typical
Master Don Juan
Well recently I had a chat with an old highschool friend (not anymore he wont talkt to me now) of mine who well has always been a afc he's even married and become the trademark doormat for his wife where at times I think he needs to ask her if he can go for a piss or not.
Well we were catching up over a game of pool and some jim beam (Damn love that drink), and we got talking about messed up chances with the various great chicks that have come our way. (pm's from this site from various members have told me to stop bragging about the chicks I'm pulling with my married mates as it might threaten them in someway.)
So we got talking and I started to tell him about how with most of the girls that I mess up on or they go cold or whatever, the main reason things dont work out is well because I failed to listen to my animal instincts (gut reaction call it what you want). If I had things wouldnt have ended they way they did with these chicks. He in turn says that your wrong in listening to that animal instinct and that you were right in listening to your logical brain as it knows whats best for you.
I couldnt understand his reasoning for being logical when it comes to women. I asked him how he would go about getting a girl he was interested in and well he gave me the usual romatic novel/movie way oif doing things. Started off with tell her how much you care in person and ........ you know the rest. I told him I'd do things my way the dj way, smooth talking and slowly escalating the kino till I get a kiss or something.
He tells me thats a sleazy way to a chicks heart your triggering her animal instincts to reproduce rather then win her emotions. I try to tell him that emotions are worthless at first contact with a chick and they take time, months even years to build up. Not right on the first meeting.
I give him an example of how I seduced 2 girls in 2 different lab streams of mine, 1 of which I'm turning into a FB and the other as a friend who thinks she has a chance but I only want her around to help me pass the lab. He tells me these girls will not fall in love with me as I havnt touched them emotionally (I think over 1000 txts a week counts as some sort of emotional attachment from both of the girls behalf).
He then gives me an example of how he met his first gf (at work as work mates she approached him was 20 kilos bigger then him and cheated on him after 4 months but thats another story) and how he told her after the first date that he really cared for her and wanted to take the relationship further (yea she said yes and was nailing the manager behind his back). He then went to tell about how he met his second gf (and now his wife) how he ran the same (as he calls it) 'game' and won her heart and is now happily married while he goes off too work and she goes off to uni (we all know whats gonna happen at uni now dont we).
After half an hour of this crap I snapped (must have been the jim beam) but I ripped into him telling him how his first gf cheated on him from day one how his wife uses him as a doormat and is most likely getting nailed by some guy with more composure then him that she met at uni, and how he's wasting his life living and providing for a women who in all likely is only putting up with him for the green card and the money.
Its been 2 weeks I think thats another afc mate down the drain another 6 to go LOL. Lesson learned here was that you cant make everyone see the light and sometimes you gotta let them suffer so that they learn the hard way, also never talk about chicks with married afc they dont know a thing.
I'll most likely see the dude again in 5 years time divorced having to pay for child support (the kids might not even be his) so sad. (Btw I know his wife is cheating on him as I saw her getting picked up by one of my boys at uni so so so sad I didnt have the guts to tell him)
Well we were catching up over a game of pool and some jim beam (Damn love that drink), and we got talking about messed up chances with the various great chicks that have come our way. (pm's from this site from various members have told me to stop bragging about the chicks I'm pulling with my married mates as it might threaten them in someway.)
So we got talking and I started to tell him about how with most of the girls that I mess up on or they go cold or whatever, the main reason things dont work out is well because I failed to listen to my animal instincts (gut reaction call it what you want). If I had things wouldnt have ended they way they did with these chicks. He in turn says that your wrong in listening to that animal instinct and that you were right in listening to your logical brain as it knows whats best for you.
I couldnt understand his reasoning for being logical when it comes to women. I asked him how he would go about getting a girl he was interested in and well he gave me the usual romatic novel/movie way oif doing things. Started off with tell her how much you care in person and ........ you know the rest. I told him I'd do things my way the dj way, smooth talking and slowly escalating the kino till I get a kiss or something.
He tells me thats a sleazy way to a chicks heart your triggering her animal instincts to reproduce rather then win her emotions. I try to tell him that emotions are worthless at first contact with a chick and they take time, months even years to build up. Not right on the first meeting.
I give him an example of how I seduced 2 girls in 2 different lab streams of mine, 1 of which I'm turning into a FB and the other as a friend who thinks she has a chance but I only want her around to help me pass the lab. He tells me these girls will not fall in love with me as I havnt touched them emotionally (I think over 1000 txts a week counts as some sort of emotional attachment from both of the girls behalf).
He then gives me an example of how he met his first gf (at work as work mates she approached him was 20 kilos bigger then him and cheated on him after 4 months but thats another story) and how he told her after the first date that he really cared for her and wanted to take the relationship further (yea she said yes and was nailing the manager behind his back). He then went to tell about how he met his second gf (and now his wife) how he ran the same (as he calls it) 'game' and won her heart and is now happily married while he goes off too work and she goes off to uni (we all know whats gonna happen at uni now dont we).
After half an hour of this crap I snapped (must have been the jim beam) but I ripped into him telling him how his first gf cheated on him from day one how his wife uses him as a doormat and is most likely getting nailed by some guy with more composure then him that she met at uni, and how he's wasting his life living and providing for a women who in all likely is only putting up with him for the green card and the money.
Its been 2 weeks I think thats another afc mate down the drain another 6 to go LOL. Lesson learned here was that you cant make everyone see the light and sometimes you gotta let them suffer so that they learn the hard way, also never talk about chicks with married afc they dont know a thing.
I'll most likely see the dude again in 5 years time divorced having to pay for child support (the kids might not even be his) so sad. (Btw I know his wife is cheating on him as I saw her getting picked up by one of my boys at uni so so so sad I didnt have the guts to tell him)
