Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
But then what would make V-day different from any other day w/ Sexy_Malibu?
ha ha
Valentine's Question for the DJs...
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ha haJust cause she's a girl, doesn't mean she has to avoid the DJ principles.
DO WHATEVER THE FUKK YOU WANT
I asked myself a question: "what the FUKK do I wanna do on saturday?"
I wanted to go to the rifle range and send some lead down the range.
So I am going there.
BUT: To make this a "valentine" crap, I am taking my fukkbuddy for a surprise. She's never shot before, and I'll prepare some heart shaped targets to shoot at
Then there's the vine (to be used after the shooting), handcuffs and condoms at my place
DO WHATEVER THE FUKK YOU WANT
I asked myself a question: "what the FUKK do I wanna do on saturday?"
I wanted to go to the rifle range and send some lead down the range.
So I am going there.
BUT: To make this a "valentine" crap, I am taking my fukkbuddy for a surprise. She's never shot before, and I'll prepare some heart shaped targets to shoot at
Then there's the vine (to be used after the shooting), handcuffs and condoms at my place
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Is that really how you're spending Feb 14? That is both the most bizarre and the coolest "valentine" surprise ever. I'm appalled and impressed at the same time!I asked myself a question: "what the FUKK do I wanna do on saturday?"
I wanted to go to the rifle range and send some lead down the range.
So I am going there.
BUT: To make this a "valentine" crap, I am taking my fukkbuddy for a surprise. She's never shot before, and I'll prepare some heart shaped targets to shoot at
Then there's the vine (to be used after the shooting), handcuffs and condoms at my place
Here's what I think is gonna happen...
You're gonna get him a card just in case he gets you one so you don't feel bad.
He's gonna get you a card just in case you get him a card so he won't feel bad.
So then, both of you are gonna have cards for each other but neither of them are going to get to the other one.
If you don't wanna get him a card, then don't. If you do want to, go buy a card and give it to him whether he gives you one or not. It shouldn't matter what he does, the choice is up to you.
You're gonna get him a card just in case he gets you one so you don't feel bad.
He's gonna get you a card just in case you get him a card so he won't feel bad.
So then, both of you are gonna have cards for each other but neither of them are going to get to the other one.
If you don't wanna get him a card, then don't. If you do want to, go buy a card and give it to him whether he gives you one or not. It shouldn't matter what he does, the choice is up to you.
I have some type of ****buddy too, but Im not getting her anything cause valentines day is about "love" right? Why get somebody a "valentines gift" and act like they're more to u than what they are, when yall arranged that its not gonna amount to a relationship anyways?
Im really not a cold-hearted person, I kinda still consider myself too emotional and mushy at times, but if she gets me something for v-day I wont feel bad and just tell her "thanx but I aint got anything for you because were not in a relationship". I can honestly say that I didnt even think about this before this thread.
Im really not a cold-hearted person, I kinda still consider myself too emotional and mushy at times, but if she gets me something for v-day I wont feel bad and just tell her "thanx but I aint got anything for you because were not in a relationship". I can honestly say that I didnt even think about this before this thread.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
OK... I basically got it. Thanks.
I do want to say one thing. So many of you say "do what you want... who cares if he does or doesn't get you something... if you want to give him something, do it." Yes, I agree with all of that. I agree that it SHOULDN'T matter what he does, the choice is up to me. But I read the posts on this forum. I know how so many guys overanalyze every little thing that a girl does. OOh what does it all mean? I can only imagine what kind of threads are going to go up on Feb. 15th...
She said "Happy Valentine's Day" What do you think she meant by that?
She got me a Valentine's gift - She obviously wants me to be her boyfriend
She signed her named "Love, so-and-so" - Should I next her?
