Urgent all DJ's please read

[loverboy2003]

i know the entire point of being a DJ is to NOT care about if the girl likes you or not, and not to like drool and fall all over the girls that your intrested in BUT my QUESTION???? for all you DJ's out there is this IS IT OK/GOOD TO LET THE WOMEN YOUR INTRESTED IN KNOW IN SOME WAY OR FORM THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTED/INTRESTED IN HER, EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT?????? AND IF SO HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH??????

Pease give me your insight because i am working on this gil at work i am very sure that she likes me BUT i am still trying to determine what kind of intrest she has for me... and i would like to know all your guys's thoughts on this question and if i should just go for it and not show her i like her first...............................

 

[chalk]

Course you have to let her know, just give her a bit of attention, flirt a bit and then let something else grab your attention and drop her. She'll be confused and if she has interest in you (and your showing a bit in her) she'll wonder why the hell your keep leaving her to do other things/ speak to other people. Just don't give her too much and try and leave the encounters on high notes, don't hang around until conversation gets stale. Be the one to break it off.

 

[B9]

It's perfectly alright to be attracted to women and of coruse you should let them know. No reason to be making excuses for what you are.

The point is however, that when AFCs are attracted to women, they compromise themselves and will do anything (that they think) the women want in order to get them. That is not the way to go.
You bring her into your world, instead of trying to adorn her's. Basically, it is just a question of priority. Never put the women before yourself.

 

[Walden]

(1) Let her know you're attracted and you could replace her this afternoon if you wanted. (Damn this site's changed me a lot).

(2) Take a Midol.

(3) Stop shouting.

You're gonna be just fine son.

 

[violator]

Walden summed it up correctly.

It is perfectly alright to let her know that you like her, but do it through action rather than words.

When you ask for a woman's number and ask her out, that in itself is enough to convey your interest.

Always give the impression that although you want her she is easily replaceable if she does not meet your requirements. The best way to do this is dating several women all at the same time. It also helps you from developing oneitis.

Hope this helps

 

[squirrels]

Let her know through your ACTIONS that you are attracted to her. Not your words. Don't "talk about where this is going," it's boring and effeminate.

The key thing to remember, as violator said, is that she CAN be replaced. WANT. Not NEED. Desire is attractive. Neediness is not.

 

[loverboy2003]

thanks everyone, all great points i have not really thought of... this is going to help me a lot .... show her i am intrested and that I WANT BUT that i dont NEED her right!!!!!!!! i get it

 

[So pimp its scary]

With women, it is always preferable to show through your actions rather then your words.

If a woman tells you that she likes you, it is ok to reciprocate.

You are getting infatuated tho, infatuation is bad. You gotta start working on more then one woman at a time to get over that.

 

[loverboy2003]

WoW you guys have all brought up some GREAT points and stuff i never even realized like that i am infatuated with this girl now that it was mentions i realize that i am infatuated with her, i really am and i dont know how to NOT LET THIS GIRL HAVE SO MUCH CONTROL OVER ME i dont drop to my knees or fall all over her BUT i NOW realize i am infatuated with her and i think women can notice that in a man lol maybe thats why it seems that she is playing/ toying with me a little i dunno, anyone have any idea how i could reverse this infatuation or at least make her think i dont like her as much as i do??????

any comments would be great......... i guess thats wy i like this disscussion board because everyone is here to contribute and help help there fellow DJ

 

[Wong Fei Hung]

How do I project enough "action" so the women I am seeing dont lose interest and or think all I want is friendship?

 

[So pimp its scary]

A smile is an action, raising your eyebrows at her is a sign of interest, asking questions, then you can go onto the kino (arm, hand, shoulder, knee, hip (ideally in that order, but it is variable)), kiss, making out, sex.

You shloud always be progressing with a woman. I can litterally say that doing ANYTHING to get woman will have better results then doing NOTHING. There is also the strategy of the non-flirt. The guy that talks to the woman without making the plans of his next move. That the guy is just talking intrigues the woman, and her insecurities eventually force her to start trying to get you (you need a personality at the least ot make this work tho)

If you act in a way that shows sexual interest in the girl, and keep progressing, she will either eventually stop you at which point you stop, or continue to the sack if you can get her dripping fast enough.

Just don't act like a friend, and she won't turn you into a friend.