Questions to the OP:
1) How physically attractive do you consider yourself (1 thru 10)
2) Are you physically fit and toned/muscular?
3) Do you defy the typical CS nerdy/geeky look?
4) Do you have charisma and a personality that makes women laugh and attracted to your confidence?
Depending on what your answer is, it may work FOR YOU suprisingly.
I have been in IT for over 14 years, even worked for NASA and became an IT instructor for Astronauts. I am 6'2" tall, toned, broad shouldered, and defy the typical steretype of IT career field nerd/geek appearance. Even my personality is very charismatic and social (when I want to be but I am a true introvert inside).
Everytime I tell a woman who is into me, after they begged to know what I do for work, and then I tell them I am in IT - they would be shocked and would have never thought of it. To them, it is like discovering the Holy Grail - a geek in a Romeo meat suit, it is like the next best thing to sliced bread for them. Geek/Nerd means to a woman that you have ambition, future, $$$$, intelligence, amongst other things. It is not a negative, unless you have zero personality, zero looks, and like the stereotyped CS majors - they don't take showers, smell bad, and don't shave.
Don't be like the stereotype - make it work for you and I promise women will think they have a great catch.
Good luck.
Exodus
