**URGENT** Will get laid tonight, but so stressed..

[mark123]

You obviously have great anxiety! No reason! It's one of the first reason to get soft! I had the same problem with one girl I once dated but I guess it was only with her cause afterwards with 2 others I was just fine! You can try royal jelly! It will help you as it helps anxiety problems and helps libido rise!

Thanks for the tip man - i've never heard of Royal Jelly, but will look into it now. I think since i have been getting soft of late, i just kept thinking about it and it only makes it worse.

also i read somewhere that if you're not used to the feel of the condom, it can "desensitize" you and make it soft. anyone recommends practicing etc with condom at home to get used to it?

I looked into buying Cialis, but in general I try and stay away from pills as much as possible..

 

[DonJuanit0]

Thanks for the tip man - i've never heard of Royal Jelly, but will look into it now. I think since i have been getting soft of late, i just kept thinking about it and it only makes it worse.

also i read somewhere that if you're not used to the feel of the condom, it can "desensitize" you and make it soft. anyone recommends practicing etc with condom at home to get used to it?

I looked into buying Cialis, but in general I try and stay away from pills as much as possible..

Cialis, no! Royal jelly is completely natural! No need to go to pills just yet! Just for being soft! I don't believe it can be cause of the condom BUT in your mind it can so you'll just think about it every time you were a condom! Try relaxing, have 1-2 drinks maybe (not more) so that you calm a little bit! Try to think the woman rather than youself working etc! It's all mind game there!

 

[marmel75]

Yes, definitely stay away from such pills in general - you're young, dude! It may have short-term results, but it increases your dependency on the drug and is damaging in long-term. Same goes for porn - stay away from that! (as you seem to be doing)

Also, look into kegel excercises - very simple to do, you can do them anywhere and helps increase bloodflow.

Hit the gym bro. Once you get that Testosterone level up, you will be getting hard-ons for no reason throughout the day, and will have to try and keep it down, not up...

 

[ka_mate]

I would strongly agree with the suggestion to stay porn free. I found this site which gave me the motivation and the reason to give up porn and haven't looked at it in over 100 days (http://yourbrainonporn.com/) explains the science behind it and a number of young guys (17-25) have posted how they have suffered erection problems when having sex after watching lots of porn. Definitely worth checking out.