Using a wingwoman???

[club_drunk]

Hey everyone, been lurking on this site for a while and seen good advice, so hopefully some people can help me.

Went out with a female friend clubbing last night and had a good time. They way she dances you would think she was the club slut, grinding up and down on me and doing freaky moves. She literally had guys wanting a piece of the action. Which some got, because she danced with a few guys the same way she did with me. So the situation is we kept on getting stared at a lot of the night. I could count about 7 different girls who where either staring at me or checking me out when i turned and looked at them. My question is, what's the deal with the situation here. Where the girls looking because it looked like we were having a good time, or was it they way my friend was dancing with me and others, or were they generally attracted to me? I feel like i missed good opportunities.

I just want to know because I want to take advantage of using a female to get in with others. My friend even made friends with other girls which could have lead to opportunities.

So any one whose been in a similar situation please help, and would also like to get a female perspective on this? Thanks.

 

[procanto]

You're right, there is plenty of sexism apparent in their reaction to Pelosi as speaker, first they don't want her to have a plane, they don't want her to exercise her power as Speaker, they don't want her to (god forbid) contradict the President.

They are also virtually hysterical in their criticism of Hillary, they say it is based on her liberal values (though she is actually fairly moderate), and if that's the case, why don't they direct as much venom towards John Edwards?

Generally, conservatives want women to be like Laura Bush, all demure and deferential to men (Teresa Kerry was another one who stirred them up because she actually has a few opinions of her own).

 

[Cashew]

Yes, you missed opportunities. Mingle a little more next time when you observe other girls checking you out.

 

[edger]

Where the girls looking because it looked like we were having a good time, or was it they way my friend was dancing with me and others, or were they generally attracted to me? I feel like i missed good opportunities.

I just want to know because I want to take advantage of using a female to get in with others. My friend even made friends with other girls which could have lead to opportunities.

The girls were looking at you and vibing you, because they seen what I'm assuming, was a hot chick grinding on your d*ck. They took it that she was interested in you, was a f*ck buddy of yours, or was your girlfriend. As I'm sure you know, when other girls see that a hot girl is interested in you, they themselves suddenly become interested, because they think to themselves, "Well if she likes him, then he must have good game, be a player, and be a prize"..women lust for guys who are players, have good game, and carry themselves like they're the prize.

By the way Club_drunk, have you ever been sexully intimate with this female friend before? If not, have you ever tried?

I wanna add, the only time you should use a wingwoman, is IF she's hot and is interested in you sexually, or grinds on your d*ck when you dance with her. If she just acts like your friend on the other hand, then it would be wise NOT to use her as a wingwoman.

With a wingwoman though, you have to be make sure she doesn't c*ck-block you. Don't let her c*ck-block you.

 

[club_drunk]

thanks for the insights. She's just a work friend but they way she danced with me you would think more was going on. I tried to go for the kiss another time and got stopped, but i think she's seeing someone, so it's just friends for now. She's average looking, but she looked really good on the night. Thinking back I can definately see where I could have opened and tried to pick up, but i really didn't have a vibe going. I'll try next time anyway. Thanks.

 

[The Sperminator]

I've used a wingwoman before and trust me it works. Classic social proof. If they see a hot girl all over you they will think that there is something about you if she likes you. That plus girls love competition. They want what they can't have. Thats why so many guys with gfs get hit on. Wingwoman are way better than wingmen. Way better. One they can go up and talk to any female. If a guy does this the girl will think he is hitting on them. They make friends with them then introduce you to the girls. A cool trick you can try is this. My wingwoman does this for me. You start talking to the girl and in the middle of your convo your wingwoman comes up to you and grabs you and says lets dance. This will make the other woman furious and she will even want you more. I've had girls who I was talking to that weren't even interested in me at all who all of a sudden did a 180 when my wingwoman came over and took me away. Most of the time the girl will come after you later on or will try to make you stay. Be careful though cat fights can happen lol.