NatureBoy14
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This a long but way interesting read!!!
I got this girl and I cannot figure her out at all!!!! If you will kindly take a second to look at this situation and post a response it would be greatly appreciated. I met this girl at my gym, and to make a long story short, we hit it off really well. This girl is also a ten on the looks scale, no questions asked. She's one of those super hot Hooters girls. I'm not a sappy punk either, if you read my posts before I'm a competitve bodybuilder and have had some great adventures with the girls.
So anyway we hungout a few weekends, banged like rabbits, and just had a blast when we hungout with each other. Unforunately, I started to fall for her and allowed her to get the upper hand in our relationship. She has a lot of baggage, and is on and off with a dude of 3 and a half years. She is still very emotionally tied to him, and normally I would back off since it's obvious too much drama when a girl has been on and off with a guy for so long, but I found out stuff like he has hit her several times, and is twenty four seven abusive. I mean horribly abusive, however like a lot of women, she only chooses to look at the way he use to be. I know I'm thirty times better than him in all ways, so I pursued. Enough about that, here's the problem.
One night when sleeping over her crib, we spoke about a few things. She told me how much she misses me all the time and I'm the first real serious guy she considers since her abusive ex. I told her I liked her, and wanted to start something real because I was tired of my one night stand gimmicks, and actually respected her. We ended up arguing and I left on a sour note, because I didnt get my way. Yes I was the ***** on that night, and I regret it, but since then a lot has changed.
I realized that I let her gain the upper hand so I had to completly back off, cure my oneitis, and just show her I'm not interested and don't need her. And believe me I did. I stopped calling and we really didnt speak for about two weeks, only once when she called me. Now, I forgot to mention we go to the same college and have the same class together every day. In class, I always hit her with the neg-hits. One day she looked brutally hot, and her hair was curly. Now she knew from when we use to hangout that I really dig chicks with curly hair and normally I'd compliment her. Anyway, middle of class she's like "God, it took forever to do my hair today." She was so looking for a compliment to which I replied monotone "Yeah, it looks really curly..."
Another time she wore this tight sweater, which would make any dude druel. She knows the old me would of been like "Hot sweater!!" So she tested me and she's like "You know I haven't worn this sweater in like three years!" My response in a I don't give a crap voice "Oh yeah...cool." She also changed her topics whenever we spoke. When we use to hangout we'd speak about each other, life, and things that actually mattered. Now all she seems to talk about is other people. Guys, girls you name it, all she does is bring up stories or things that happened to her the day/night before, and believe me these stories suck!! They are never interesting and are just ramblings!! I remember one story, she works at Victoria Secret, and she's like "O my God, 3 friends I went to highschool with, 1 girl and 2 guys came in and were acting like they were gay in the store, it was sooooo funny!" My God, I could pull a better story out of my taint!
Also when we were hookin up, we would go back to my place cause we have the same break between classes. Since that awkward night, we don't. And it always seems like she's thinking of some thing to say as we walk out of class so she doesnt have to go to my place. She's always like o I gotta move my car, I gotta do this, I gotta do that. Now I never ask her to hangout anymore either after class, ever. I just walk my direction and smile and say goodbye. She is always rambling about something she has to do, but is she doing this so I ask her to hangout, or doing so because she doesn't want to and doesnt want to feel bad? She's so hard to read....however, one day I do know that she waited outside for me, because our class was cancelled and since I'm a slacker and get there late. She gets there early everyday and when I walked out I saw her, so she HAD to be waiting. She also always asks me what I'm doing that night, or last night, yet never asks me to hangout. I also never ask her to hangout, but why the hell does she always ask me what I'm doing? Does she want me to ask her?
We use to have solid kino with each other, but not now I don't attempt anything. She wore velvet pants the other day to class, which is now the only time we speak and shes like "Feel my pants!" I then neg-hit her. She also does random stuff all the time, like she brought in pictures to show me, however I know she took out all the ones that she looked bad in, and only kept the ones where she looked hot. I neg-hit her again. Finally, today in middle of class she's like let me see your ring and takes my thumb ring off my hand and plays with it for about ten minutes. Now DJers, what in the blue hell does this mean?
Here's the final icing on the cake!! She claimed that in one of her other classes she met another bodybuilder who talks so profoundly about the sport, just like I do. She rambled about him, and she knew that this was one of the few ways to get under my skin. I did act kind of shocked and a little raged, because I know for a fact that there are no competive bodybuilders in my school, let alone in my grade. Anyway, she then said something along the lines of o yeah he gave me his tape too and it was pretty cool. Now any real bodybuilder or even amature would never ever do such a thing, and he did he has to be a tool. So I think she was lying, what do you guys think? Is she playing the game too? That's the only time she was ever able to get a real reaction from me since that awkward night.
Now normally, when I act a **** to girls or back off they come crawling back. While she does seem a little more interested when we are in class, she still isn't calling me. Should I keep playing this game and see where it takes me? My oneitis is so cured, I'm dating other girls but I always wonder with her because she was a great lay and is an awesome girl deep down.
O what to do....offer any comments.
