Viral Social Media

[Bingo-Player]

So I was out and about on the weekend and ended up getting a lap dance off some chick in the VIP area of a club, we were both smashed and yea things got heated between us and people started filming what was going on thinking we were fvcking (we were close too but we didnt )

I remember thinking at the time this could be a problem so I pulled her off me

But sure enough By yesterday morning someone had posted the video on several social media outlets, you can’t really see my face or hers in it, as the quality is pretty poor

but a few people I know, have managed to work out it is actually me in the video and started tagging me in it since then ive had well over 1500 friend / follow requests off strangers

after that several media outlets got hold of it and posted their own stories about it , claiming we were fvcking in the club and even some celebrities were getting involved on twitter none of these mentioned my name though luckily

ive kept my head down about it all and ive removed as many tags as possible , as im really not sure how sh1t like this could go down I mean the video has had like over 1 million views and my friend recons that not even some music videos get that

luckily I don’t have any family members on Facebook or work colleagues but it would only take one detective in the office to come across it and figure out its me

also I could just be being paranoid but im sure my boss has been a bit funny with me today

2 plates have confronted me over it ,but the others either haven’t worked out its me or are pretending not to have seen it

Also ive had like 30 random chicks inboxing me asking if its me etc etc etc

Im assuming It will all blow over by the end of the week and something else would have taken its place

But what is everyones views on this ?

Is it a case of any publicity is good publicity ?

how are chicks likely to take this ?

Am I likely to get sacked if work find this lmao ?

Thoughts please guys

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Don't admit to anything in writing, not that it's really anyone else's business anyway. There are far worse things to be found on the internet.

Wouldn't worry about work, no one can prove it's you and it has no bearing on any organisation unless you are a public figure. If you got sacked, you could very easily make a mint at an industrial tribunal.

As far as chicks go, if they contact you, just ask them out. Let them think it might be you; that's all they'll need to know.

It's a bit sad that something relatively insignificant goes viral, but then it makes a change from fckn politics I suppose. You've got pre-selection dripping off you. Nice one bro!

 

[Bingo-Player]

Don't admit to anything in writing, not that it's really anyone else's business anyway. There are far worse things to be found on the internet.

Wouldn't worry about work, no one can prove it's you and it has no bearing on any organisation unless you are a public figure. If you got sacked, you could very easily make a mint at an industrial tribunal.

As far as chicks go, if they contact you, just ask them out. Let them think it might be you; that's all they'll need to know.

It's a bit sad that something relatively insignificant goes viral, but then it makes a change from fckn politics I suppose. You've got pre-selection dripping off you. Nice one bro!

nah i havent i was quite smart in keeping my head down about it

probably about 2% of the people who have viewed the video actually know its me in it ,

its cooled down now anyway , boss is still being a bit funny today but hasnt actually mentioned anything so pherhaps it could just be something to do with her life and im being paranoid

funnily enough last night chicks started going crazy i had like 40 girls messaging me / snapping me

3 even asked me out on dates LMAO

WOMEN ARE FVCKING CRAZY

see a guy getting ridden in a club and decide they want a piece of the action too

purely reinforces the fact that what women say they want and what they actually want are two entirely different things .......

 

[mrgoodstuff]

nah i havent i was quite smart in keeping my head down about it

probably about 2% of the people who have viewed the video actually know its me in it ,

its cooled down now anyway , boss is still being a bit funny today but hasnt actually mentioned anything so pherhaps it could just be something to do with her life and im being paranoid

funnily enough last night chicks started going crazy i had like 40 girls messaging me / snapping me

3 even asked me out on dates LMAO

WOMEN ARE FVCKING CRAZY

see a guy getting ridden in a club and decide they want a piece of the action too

purely reinforces the fact that what women say they want and what they actually want are two entirely different things .......

That's not what they want though. Women are GROUP THINKERS. So if they see a lot of woman doing this one thing, they want to do it too. If none of the other women where doing it, they probably wouldn't either.

This is how a woman can be a big slvt, but doesn't really have that high of a libido. She must have friends that are mostly slvt's too and keeping up with the conversation and adding her piece.

