Alex DeLarge
Master Don Juan
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I'm not too sure how many people on here are in/went to college, but I'm a Biology major currently and we have been doing some review for a few classes and talking about the scientific method as well as distinguishing science from nonscience.
To begin, I would like to address that this is a method for finding a GIRLFRIEND. Not a Fvck buddy, not a ONS. Sure, it may not be DJ to want exclusivity with someone, but I'm sure the majority of the guys on here (including myself) would like to settle down with a WOMAN someday.. Not a wh0re, not a BPD, and not some man hating feminazi... Now, ONWARD!
You have to look at dating from a Post-Structural point of view. Meaning that you have to not look so much at the big picture (IE: the "All American Women are slvts, BPD, whatever.." talk on this board).. But focus more on the individual. The girl who you are gaming.
We all know that all women ARE NOT slvts or BPD. Yes, there are plenty out there but who cares? Let some sap pick them up and get used like most of us here did at some point!
Point of the matter is, all of this "game" talk with canned openers and the "essence of the alpha" is not really necessary. Yes it may work some of the time, especially in the bar scene.. But it does not mean the girl will be interested. All you need are the 3 C's as well as CONGRUENCY IN LEVEL OF ATTRACTION meaning that you don't say things like "I love you", do favors for her, buy her things (Other than maybe 1 drink or dinner on a date) after knowing the girl for 2 weeks... Save that for when you've been exclusive for a while, and even then.. Keep it to a minimum of holidays and birthdays.
1.) Charm
2.) Charisma
3.) Confidence
Now on with the second part of this post, The scientific method when choosing a girl.
If the girl fails at any stage of the scientific method, then move on to further discoveries. As long as you possess the 3 C's, it's not you.. It's her.
1.) OBSERVATION - You're walking down the street, and a girl catches your eye. So obviously, you stop and chat her up. Ask her a question, introduce yourself, anything really. Once you do this get the number.
2.) HYPOTHESIS - During this stage, it is key to build rapport with the girl. Sending a few texts or calling for a short conversation and ending with a scheduled date can't hurt. Avoid going out to dinner, a movie, or anything non casual or where conversation cannot be in its prime. Go for a walk in the park and learn about the girl. Pay attention to the girl's personality and body language. Is it what you like?... If so then your hypothesis has been met.
Hypothesis - This girl seems worth my time. Let's give it a shot!
3.) TEST - Now here is where you put her to the test. This girl seems great after the first date. The testing sequence will last until you or her are "official" whatever that may mean to you. You must be very observant of her in this stage, but not overly analytical or paranoid. Just see if she slips up anywhere that bothers you. to see if she is indeed what you want in a woman. Does she meet YOUR requirements for a girlfriend?
This stage is where most guys will wind up losing it or wind up uninterested. I've been there many times myself, all I can say is.. Hope for the best, expect the worst and have NO expectations unless she passes the test stage.. and always remember.. You have the rod. She's just another fish
4.) REFUTE - Has she passed the test stage or has she not? If she does not meet what you want in a girl, Next her. Don't bother being rude to her about it if she disagrees. Just let her simply know that she's not the one for you. If you want to stay friends with her, then stay friends. If not, then don't!
To begin, I would like to address that this is a method for finding a GIRLFRIEND. Not a Fvck buddy, not a ONS. Sure, it may not be DJ to want exclusivity with someone, but I'm sure the majority of the guys on here (including myself) would like to settle down with a WOMAN someday.. Not a wh0re, not a BPD, and not some man hating feminazi... Now, ONWARD!
You have to look at dating from a Post-Structural point of view. Meaning that you have to not look so much at the big picture (IE: the "All American Women are slvts, BPD, whatever.." talk on this board).. But focus more on the individual. The girl who you are gaming.
We all know that all women ARE NOT slvts or BPD. Yes, there are plenty out there but who cares? Let some sap pick them up and get used like most of us here did at some point!
Point of the matter is, all of this "game" talk with canned openers and the "essence of the alpha" is not really necessary. Yes it may work some of the time, especially in the bar scene.. But it does not mean the girl will be interested. All you need are the 3 C's as well as CONGRUENCY IN LEVEL OF ATTRACTION meaning that you don't say things like "I love you", do favors for her, buy her things (Other than maybe 1 drink or dinner on a date) after knowing the girl for 2 weeks... Save that for when you've been exclusive for a while, and even then.. Keep it to a minimum of holidays and birthdays.
1.) Charm
2.) Charisma
3.) Confidence
Now on with the second part of this post, The scientific method when choosing a girl.
If the girl fails at any stage of the scientific method, then move on to further discoveries. As long as you possess the 3 C's, it's not you.. It's her.
1.) OBSERVATION - You're walking down the street, and a girl catches your eye. So obviously, you stop and chat her up. Ask her a question, introduce yourself, anything really. Once you do this get the number.
2.) HYPOTHESIS - During this stage, it is key to build rapport with the girl. Sending a few texts or calling for a short conversation and ending with a scheduled date can't hurt. Avoid going out to dinner, a movie, or anything non casual or where conversation cannot be in its prime. Go for a walk in the park and learn about the girl. Pay attention to the girl's personality and body language. Is it what you like?... If so then your hypothesis has been met.
Hypothesis - This girl seems worth my time. Let's give it a shot!
3.) TEST - Now here is where you put her to the test. This girl seems great after the first date. The testing sequence will last until you or her are "official" whatever that may mean to you. You must be very observant of her in this stage, but not overly analytical or paranoid. Just see if she slips up anywhere that bothers you. to see if she is indeed what you want in a woman. Does she meet YOUR requirements for a girlfriend?
This stage is where most guys will wind up losing it or wind up uninterested. I've been there many times myself, all I can say is.. Hope for the best, expect the worst and have NO expectations unless she passes the test stage.. and always remember.. You have the rod. She's just another fish
4.) REFUTE - Has she passed the test stage or has she not? If she does not meet what you want in a girl, Next her. Don't bother being rude to her about it if she disagrees. Just let her simply know that she's not the one for you. If you want to stay friends with her, then stay friends. If not, then don't!