I was asked to expand on this particular
post concerning
"wrong women" when it comes to my own personal experience and the ones I've witnessed and how one goes about seeing Red Flags when it comes to being with these types of women.
To me there are several things in my Life that I value very much: my
time, my
money, my
health and my
sanity.
"Wrong women" will negatively impact your life in one or more of these factors, particularly your health and your sanity.
Back in the day, I had a girlfriend. Turns out she had been molested as a child and I ended up getting the short end of the stick. Super insecure girl who was always accusing me of sh
it I never did, affecting my sanity. I was angry and frustrated whenever I was out with this girl. Hey, I thought love was supposed to be
"loving and fun"!
I also dated a bipolar chick back in the day. She'd be the sweetest girl one day and then a total psycho the next, when she didn't take her pills. Sex was great but I had to walk on eggshells around this girl. Whenever she'd call and I would see her number on the caller ID, my body would get sick. Literally. I would feel nauseous. Eventually I stopped picking up her calls. She'd leave sweet, alluring messages, followed by threats of not knowing what she
"was capable of." Fun times.
A buddy of mine went out with a bartender. He'd tell me that when they were out and about, they'd run into customers of hers who would say
"Hi" and she would completely ignore him, making him jealous and frustrated. Never tried one myself after his experience. Can't compete with the level of Attention need.
I also went out with this girl who I found out had Daddy Issues. Completely psycho girl. Had to change my number. I've never gone out with a Gold Digger (since I'm not rich) but I would imagine that they've be a handful too.
So what are the Red Flags when it comes to these women? If they're not positively influencing your life but are rather affecting it like stated above. More than likely, you have a
"wrong woman" in your hands.
What are some the consequences of dating/f
ucking these women? Loss of
time. I wasted collective years with women who were not good for me. I could've used that time with candidates for
"good ones". Not to mention the
money wasted on them!!
smh
Your health and sanity are also affected. When I was dating molested girl above, my
health took a beating as I used to get the most painful migraines I've ever had in my life. Stopped seeing her, the migraines stopped. Nice, huh? With bipolar chick, I literally was sometimes afraid to go out of my apartment. Never felt safe. My
sanity suffered.
Hopefully that provides an insight for anybody interested.