Very important part of my game sucks (sex game)

[youngmack]

So i fvcked a girl last week and i asked her yesterday how was it. She like replied: "Ummmm... ehh it was ok"

I know this means that she didn't like it and it sucked.

Idk what to do. My **** is not big at all. Its slim and about average length 5.7 inches.

When i was inside of her she didn't make any sounds and it didn't seem like i was hitting any spots of hers at all. She just basically laid there silent and looking around.

The foreplay was really good though because i got her super wet, but the actual fvcking wasn't good. Is it because of my **** size and shes had bigger ****s? Aint no girl gonna stay around if my fvcking game isn't tight so what do i do?

 

[gravityeyelids]

It's not good that she wasn't making any sounds or facial expressions....although it doesnt necessarily mean you were bad....maybe she just had other stuff on her mind or something.
I'm surprised she said what she did....most girls will lie and say "yea, it was good". That's kind of a ***** move on her part if she didnt give feedback..

As long as you're into it and you're somewhat aggressive you should be fine. Yea there's those guys who can pound away for an hour in every position (i suspect most of these guys are internet tough guys though), but "bad" sex is still sex and is still probably fun. As long as both are enjoying it, it's good.
Your **** is fine. People make way too big a deal about size (and most guys lie about how MASSIVE THEYRE KAWK IS!!)

My advice is to get better at foreplay..even though she was wet doesn't necessarily mean you did a great job (not knocking you or anything my brother). in case you didnt know this, focus almost entirely on the c!it, that's where most orgasms happen from. Really pay attention to how she responds. PM if you want more specific tips (no homo)

Or maybe you're a stud and she's just an apathetic turdface...who knows lol

 

[foreverAFC]

eat her out for a while

 

[BigSmooth]

Pound her doggie style while pulling her hair back and yell at her. Be more aggressive.


MOST IMPORTANTLY ->>>>>>>

Immediately lose the mindset that you have a small weiner. You don't. However, if you believe this is true...oh man this will hinder every aspect of your game and sex life. You'll be less confident when talking to girls because you'll be hesitant to escalate the seduction because in the back of your mind you're scared that she'll also think your weiner is small.

Like I said, cut out the small weiner mentality. It ain't small. Be more aggressive.

She's probably a loose whale down there anyways.

 

[dmit39]

It honestly doesn't matter what size you are, unless you have a micro-penis. You have to make sure you give her lots of foreplay, make her *** at least once before you stick it in, and if she seems bored then don't be afraid to mix it up! Change positions, grab her hair (near the skull), slap her ass, get frisky It's just sex, make sure both of you are having fun!

 

[GotED?]

Maybe Rhianna was right about sadism and masochism.

Some of you creep me out really.

 

[Purefilth]

Sounds like you tried to "make love". She's a slore, so FVCK her like a slore.

Sounds like an average size tbh. That means NOT small.



Just NEVER ASK HOW IT WAS. If it was epic, you will get a compliment. Or you will be able to tell.

Asking about your performance just comes over as inexperienced and NEEDY.
if it isn't awesome, just try again. Keep trying till you get it right.

 

[zinc4]

Penis size is not that important as long as it is average...dirty talk leading up to and during sex is good...find out what her fantasies are and exploit them...and eat her out good before sex...women's orgasms come from their minds...good conversation and dirty talk before and during foreplay is very very important...also put on some good music and bang her to it.....have to have rythm and be aggressive pick her up and throw her on the bed..spank her and pull her hair...be rough and then transistion to gentle and then rough again...and see what gets her going....be fun and most of all be passionate...and don't ask her when you do stuff...just do it and do it aggressively...

She wants a man who will aggressively fu%k her silly until she is about to explode and contyrol her in bed but also one who can make crazy intimate love to her at the same time...all women want this even if they don't say it...

when changing positions whip her over aggressively.....lick her body up and down and suck her toes when you are banging her and wear her panties around your neck when you fist take them off and bang her with them on...

And...find out what her sensitive parts are and just try to get inside her head if that makes any sense....try and find out what gets her going...it aint the size of your penis that'a the problem here......also...try different position see what she likes...push a pillow under her lower back area when you are on top of her this makes your shaft rub against her **** when having sex...but yeah..mostly try and figure out what makes her wet and super horny..

and also forget about your penis size...that is non issue and she will sense a lack of confidence from you thus making her less wet for you...also never ask how was it...it just doesn't speak confidence...just guage her reactions...

also if she likes porno movies you can watch a porno with her before and during sex....lesbian pornos are always good for this...and ask her who she thinks is the hottest and get dirty with it...bottom line is if have to get inside her...and i am not talking about your penis...

 

[youngmack]

Fuuny thing is she dosent want me to give her head nor does she want to give me head. She absolutely against it for some reason idk why.

 

[JoeMarron]

Maybe Rhianna was right about sadism and masochism.

Some of you creep me out really.

Hah how is a 40 year old man creeped out by spanking and hair pulling? Anyways OP judging by your last post it seems she has a few hangups about sex. With chicks like that you're gonna have a hard time accomplishing anything. Not worth the trouble imo. If you're worried about size put some pillows under her or buy this http://www.liberator.com/jaz.html. A bit expensive but that chit makes hitting the right spots alot easier lol.

 

[youngmack]

Im not really worried about ny size being too small in general. I think it might be too small to hit spots. Im more worried that girls will say my shlong is small especially that im a black dude. I'm

 

[VikingKing]

Maybe Rhianna was right about sadism and masochism.

Some of you creep me out really.

I had one that would ask me to smack her in the face, and I did. She asked harder twice more. At one point I stopped and I was like look, I'm just trying to **** you, not beat you up.
I think she was like a 6 bpd, mexican girl.

 

[SpazzAttackk]

I gotta rep OP for admitting this. Most men dont admit this at all, the fact that he did makes him more of a man than most here.

 

[1-800-HellNo]

How big your GF says your d!ck is to her friends:
At the beginning of your relationship: big
Once you've been dating for a while: godlike
After you break up: two inches

it's funny, but true.

The biggest insecurity most guys have about sex, besides c0ck size, is fear that the girl will speak badly about your sex skills to her friends. It's the easiest way to make a guy feel bad about himself, so in times of desperation a woman will use it.

Guys with d!cks that girls would pay for, will suddenly be a disgusting freak of nature. It doesn't matter.

You need confidence in yourself, THAT is what matters.
women don't know sh!t about mostly anything, so what makes this any different?

Good sex is important, but for a lot of women "good" is not related to cvmming. A lot of women are fine not getting off, they enjoy that their man does.
Plus a lot of women can't even cvm from penetration.
There are other ways.

The hottest girl I was ever with would cvm when I came on her t!ts.
That was what did it for her. She would beg me to do it.

So yea...
Tripping about it is natural, but it shouldn't be.
You have to have fun, and do what you like.
Put yourself first. Her pleasure should be secondary.
The funny thing is that mind frame will actually turn women on more.

 

[1-800-HellNo]

Maybe Rhianna was right about sadism and masochism.

Some of you creep me out really.

For real? You really are surprised people enjoy rough sex?
When I was more inexperienced, i was scared to get rough with girls, and it's something i really regret.

Rough sex is not violence, and there are many levels to "rough."
Personally i've never hit or hurt a girl during sex (except when i hit the cervix cuz my d!ck is so big), but some girls even like to be hit. I don't think most guys here are saying to straight up abuse a woman in bed, but women love being man handled and thrown around.

I saw a survey that showed the number one sexual fantasy women have is being raped.

Think about that. You think they want to be raped politely?