Ok, this is an idea I had today. I haven't tried it, but I'll discuss it a bit.
I get a weird feeling when I see HB9's and 10's. Sometimes I get pissed seeing them, because I think, what the hell makes them think they are so great. It seems alot of them have a rather aloof *****y attitude, due in no small part to the legions of AFC's that drool over them.
However, I have to admit, there is a cutoff or so where I start to feel this way, or even a bit intimidated.
2 or 3 different thoughts come to mind when I see them.
1) Damn they are hot, no way can I get them. (This was an old attitude, but sometimes it still creeps up on me)
2) I get pissed at them, like I thought before
3) I take action immediately and start acting ****y and funny
However, as I discussed in another thread (which I will find and comeback and post), ****y and funny can work for only so long.
So my NLP based strategy is the following:
Think back to a 7 or so that I was extremely confident I would get. And now take that image of her and how I felt, and superimpose her on the new girl. Now this 9 or 10 that you have before you is actually covered up by the 7 that you knew you had in the bag.
Now obviously this generates feelings of confidence, which you read alot in NLP literature. It always says to remember a time when you felt confident. But in this case you have to know you have it in the bag with this girl.
Sending this thought to your mind will influence your actions.
I plan on trying this soon. We will see how it works.
I get a weird feeling when I see HB9's and 10's. Sometimes I get pissed seeing them, because I think, what the hell makes them think they are so great. It seems alot of them have a rather aloof *****y attitude, due in no small part to the legions of AFC's that drool over them.
However, I have to admit, there is a cutoff or so where I start to feel this way, or even a bit intimidated.
2 or 3 different thoughts come to mind when I see them.
1) Damn they are hot, no way can I get them. (This was an old attitude, but sometimes it still creeps up on me)
2) I get pissed at them, like I thought before
3) I take action immediately and start acting ****y and funny
However, as I discussed in another thread (which I will find and comeback and post), ****y and funny can work for only so long.
So my NLP based strategy is the following:
Think back to a 7 or so that I was extremely confident I would get. And now take that image of her and how I felt, and superimpose her on the new girl. Now this 9 or 10 that you have before you is actually covered up by the 7 that you knew you had in the bag.
Now obviously this generates feelings of confidence, which you read alot in NLP literature. It always says to remember a time when you felt confident. But in this case you have to know you have it in the bag with this girl.
Sending this thought to your mind will influence your actions.
I plan on trying this soon. We will see how it works.