video: 6 Reasons Dating Is Getting Worse (for men)

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I watched the entire video. Well done, although I would quibble with a few smaller points.

If there is a diminishment in women who are hot, young, and undamaged, one of the better coping means is to follow the Aaron Clarey phrase often repeated by @DEEZEDBRAH, which is "Enjoy the Decline".

Self-improvement is essential. While women's actual value is declining, women perceive their own value as increasing. They are also demanding a lot relative to their own worth, which will work against a long term commitment but not against short term sex. It's more essential now for more to be lifting weights, earning a high salary, or doing whatever it takes to get to the Top 20%.
 
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The video is correct, but what exactly can we Realistically do to fix things?

There has to be some solution out there
There isn't, but coping off the age pill and high value man pill isn't going to help your situation. He also forgot to mention instagram which is 10 times worse than OLD.
 
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Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm starting to develop a serious headache about all the snowflake cry babies here whining and complaining over how "hard" it is.

Get a firm grip around your balls, stop whining and actually do something instead.

It's supposed to be f'ucking hard otherwise it would not be a f'ucking challenge wouldn't it?
It's never been "easy" to pull chicks; not back then when grandpa was young and certainly not now.

Gamers are switched out over the years, but the game is basically the same with some twists and turns; and to play that game you need to understand and adapt to it. If you don't then don't start going all snowflake crying about how hard it is.

The fault is yours, not the game's fault. So you better git gud at it instead. :up:
 
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I'm starting to develop a serious headache about all the snowflake cry babies here whining and complaining over how "hard" it is.

Get a firm grip around your balls, stop whining and actually do something instead.

It's supposed to be f'ucking hard otherwise it would not be a f'ucking challenge wouldn't it?
It's never been "easy" to pull chicks; not back then when grandpa was young and certainly not now.

Gamers are switched out over the years, but the game is basically the same with some twists and turns; and to play that game you need to understand and adapt to it. If you don't then don't start going all snowflake crying about how hard it is.

The fault is yours, not the game's fault. So you better git gud at it instead. :up:
Misery loves company. Unfortunately, a contingent of posters here (which seems to be growing) enjoy complaining more than they do actually going out and trying to hook up with women. A lot of times, I suspect that the problem probably lies more with them not understanding women than it does with women themselves. Women aren't going to change. Their nature is their nature. You either embrace it or go MGTOW. The Black Pill nonsense and complaining gets old.
 

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While the video is not 100% wrong, it is quite black pill. While I get the dating scene is kind of trash, complaining or stating the obvious won't help rectify it or even move it in the right direction.

If you have been in the dating scene and even more so if you are red-pilled, you should already be aware of the flaws in the modern dating world and most modern women. So stating this in a way where it sounds much like it's-all-doomed-let's-throw-our-hands-up-in-the-air will only add to the gap between the two genders and make things worse.

Unless I miss it (tbh I didn't watch the end of the video as I avoid negative content), I didn't see anything about are there possible paths we can consider to rectify this or at least be better as a whole. Or is this a video just stating how horrible modern dating is and that is all you get?

If so, do yourself a favor and stay away from being black-pilled. This will not contribute to your life in the slightest way other than make you bitter and sour just like those modern women this video is complaining about.

Modern Man Advice
 

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repeated by @DEEZEDBRAH, which is "Enjoy the Decline".
It's never been "easy" to pull chicks; not back then when grandpa was young and certainly not now.
Its already happening, agreed its not easy to get women since the beginning of the time, in near time it will be impossible, current SMV marketplaces are currently full with leftovers for an average guys to collect them from the dumpster and bring it back home as trophies.
Most members in SS agrees women are the mating selectors.

IN my experiences Blackpill is the future.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Kill the chads! A human version of a chimp beta takeover.
Chad slowly began to integrate into redpill community, as they constantly being devalue after women found another chad.. And another.. Its a neverending vicious cycle for modern women.
 

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Modern females are victims of their nature. It's frustrating knowing that females expect men to accept their roast beef vagina and bitter demanor at a cost of half the man's assets when those females are ready to settle down. When those women would have never given the guy a chance before she was ready to settle and got to that point.

The answer isn't to be mad about it. Just don't commit to women. Use them and throw them away. Simple as that. Have a rotation of females that all think you're mister beta nice guy dependable bob. That is good for long term security. Then when they give up their expired pusssy, cast them aside for new ones. They played the game hard when their smv was high. When it's low, it's time for the game to play them hard.
 

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The video is correct, but what exactly can we Realistically do to fix things?

There has to be some solution out there
Have rational standards for yourself and others that associate with you, and enforce them
 

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The video is correct, but what exactly can we Realistically do to fix things?

There has to be some solution out there
Easy one. The one thing you have 100% control over is you and how you use your time. Rather than chasing an endless stream of low quality women, use that time to invest back into YOU.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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