 

[Bingo-Player]

OK basically this situation has apparently now “escalated”

Last night I had a call from the police , the video seems to have attracted such attention they are now investigating it for “outraging public decency” ( I looked into this and its seemingly some old fashioned English by-law that jobsworths use to stop people having any kind of physical contact / fun in public although it sounds pretty flimsy )

The officer told me he thinks he is able to link me in the video to the club as he has a scan on my driving license from the night I was in the club ….

I questioned this and he was stuttering, unfortunately for him I later remembered I entered the club through the VIP entrance and I’m pretty sure I didn’t show my ID at this entrance anyway so i think he was lying

I suspect that the officer has had this dropped on his desk and has been told to “do something about it” hes browsed facebook and seen my name tagged in the video and started there

I don’t think this is enough to incriminate me , neither is the video that’s on facebook , the police were not called to the scene on the night in question , and all the video basically shows two people dry humping whilst fully clothed on a couch with nobody around ( you can just about see the chicks a$$ out as her dress has ridden up whilst she’s grinding on top of me but that’s it )

But that isn’t my problem I was just sitting there fully clothed

As far as outraging the public goes I think it would take a lot more than that to outrage a bunch of drunk clubbers at 1am , perhaps if she was openly sucking my c0ck in the middle of the club then I could understand but she wasn’t

Also some people were so “outraged” by it that they decided to film it …….

is there anyone with any sort of legal background on SS that can clarify if I am on the right lines here ? surely this trivia would never hold up in a court of law or have we become that much of a sensitive little b1tch society !?! ……. are the police just being overly pedantic with this just to be seen to have “done something” about it

I told him I would consider his offer for an interview and call him back once I had spoken to a solicitor

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I would say try to use this to your advantage while you can. Social validation of this level doesn't happen very easily once people get out of school, so if you've got hot chicks messaging you regularly, get them on a date now and bang them ASAP as they're already warmed up and ready to go from seeing the video.

 

[Skyline]

OK basically this situation has apparently now “escalated”

Last night I had a call from the police , the video seems to have attracted such attention they are now investigating it for “outraging public decency” ( I looked into this and its seemingly some old fashioned English by-law that jobsworths use to stop people having any kind of physical contact / fun in public although it sounds pretty flimsy )

The officer told me he thinks he is able to link me in the video to the club as he has a scan on my driving license from the night I was in the club ….

I questioned this and he was stuttering, unfortunately for him I later remembered I entered the club through the VIP entrance and I’m pretty sure I didn’t show my ID at this entrance anyway so i think he was lying

I suspect that the officer has had this dropped on his desk and has been told to “do something about it” hes browsed facebook and seen my name tagged in the video and started there

I don’t think this is enough to incriminate me , neither is the video that’s on facebook , the police were not called to the scene on the night in question , and all the video basically shows two people dry humping whilst fully clothed on a couch with nobody around ( you can just about see the chicks a$$ out as her dress has ridden up whilst she’s grinding on top of me but that’s it )

But that isn’t my problem I was just sitting there fully clothed

As far as outraging the public goes I think it would take a lot more than that to outrage a bunch of drunk clubbers at 1am , perhaps if she was openly sucking my c0ck in the middle of the club then I could understand but she wasn’t

Also some people were so “outraged” by it that they decided to film it …….

is there anyone with any sort of legal background on SS that can clarify if I am on the right lines here ? surely this trivia would never hold up in a court of law or have we become that much of a sensitive little b1tch society !?! ……. are the police just being overly pedantic with this just to be seen to have “done something” about it

I told him I would consider his offer for an interview and call him back once I had spoken to a solicitor

The difference between an officer and a detective is how well they can lie. Your average cop is a horrible liar.

Unless somebody presses charges then nothing can really be done. That officer you were talking to made it obvious that they don't know if it's you or not, so I would just keep quiet.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Well, you didn't give permission to be filmed and neither did the girl. I'm fairly certain that you can't use evidence against a person when the evidence was ontained by illegal means.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I would just forget the whole thing and not act upon any leads any longer. You don't want to end up in a honey trap where someone uses a sock profile to catch you out.

It is quite pathetic though, considering all the rest of the stuff that's found on the internet nowadays. Doesn't even sound like the thing was that graphic anyway. Bet if it was two women, no one would bat and eyelid, least of all the police.

If they take it further, just ask exactly what the accusation is and what evidence they have regards that accusation. As far as you are concerned, there was no exposure, nor indecent act - therefore there is no evidence; so you have nothing to worry about.