf116]

This is me. I try and work on my personality but the only way I can think of being intresting is to talk about myself. Most of my friends find me really boring I can tell. They come out in a good mood and by the end of the night they're bored out there minds. I cant smile with my mouth open because I have crooked teeth. This is me when Im drunk.



This is me smiling.

This is me today.

Read the book 'How to win friends and influence people'. You don't seem to understand the way social interactions work.

You need to smile. A crocked smile is much friendlier then a frown.

Try cutting your hair.

 

[martinM.]

Yeah, you're not ugly. You probably feel ugly, but you're not. Anyway, try to relax, have fun.

 

[ChrizZ]

You are not ugly, it's just your style, appearance and the way you carry yourself that needs a complete makeover.

If you don't like your crooked teeth then see a dentist and fix it.

 

[AFC Savior]

you guys are a bunch of liars!!! you should be being brutally honest with each other, its the girls that need to be lied to and told what they wanna hear!!

Original Poster, u are ugly as hell and id run away if i ever saw u in person (and im a guy too)........and this is all YOUR OWN SELF INFLICTED UGLINESS

its YOUR fault that u wear the clothes u were, its YOUR fault that your hair is like that, its YOUR fault that u dont smile, its YOUR fault that u got that awful looking unibrow

good god, if u only knew that your APPEARANCE is being 100% totall controlled by YOU

its up to YOU to improve your looks, dont even worry about your personality until you got your appearance set straight

 

[MrS]

Solid advice from all.
Something else.
Don't have goals that are results.
Instead of saying "My goal for 2008 is: Get Laid with 3 women"
Make it "Go out more, work on attracting women, talk to more women, use kino on more women". That sort of thing.

 

[gherald]

work on yourself more....

you can look better...trim those eye brows a little,they're too thick...

and dont frown...

stop making stories...

 

[ChrizZ]

and that you will some day have a wife to which you will have to explain who you lost it to.

why would anybody do that?

 

[martinM.]

you guys are a bunch of liars!!! you should be being brutally honest with each other, its the girls that need to be lied to and told what they wanna hear!!

Original Poster, u are ugly as hell and id run away if i ever saw u in person (and im a guy too)........and this is all YOUR OWN SELF INFLICTED UGLINESS

its YOUR fault that u wear the clothes u were, its YOUR fault that your hair is like that, its YOUR fault that u dont smile, its YOUR fault that u got that awful looking unibrow

good god, if u only knew that your APPEARANCE is being 100% totall controlled by YOU

its up to YOU to improve your looks, dont even worry about your personality until you got your appearance set straight

The eyebrows, clothes, smile ect. were already covered by other posters. :yawn:

 

[mongolboy]

Your azz need an complete makeover there is reason why ur still a virgin at 20... but nways get an haircut definetly and get ridda that fucin unibrow! PERIOD

 

[wolf116]

Well sure, if you're not into the whole honest relationship thing that's cool too.

hey I'm in Isla Vista.

Know one was talking about being dishonest. Just not revealing to her your privet sexual past. It always turns out bad.

 

[Maxtro]

I was a virgin until I was 23, then I had to pay somebody to take it away...

It has taken me a long time to figure out what I was doing wrong, and I'm still trying to work on it.

As others have said, the first thing you have to do is work on your appearance. You don't want it to be a hindering factor with women. Also smile more but this may be hard if you rarely smile. If something even slightly gives you the desire to smile, then just smile. Don't worry about your teeth. You want girls to see you as a happy friendly guy. Start working out if your aren't already. There are many benefits to exercising.

Next you need to work on your personality and confidence. Those are my current sticking points. There is a lot of information on this forum but it's kind of every where. If I find something that has worked for me I'll post it.

 

[Maxtro]

My looks were fine but my style could have been improved and I could have used some more muscle.

Did I talk to women? No. I didn't start talking to girls until I was about 23. I just wasn't comfortable in their presence for a long time.

I also had very low confidence and self-esteem. I have greatly improved over the years but I still have a long way to go until I will get to where I want to be.

 

[Rashad]

ok.... first....

kino? he could kino a girl at eye level from 3 feet away with that brow!

( i say that out of love bro:crazy: , but get it gone!)

Second...

they have prostitutes on craigslist??????

 

[Maxtro]

Muscle is mostly meant to improve the mans self-confidence but some women, I'd say most women do care. Put three men of the same race, height and facial features next to each other with no shirts on. One is skinny, one is fat and one is athletic/toned. Which one do you think a woman would choose?

 

[young_gun]

I've seen more fat guys with hot women than I've seen skinny guys with hot women.

Lift weights. Nothing but good comes from it.