Yes, I SHOULD do whatever I want. And usually I DO do whatever I want. And in the end, I know regardless of what you guys have said, I will probably just end up doing whatever feels right. But the truth is, just because I should be able to do whatever I want, doesn't mean that I AM able to do whatever I want. Our actions do have "consequences" no matter how frivilous... There IS the potential here for me to give him the wrong impression.
madgame - you're totally right in that situation. For me, when V-day rolled around I was always either in a LTR or in a FB situation... so it was no question of what to do. This situation is so vague, I just wasn't sure. But I totally overanalyzed it and psyched myself out, ha ha. No more of that!!
So whatever, I'm just going to do what I want, based on however I feel that day, and if he does get the wrong impression and it causes a problem.... NEXT.
I do want to say one thing. So many of you say "do what you want... who cares if he does or doesn't get you something... if you want to give him something, do it." Yes, I agree with all of that. I agree that it SHOULDN'T matter what he does, the choice is up to me. But I read the posts on this forum. I know how so many guys overanalyze every little thing that a girl does. OOh what does it all mean? I can only imagine what kind of threads are going to go up on Feb. 15th...
She said "Happy Valentine's Day" What do you think she meant by that?
She got me a Valentine's gift - She obviously wants me to be her boyfriend
She signed her named "Love, so-and-so" - Should I next her?
Yes, I SHOULD do whatever I want. And usually I DO do whatever I want. And in the end, I know regardless of what you guys have said, I will probably just end up doing whatever feels right. But the truth is, just because I should be able to do whatever I want, doesn't mean that I AM able to do whatever I want. Our actions do have "consequences" no matter how frivilous... There IS the potential here for me to give him the wrong impression.
madgame - you're totally right in that situation. For me, when V-day rolled around I was always either in a LTR or in a FB situation... so it was no question of what to do. This situation is so vague, I just wasn't sure. But I totally overanalyzed it and psyched myself out, ha ha. No more of that!!
So whatever, I'm just going to do what I want, based on however I feel that day, and if he does get the wrong impression and it causes a problem.... NEXT.
CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
You are quite the Virgo Malibu. Now that I've gotten that out of the way...
It seems to me that the purpose for the ambiguity on your part is that Valentine's day has traditionally been a time to re-enforce whichever relationship you were in at the time. (Naturally if you weren't in a relationship, then you didn't celibrate, because what would there be to re-enforce?)
The current conundrum:
You feel like there should be some recognition of the Holiday, but you fear that anything you do might give the wrong impression, because at the moment you're convinced that you're fine with the status Quo.
I was going to make the suggestion of giving him a 'gift' the night before, but someone else beat me to it, and you've already said there aren't too many things you don't do already. I'll come back to this point later.
If what you want is to acknowledge the holiday (as I would think only proper given that you are in a relationship, no matter the severity, and even if you are seeing other guys, he is the only one you were planning to do anything for, am I correct?) perhaps some small token of your affection would be adequate to your purposes.
Roses are no good!, and DJ's pay attention to this, it might come in handy later when you're trying to establish which boundries you want to impose on your relationship.
You'd have to do a single flower, because if its in a bouquet, the emphasis tends to rest on the beauty of the arrangement, and not the message behind it, not to even mention the cliche factor. Red infers a passionate romance you yourself do not wish so scratch that as inappropriate. Yellow would infer friendship, another misconception, and white implies something that your sexual relationship already precludes... Orchids might be nice, but they're expensive and let's face it, unless he is a rare quality of man, the sentiment might be lost on him.
Resuming with the 'gift' idea, I'd have to say it's still viable, but its a bit tricky to pull off. Its viable because even if you're already doing everything (which I doubt. Had a dirty Sanchez lately? You never know exactly how freaky he is...) you can always do it a different way. Add a sensual massage, or a candle-lit bubble bath for the two of you. Then there are always various aspects of fantasy ready to be employed. The gift might be to fulfill one of his fantasies.
Example:
If he's got a hankering to play doctor, bring along a nurse outfit.
If he's always liked a stronger woman, leather would be appropriate, just a school-girl outfit would be if thats the way his pendulum swings. I hate to say it, but you might want to ask his buddies or sneak a peak at his porn collection to find out.
