used to be good wit the girls, now im gone to hell lol

[snoop8]

so yea, before, like 2 years ago, when i first entered this site, i learned so much stuff that i actually got my first girlfriend, got dumped, but a month later got a new girlfriend again.... then broke up wit her, but after her, thats as far as i got.. no more action at all

i remember last year i went to a valentines dance, and some girl kissed me, never had talked to her till then, and i got kissed.... but the thing is that she was a fat chick... actually kinda pretty, but tooooo thick lol

then a few weeks after that, i had to leave the USA, and now im back to mexico, but since the school system is different, i had to wait till the school year was over to start skool again from first grade of preparatory (i was a junior in the usa and i had to start as if i was a sophmore in mexico ) so, i wanted to get a job, but for some reason i didnt... i got REAL depressed.... and well for the circumstances that i had to come back to mexico, i started to listen to music that would get me pumped up into hating the USA government, and sort of turned me into a revolutionary or something... and kinda like anarchist, so u know how those people are, kinda lonelers lol, so, i got MUCH MORE FAR AWAY from sociality. therefore, i never got to meet friends in my block (actually, never been able to. all the friends ive ever gotten are because i met them at skool lol)

now im back at skool, i met some friends at skool, met a few girls, some kinda showed to liked me, but then all of a sudden got real cold wit me so i guess they never did or dont anymore, and the lack of girlfriend is getting me more depressed! i think i got no social life at all anymore i try to at least talk to some girls online on myspace, but not even! they seem to get bored or something, sucks that not even online i can get a female friend! the only female friend i got is one that i know from chicago, real good friend, kinda like a sister... but thats it! no one else


so, i remembered about this site, and i know this kind of things have been asked A THOUSAND OF TIMES... but this is getting me desperate! last week i felt so down that i even started to cry at public and then wanted to kill myself... lucky me, i didnt, most likely because i thought that my parents would have to pay a big bill for the funeral (and im not kidding)... this is getting serious so im seeking help! i know ur gonna tell me, read the guides and stuff... but those guides, ive tried to read them so much that i get confused at wat the real point is, expecially since they are so damn long lol so maybe any of u can be kind enough to sumarize it please? thanks....


also, i know this might have nothing to do wit it, but i believe im a ok looking person... kinda shubby but still ok, heres my myspace (not so u can go check me out lol) but maybe to like help me out a lil or maybe become buds or something! peace

http://www.myspace.com/snoop1

 

[snoop8]

anyone? need some help!!

 

[Docs]

What do you want?

 

[snoop8]

tips on how to improve.... but sumarised cuz those guides say a lot of stuff and it confuses me and i dont get any of that stuff lol

 

[Sachiel]

I would say it's an attitude adjustment problem. Stop listening to that anarchist music. If it's killing you socially, than drop it. Women don't like angry men. Seems like you need to have fun before you can begin to attract the ladies. In general, women would MUCH rather be with a guy that's having fun than a guy that's really depressed. First, the attitude adjustment. Then you can move on to the more specific stuff. Good luck!

-Sachiel, DJ in Training

 

[snoop8]

so im guessing thats gonna take me a while to stop listening to that music or getting used to it then lol

and today some girl dedicated to me some poem... but shes like a 3 or something around there lol... wat do i tell her just that she will keep being friends wit me and that she wont get sad or something?

 

[Docs]

tips on how to improve

Improve WHAT? Guides are confusing if you don't even know what you're looking for. Specify.

 

[snoop8]

well.... yea i just kinda noticed that sorry...

well i want to get more confidence and be able to make more conversation and stuff like that....

 

[Docs]

-Confidence is proportional to the amount of material you know, the methods of applying material, and the amount of experience you get.

Thus, you read about C&F, DHV, Flirting, Teasing, Kissing, Cold Reading, blah blah blah...

Combine it to vibe with your personality. I'm a naturally nice guy that is very open, so I use Kino, flirting, C&F and teasing a lot. It works with how I operate. I can joke around, but I can't force myself to be an ass hole.

And, test, test, test, test, test! You won't find out what works for getting conversation started, keeping the energy level of the approach in check and closing without DOING it.

-Conversation, start with a normal opener. Nothing works more often then a Hey/Hi/Hello, I saw/noticed you..., or a joke meant to show her she looks a little silly.

Learn to ask questions related to what she's saying. Learn to answer and leave her topics, or questions to ask to you. Tell her a story, tell her to tell you a story. What kind of coffee does she drink, what movies does she like, does she like hugs, kisses, cuddling. All meant to keep conversation going, AND it helps you size her up.

Not to mention cold reading. Learn how to do it, both with what she's saying, how she reacts, but also, NOTICE how she's acting, positioned, what she's doing in your presense. Her comfort level, her mood, energy level, alertness, her INTEREST LEVEL, can all partly can be learned by just observing her.

Any more?

 

[snoop8]

lol thats good for now, thanks...

 

[PUK]

Just smoke weed and invite these biatches for a sesh

 

[snoop8]

Just smoke weed and invite these biatches for a sesh

thanks ill give it a try lol i always do that anyways lol