select your target, then ignore
Hi Caveman,
Figure out which girl you really want, then put her out of your mind. This is the easy part. Concentrate on the anchors -- find SOMETHING interesting about them, the way they dressed or their hair. Compliment that. It's OK to express interest in the friends and boost their egos -- comes off good to the target and wins over the ****-blockers. Makes you seem like Mr. Compliment. Ignore the target for a good 3-4 minuts. Then, when you neg the target, even more effective. You've already hit it off with the pigs, they like you, but now the target isn't getting the same love. She'll come you YOU for the same treatment you gave the others. And because you started on the easy ones, the desparate ones, you're more relaxed in gathering the facts, anecdotes, and ancillary data needed to game the target effectively.