Honestly, what I would do is err on the side of simplicity. If you're spending the night and the morning with him (check) and presuming you don't have to be anywhere too important until later that day (it is a saturday, so perhaps check)... wrap yourself in a blanket and make love all night (start late if you have to), and then, in the afterthroes of your passion while you're still embracing, watch the sun come up with a mug or two of hot chocolate, and make a valentine's day wish on the sun just before it peaks over the horizon. (This would require you making the hot chocolate during one of your interludes, or before you begin, so be at the ready)
You say its common for you to spend the night, so no drastic change there. You can always return to whatever routine you might have afterwards and, if questioned, you could always say that you were simply enjoying the holiday.
Bottom line. Valentine's Day is a day for romance and you can get away with a bit more over this holiday than you could say, for St. Patrick's day. (my birthday by the way)
Who knows, you might enjoy the feeling of a committed relationship for a day without the committment that seems to frighten you so much. Then again, maybe then committment might not seem so scary. Either way you win.
Best of luck in life and love Malibu, and let us know how this one goes for you.
-CyranoDeBergerac
It seems to me that the purpose for the ambiguity on your part is that Valentine's day has traditionally been a time to re-enforce whichever relationship you were in at the time. (Naturally if you weren't in a relationship, then you didn't celibrate, because what would there be to re-enforce?)
The current conundrum:
You feel like there should be some recognition of the Holiday, but you fear that anything you do might give the wrong impression, because at the moment you're convinced that you're fine with the status Quo.
I was going to make the suggestion of giving him a 'gift' the night before, but someone else beat me to it, and you've already said there aren't too many things you don't do already. I'll come back to this point later.
If what you want is to acknowledge the holiday (as I would think only proper given that you are in a relationship, no matter the severity, and even if you are seeing other guys, he is the only one you were planning to do anything for, am I correct?) perhaps some small token of your affection would be adequate to your purposes.
Roses are no good!, and DJ's pay attention to this, it might come in handy later when you're trying to establish which boundries you want to impose on your relationship.
You'd have to do a single flower, because if its in a bouquet, the emphasis tends to rest on the beauty of the arrangement, and not the message behind it, not to even mention the cliche factor. Red infers a passionate romance you yourself do not wish so scratch that as inappropriate. Yellow would infer friendship, another misconception, and white implies something that your sexual relationship already precludes... Orchids might be nice, but they're expensive and let's face it, unless he is a rare quality of man, the sentiment might be lost on him.
Resuming with the 'gift' idea, I'd have to say it's still viable, but its a bit tricky to pull off. Its viable because even if you're already doing everything (which I doubt. Had a dirty Sanchez lately? You never know exactly how freaky he is...) you can always do it a different way. Add a sensual massage, or a candle-lit bubble bath for the two of you. Then there are always various aspects of fantasy ready to be employed. The gift might be to fulfill one of his fantasies.
Example:
If he's got a hankering to play doctor, bring along a nurse outfit.
If he's always liked a stronger woman, leather would be appropriate, just a school-girl outfit would be if thats the way his pendulum swings. I hate to say it, but you might want to ask his buddies or sneak a peak at his porn collection to find out.
Honestly, what I would do is err on the side of simplicity. If you're spending the night and the morning with him (check) and presuming you don't have to be anywhere too important until later that day (it is a saturday, so perhaps check)... wrap yourself in a blanket and make love all night (start late if you have to), and then, in the afterthroes of your passion while you're still embracing, watch the sun come up with a mug or two of hot chocolate, and make a valentine's day wish on the sun just before it peaks over the horizon. (This would require you making the hot chocolate during one of your interludes, or before you begin, so be at the ready)
You say its common for you to spend the night, so no drastic change there. You can always return to whatever routine you might have afterwards and, if questioned, you could always say that you were simply enjoying the holiday.
