Valentines Day discussion thread (Merged threads)

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Liz
The words a girl dreams to hear!:( ;)
You want me, don't you?
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
You want me, don't you?
You missed the whole smiley sad face didn't you?
 

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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

Originally posted by Liz
You missed the whole smiley sad face didn't you?
Hey Liz,
Look at it this way, you're a cool chick, and Gio never get's his cage rattled...(Except when he's fending of flames from that Demon-guy!!)....

So whadda-you say! You all for the first Sosuave LUV connection???:D

The Edge 'Some have it, and some don't'
 

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Re: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

Originally posted by The Edge
Hey Liz,
Look at it this way, you're a cool chick, and Gio never get's his cage rattled...(Except when he's fending of flames from that Demon-guy!!)....

So whadda-you say! You all for the first Sosuave LUV connection???:D
I'm flattered that you would think of such a thing:)
Gio has a girlfiend and who knows she might be his wife someday, and I have a boyfriend who will be my husband someday in the next year and a half.

Sorry, otherwise I think that that Gio guy is pretty HOT!:p :D
 

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Is sending flowers for VAlentines AFC?

Man, I work with all women and I see how they brag to each other about how thir bf/ hubbies buys them this and that. REally, only reason why I think they admire VAlentines day is because they can brag to their friends what their sig other did for them. I know this one guy who has never sent his wife flowers or done anything special or her. She takes care of him, cooks, clean and doesn't pout or argue. What do you all think?
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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you can if your in a LTR or married but if your not dating dont waste ur money send a card
 

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I would'nt waste the money......you have to be serious with someone to buy something like flowers. I would'nt bother....spend the money you were going to spend on flowers and add it to your DJ clothing.
 

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General rule of thumb.

Don't send flowers unless you're 6 months into a relationship..


Besides shes just going to look at them for maybe 5 minutes then place them in water and she'll forget about them and they will die in 3-4 days time anyway.. I think it's a crock.
 

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exactly they dont appreciate the things men do for them
 

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Flowers?

I think the only occasions I bought flowers was for funerals. So, I don't give flowers to girls; they may get the wrong idea.
 

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Everyone hates Valentine's Day...this is what happened to me today,

I gave her a card

I gave her a picture of us

I gave her a box of chocolates she loves

I told her "Happy Valentine's Day!"

in return, she proposed.

I am blown away.
 

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Originally posted by SomeGuy
Everyone hates Valentine's Day...this is what happened to me today,

I gave her a card

I gave her a picture of us

I gave her a box of chocolates she loves

I told her "Happy Valentine's Day!"

in return, she proposed.

I am blown away.

If you're smart you would have declined her offer.

Say NO! :D
 

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Everyone hates Valentine's Day...this is what happened to me today,

I gave her a card

I gave her a picture of us

I gave her a box of chocolates she loves

I told her "Happy Valentine's Day!"

in return, she proposed.

I am blown away.


Congratulations man! What did you say? heh. I don't think there is anything wrong with a card and flowers IF you do it the right way and the relationship is (sorta) established. I am dating 2 girls at this time, and both of them have strong feelings for me. I know that I can get away with flowers and I card because it makes them feel special. I'll probably give them both a rose and a card, write something nice in the card, and surprise them at work with it.

-Blitz
 

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Originally posted by SomeGuy
in return, she proposed.
Call me old-fashioned, but I wouldn't be able to accept a proposal from a girl.

For the record, I wouldn't accept a proposal from a guy, either.

Oh, and regarding the question at hand: The act of buying flowers for a girl for is not AFC in and of itself... it's the circumstances that will determine that. If you're giving flowers to some girl that you've been admiring from afar for three years, yeah, that's AFC. But if you're getting your wife flowers, no, that's not AFC. It's all about the context.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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what to do for Valentines...

Ok fellas, heres the deal:
I have a girlfriend who ive been seeing for a little while now and we dated for a bit too, this is our first Valentines together and shes never really had a big valentines day before.

thanks to her bi*ch of a roommate who told her that I had all this stuff planned (which i dont!), my girl will be very dissapointed tommorow (were doing Valentines tommorow instead of today)
if i dont have all types of small things planned to do with her throughout the day, I have reservations at a decently nice restraunt uptown and i have some flowers ordered, but i need advice on some actual stuff to do tommorow during the day before tommorow night, my brain's really fried right now and i cant think of anything, so ANY ideas would help or at least get me thinkin in the right direction.
 

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come on guys, one post would help alot here, i dont have too much time i can wait

I was thinking about giving her a massage. im not sure if her roommate will be there or not
 

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Massage would definitely be good. If you can cook, the majority of women loves it when a guy cooks for them. This should be a quite. relaxing time for both of you.
Seems like you're hooked
 

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yeah, a bit, but more me being "hooked", i just really want this to be a good valentines day for her tommorow, none of her past bfs never put alot of thought into the stuff they did for her, and at least tommorow I want to be the stereotypical boyfriend she fantasizes about for Vday

Wow, i guess I am whipped:)
 
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