I've been dating my girlfriend for 3+ months. She is the one that wanted to be an official couple.
We were lying in bed the other day and she was being a bit weird like she wanted to tell me something.
Eventually she stated something to the effect that she sometimes wants affirmation that I am into her. It seems like she is a bit insecure that she is getting attached and I might not be?
I feel like the relationship is moving forward at a healthy pace, nothing crazy, still lots of fun, obviously no one has uttered the 'L' word yet.
I wasn't sure how to respond to her, so i kissed her and said "obviously I wouldnt be spending my precious weekend time with you if I wasn't into you"
That got me thinking, do I really need to vocalize that I like this girl to her more often? Honestly I feel like I need to hold myself back so I don't end up a pandering beta. I am certainly not running any dread game one her.
Do you guys ever assure your woman that you are into them, or just let them be nervous about it? I was honestly surprised she said this, if anything I would have been worried I was being too available and nice, not the other way around.
We were lying in bed the other day and she was being a bit weird like she wanted to tell me something.
Eventually she stated something to the effect that she sometimes wants affirmation that I am into her. It seems like she is a bit insecure that she is getting attached and I might not be?
I feel like the relationship is moving forward at a healthy pace, nothing crazy, still lots of fun, obviously no one has uttered the 'L' word yet.
I wasn't sure how to respond to her, so i kissed her and said "obviously I wouldnt be spending my precious weekend time with you if I wasn't into you"
That got me thinking, do I really need to vocalize that I like this girl to her more often? Honestly I feel like I need to hold myself back so I don't end up a pandering beta. I am certainly not running any dread game one her.
Do you guys ever assure your woman that you are into them, or just let them be nervous about it? I was honestly surprised she said this, if anything I would have been worried I was being too available and nice, not the other way around.