Using Tinder here in America

[Travel memoir21]

Would have to see your profile man. Surprising that you aren't getting any matches at all

I got a few more matches...but they were all below my preferred sexual standards.

You know what? lol since I'm dateless out here....I'm just thinking of asking one of them out on a date just to sharpen my skills. I'm not going to sleep with them but just want to have some fun company.

What do you guys think?

 

[Stanley]

I got a few more matches...but they were all below my preferred sexual standards.

You know what? lol since I'm dateless out here....I'm just thinking of asking one of them out on a date just to sharpen my skills. I'm not going to sleep with them but just want to have some fun company.

What do you guys think?

Maybe they are below your sexual standards, but do they mirror you and what you're putting out there? Are you above them in terms of smv?

Otherwise yeah **** it go out with em and have fun. I went on a date with a girl recently I was set up with, she wasn't anything special, but we had fun and it made me feel more confident in myself. To me a date really is more about just having a good time, I don't care about the outcome aside from just enjoying myself.

I'd say go for it and see what happens.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

go on the date. It will probably be fun & a good learning experience.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I got a few more matches...but they were all below my preferred sexual standards.

You know what? lol since I'm dateless out here....I'm just thinking of asking one of them out on a date just to sharpen my skills. I'm not going to sleep with them but just want to have some fun company.

What do you guys think?

Problem with going on dates you have zero physical attraction too is that your devaluing yourself

Its not a real date it just a waste of time

EVERYONE acts differently towards people they are actually attracted too

It's like going to a job interview if you aren't really a$$ed about the company or getting the job it will be clear in everything from your tone to your body language to your choice of outfit

Comparatively you go for something you really want you know you gotta pull it out of the bag

 

[Travel memoir21]

My Stats in Tinder here in America so far - 3 plumb ladies and one gay guy. Lol

I think I might as well befriend the gay guy…he might have cute lady friends.

 

[bat soup]

The Idaho murderer met his victim through Tinder, then started stalking her after she rejected him. I wonder if her family will sue Tinder.

That´s definitely Tinder´s fault. They should put a "murder" option in the intentions menu.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My pics consists of me wearing blazers, beanies and baseball caps and jeans.

It seems I like I need to put on muscle, get six pack abs shirtless just to get some attention. I don’t consider myself a bad looking guy.

These girls obviously just have high standards.

My initial plan was to wait until I got a 6-pack before trying Tinder. I’m glad I hopped on it even without 6-pack. I’d still be waiting.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Okay a little update- put up ‘cuter’ pics of myself and now Mid 40s milfs are matching with me.

A little improvement lol

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Okay a little update- put up ‘cuter’ pics of myself and now Mid 40s milfs are matching with me.

A little improvement lol

Make sure they aren't trying to misuse the platform. You have to check what they put down as their intention - if it's only "long term partner" and they're on tinder, there's something wrong with them. You want something that at least says "open to short". You want definite and congruent messaging too. Vague profiles and having one sexy pic as the main thirst trap pic, with the rest of dogs/kids/family/activities are also bad news. Older women on tinder tend to have crap attitudes.

tldr - make sure they're an actual "milf" and not pretending for attention.

 

[Gamisch]

Tinder was most useful when it was new in 2012-2013. It didn't take long for Tinder to go down the toilet. Tinder hasn't been good for most men in a long time.

I dont think there's a possible solution. All OLD apps are the same; there will be more men than women, and women wil pick and hold out for their best option. It won't get more innovative than "women message first".

Problem is a complete, or maybe even a few complete generations of women are messed up by it now. These heydays of OLD were indeed in the beginning, when the playfield was even . We all saw what happened, more and more men became invisible as women want the best they can get.

I do see a somewhat positive development tho..more women start to hate OLD, as they getting pumped/dumped like never before. Women simply CAN'T swipe right on anything other than their "top choice " (wrong men) ,thus making it a negative loop for them. Yes, women won't swipe on a 6 because all the eights played them. They'll follow da feelz.

I wonder what can stop this. I my imagination in some near future the government would prohibit the "use or manufacturing of OLD apps". Sounds crazy ,but who could predict there would ever be 3 toilets? Iust like the government might yake control over crypto.

It's sounds as bad as it is. More involvement of Papa gov'ment in our lives . But i can imagine that in heavily religious countries under strict control OLD might (might) actually work.

Crazy how fun it was in those days. It felt like such an logical invention; the 5 will swipe on the 5 and the 6 on the 6 ect. Everyone would be able able to find someone. Unfortunately it now completely changed dating and there's no way back it seems. We(most men) payed a hefty prize for having 1,5 years of fun.

 

[SW15]

All OLD apps are the same; there will be more men than women, and women wil pick and hold out for their best option. It won't get more innovative than "women message first".

More men than women is a huge problem. Ratio problems have long plagued nightlife venues. All of the swipe apps now have ratio problems as bad as nightlife venues, if not worse than nightlife venues. Tinder has the worst ratio problems, but Bumble is also overrun with males despite "women messaging first".

Problem is a complete, or maybe even a few complete generations of women are messed up by it now. These heydays of OLD were indeed in the beginning, when the playfield was even . We all saw what happened, more and more men became invisible as women want the best they can get.

Every dating website or dating app has gotten worse as time has gone on. That's part of the life cycle of tech-based dating. Tinder and Bumble got ruined faster than Match or OkCupid in the website era. Hinge is shiit too.

Tech-based dating methods have always been a gimmick. Forming relationships in the real world is always the better choice.

I do see a somewhat positive development tho..more women start to hate OLD, as they getting pumped/dumped like never before. Women simply CAN'T swipe right on anything other than their "top choice " (wrong men) ,thus making it a negative loop for them. Yes, women won't swipe on a 6 because all the eights played them. They'll follow da feelz.

From the male perspective, it seems like an awesome experience for women to experience abundant sexual options and get sex with the best looking people of the opposite sex. Women don't seem to experience it that way though.

Women do seek "all the feelz" and do prefer to use abundance to select for the best looking men who typically won't commit to them. A woman is who is in the 8+ range does stand a chance of getting a long term commitment from a top tier guy if that is what she demands.

Wheat Waffles had a good video about how Sub 5's, Normies, and top tier people interact with each other.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

You would rapidly seem to be getting to
the point where you’re going to call any guy that gets laid a Chad.

That means you are chad tier. Pretty soon threads will have to say (normies only please).

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You would rapidly seem to be getting to
the point where you’re going to call any guy that gets laid a Chad.

Lol you're getting to the point where you call any dude who's ever used an escort a "john"

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

More men than women is a huge problem. Ratio problems have long plagued nightlife venues. All of the swipe apps now have ratio problems as bad as nightlife venues, if not worse than nightlife venues. Tinder has the worst ratio problems, but Bumble is also overrun with males despite "women messaging first".



Every dating website or dating app has gotten worse as time has gone on. That's part of the life cycle of tech-based dating. Tinder and Bumble got ruined faster than Match or OkCupid in the website era. Hinge is shiit too.

Tech-based dating methods have always been a gimmick. Forming relationships in the real world is always the better choice.



From the male perspective, it seems like an awesome experience for women to experience abundant sexual options and get sex with the best looking people of the opposite sex. Women don't seem to experience it that way though.

Women do seek "all the feelz" and do prefer to use abundance to select for the best looking men who typically won't commit to them. A woman is who is in the 8+ range does stand a chance of getting a long term commitment from a top tier guy if that is what she demands.

Wheat Waffles had a good video about how Sub 5's, Normies, and top tier people interact with each other.

Can’t believe people watch this crap. Ok die a loser