The Nature Boy
I got this girl and I cannot figure her out at all!!!! If you will kindly take a second to look at this situation and post a response it would be greatly appreciated. I met this girl at my gym, and to make a long story short, we hit it off really well. This girl is also a ten on the looks scale, no questions asked. She's one of those super hot Hooters girls. I'm not a sappy punk either, if you read my posts before I'm a competitve bodybuilder and have had some great adventures with the girls.
So anyway we hungout a few weekends, banged like rabbits, and just had a blast when we hungout with each other. Unforunately, I started to fall for her and allowed her to get the upper hand in our relationship. She has a lot of baggage, and is on and off with a dude of 3 and a half years. She is still very emotionally tied to him, and normally I would back off since it's obvious too much drama when a girl has been on and off with a guy for so long, but I found out stuff like he has hit her several times, and is twenty four seven abusive. I mean horribly abusive, however like a lot of women, she only chooses to look at the way he use to be. I know I'm thirty times better than him in all ways, so I pursued. Enough about that, here's the problem.
One night when sleeping over her crib, we spoke about a few things. She told me how much she misses me all the time and I'm the first real serious guy she considers since her abusive ex. I told her I liked her, and wanted to start something real because I was tired of my one night stand gimmicks, and actually respected her. We ended up arguing and I left on a sour note, because I didnt get my way. Yes I was the ***** on that night, and I regret it, but since then a lot has changed.
I realized that I let her gain the upper hand so I had to completly back off, cure my oneitis, and just show her I'm not interested and don't need her. And believe me I did. I stopped calling and we really didnt speak for about two weeks, only once when she called me. Now, I forgot to mention we go to the same college and have the same class together every day. In class, I always hit her with the neg-hits. One day she looked brutally hot, and her hair was curly. Now she knew from when we use to hangout that I really dig chicks with curly hair and normally I'd compliment her. Anyway, middle of class she's like "God, it took forever to do my hair today." She was so looking for a compliment to which I replied monotone "Yeah, it looks really curly..."
Another time she wore this tight sweater, which would make any dude druel. She knows the old me would of been like "Hot sweater!!" So she tested me and she's like "You know I haven't worn this sweater in like three years!" My response in a I don't give a crap voice "Oh yeah...cool." She also changed her topics whenever we spoke. When we use to hangout we'd speak about each other, life, and things that actually mattered. Now all she seems to talk about is other people. Guys, girls you name it, all she does is bring up stories or things that happened to her the day/night before, and believe me these stories suck!! They are never interesting and are just ramblings!! I remember one story, she works at Victoria Secret, and she's like "O my God, 3 friends I went to highschool with, 1 girl and 2 guys came in and were acting like they were gay in the store, it was sooooo funny!" My God, I could pull a better story out of my taint!
Also when we were hookin up, we would go back to my place cause we have the same break between classes. Since that awkward night, we don't. And it always seems like she's thinking of some thing to say as we walk out of class so she doesnt have to go to my place. She's always like o I gotta move my car, I gotta do this, I gotta do that. Now I never ask her to hangout anymore either after class, ever. I just walk my direction and smile and say goodbye. She is always rambling about something she has to do, but is she doing this so I ask her to hangout, or doing so because she doesn't want to and doesnt want to feel bad? She's so hard to read....however, one day I do know that she waited outside for me, because our class was cancelled and since I'm a slacker and get there late. She gets there early everyday and when I walked out I saw her, so she HAD to be waiting. She also always asks me what I'm doing that night, or last night, yet never asks me to hangout. I also never ask her to hangout, but why the hell does she always ask me what I'm doing? Does she want me to ask her?
We use to have solid kino with each other, but not now I don't attempt anything. She wore velvet pants the other day to class, which is now the only time we speak and shes like "Feel my pants!" I then neg-hit her. She also does random stuff all the time, like she brought in pictures to show me, however I know she took out all the ones that she looked bad in, and only kept the ones where she looked hot. I neg-hit her again. Finally, today in middle of class she's like let me see your ring and takes my thumb ring off my hand and plays with it for about ten minutes. Now DJers, what in the blue hell does this mean?
Here's the final icing on the cake!! She claimed that in one of her other classes she met another bodybuilder who talks so profoundly about the sport, just like I do. She rambled about him, and she knew that this was one of the few ways to get under my skin. I did act kind of shocked and a little raged, because I know for a fact that there are no competive bodybuilders in my school, let alone in my grade. Anyway, she then said something along the lines of o yeah he gave me his tape too and it was pretty cool. Now any real bodybuilder or even amature would never ever do such a thing, and he did he has to be a tool. So I think she was lying, what do you guys think? Is she playing the game too? That's the only time she was ever able to get a real reaction from me since that awkward night.
Now normally, when I act a **** to girls or back off they come crawling back. While she does seem a little more interested when we are in class, she still isn't calling me. Should I keep playing this game and see where it takes me? My oneitis is so cured, I'm dating other girls but I always wonder with her because she was a great lay and is an awesome girl deep down.
O what to do....offer any comments.
The Nature Boy