Bottom line. Valentine's Day is a day for romance and you can get away with a bit more over this holiday than you could say, for St. Patrick's day. (my birthday by the way)
Who knows, you might enjoy the feeling of a committed relationship for a day without the committment that seems to frighten you so much. Then again, maybe then committment might not seem so scary. Either way you win.
Best of luck in life and love Malibu, and let us know how this one goes for you.
-CyranoDeBergerac
yes
LOL - well, at least it's non standard stuff like cards or roses or something...That is both the most bizarre and the coolest "valentine" surprise ever. I'm appalled and impressed at the same time!
I'll also film it, so that she can watch it over and over again, and associate the excitement of shooting with me
It's gonna be funny if she's gonna get freaked out and all nervous, but most chicks get used to the bang and want to get to the bigger calibers really fast
Most guys don't care about V-day unless they think the lady is going to throw a b*tch fit if he doesn't do something sweet (or they're a chump).
If he DOES do something, it will be the first sign this casual-relationship will be going places you don't want it to go anyway, right?
So who cares?
If he DOES do something, it will be the first sign this casual-relationship will be going places you don't want it to go anyway, right?
So who cares?
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Show up in a Victoria Secret thing, and a raincoat.... works for me.
..OR..... you can go to The Teddy Bear Factory, have a teddy bear mdae for him. Nowadays, you can get a voice box inserted in them to relay your message to him, everytime he picks up the bear... I did this for my girlfriend, my message said "You got a great ass!"
..OR..... you can go to The Teddy Bear Factory, have a teddy bear mdae for him. Nowadays, you can get a voice box inserted in them to relay your message to him, everytime he picks up the bear... I did this for my girlfriend, my message said "You got a great ass!"
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Hmm... lol never got this question from a girl that's in such a messed up relationship... lol.
First buy him a card and have some sexy(a.k.a. normal for u sexy) lingerie on(optionally buy him a pressie). Leave the card in the bathroom.. If he got u something tell him "One moment I'll be rite back.. I need to go to the toilet".. that'll confuse him and he'll think sommat like What the ****? i give her a card/prezzie/rose and she goes to the toilet?? then come back in the sexy (normal) lingerie with the card(and prezzie) and do what you women know best.. f*ck his brainz out.. in a romantic that is way lol.
Hope my advice helps tho I'm still part AFC
First buy him a card and have some sexy(a.k.a. normal for u sexy
) lingerie on(optionally buy him a pressie). Leave the card in the bathroom.. If he got u something tell him "One moment I'll be rite back.. I need to go to the toilet".. that'll confuse him and he'll think sommat like What the ****? i give her a card/prezzie/rose and she goes to the toilet?? then come back in the sexy (normal) lingerie with the card(and prezzie) and do what you women know best.. f*ck his brainz out.. in a romantic that is way lol.Hope my advice helps tho I'm still part AFC
gentleman193
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v-day
Get an STD check. Maybe you *already* got him something ... they don't call it V-Day for nothing
Get an STD check. Maybe you *already* got him something ... they don't call it V-Day for nothing
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Re: v-day
PS: If you're wondering what I decided... I got him something very unromantic but semi-meaningful (because I listen, ha ha, what an AFC), sort of corny (because well, thats my style), kind of cute, and pretty original. Sorry to be semi-cryptic, but I don't want to post what it is exactly, god forbid he or someone else I know reads sosuave (hey anything's possible). Gesture made. Status quo maintained. Sexy Malibu may now return to her not-giving-a-****. Sorry for the momentary lapse.
LMFAO! Happy VD day gentleman!
PS: If you're wondering what I decided... I got him something very unromantic but semi-meaningful (because I listen, ha ha, what an AFC), sort of corny (because well, thats my style), kind of cute, and pretty original.
Sorry to be semi-cryptic, but I don't want to post what it is exactly, god forbid he or someone else I know reads sosuave (hey anything's possible). Gesture made. Status quo maintained. Sexy Malibu may now return to her not-giving-a-****. Sorry for the momentary lapse.