Urgent advice needed!, I'm stuck!

[jonte]

I've been showing intrest in a girl I have met through friends, I'm 19 she is 18. As far as I can see signs are good. We flirt with text messages, but we have never actually talked aside from this, apart from the occational 'hi' in passing, I decided to do something about this so I asked her to the cinema and she agreed. The problem is when speaking to friends apparently she makes it out that I am flirting with her.
Is this a bad thing?, The way I look at it if she didn't like me she wouldn't have agreed to go out with me on a date , should I try and make a move for a kiss when we are out?. I really would like to go with this girl, what way should I play it so that the tide swings so that she is after me and not the other way around?

Cheers guys!

 

[Starman]

yea girls always brag to their friends that guys always flirt or hit on them..its normal..and it makes them feel good in front of their peers..

you should use some KINO and Kiss clothes..otherwise be her best bud

 

[Slickster]

You're not going to get to know her at the movies. Try an action date. Something where you can talk and have fun.

Lose the text messaging. Talk in person.
Forget about the rumors and anything the "friends" are saying.

Focus on having fun and forget about having her as a "girlfriend"

You should be able to judge for yourself whether a kiss close will be sucessful.

 

[jonte]

that kind of date sounds appealing, but i wouldn't mind the saftey net of the cinema as this girl is incredibly shy!,like u wouldn't belive. She is very outgoing with the ppl she knows and is comfortable with, but with new people she is hard to get out of her shell i no that much!
But as they say its always the quiet ones that ya need to watch
I haven't finialised a date for the cinema yet, If she starts to mess about due to ehr shyness what will I do, I dont want to appear desperate yet I still want her to know that I like her!, Should I ignore her and let her make contact with me, or is there anything I should say to her?
Come on guys help me out here!

 

[Starman]

2 words

ALCHY-HOL

 

[InExtremis]

I don;t really think that it matters if she's shy. What she shows on the outside is different from what she's feeling on the outside.

Go out and do something more active, have fun yourself, be ougoing ect. She might look like she's shy on the outside but really having a heap of fun onthe inside. Just dont be too wild incase you freak her out.

Its nice to have the cinema as a safety net, but always better to do something that allows you both to communicate alot. Im yet to take a chick ice-skating, and im a good skater so this will definately be my next date location.

Something different + active = fun