Update on my situation...Need some input here...

[Night Time Pimp]

Near the beginning of the month, my g/f of 5 years and I had broken up and I found out she was running around with some other guy. I took it pretty harshly, but did what I could to keep busy and keep it off my mind.

Last Friday I decided to try and get some clothes back from her apartment so I finally called her up to get my stuff. We ended up talking for a little while, and I find out her new b/f is a COMPLETE AFC, he kisses her ass, blows her phone up every day, spends his money on her....AND she tells me he can't give her an orgasm and he has a tiny d*ck. Suddenly I get sucked back in, and thinking we may get back together, I agree to meet her Saturday night for a booty call.

Saturday rolls around, she goes out with her b/f, he pays for her drinks all night, then pays for her to get a taxi home. I meet up with her afterwards, and bang her on a soccer field. I went back to my friends place afterwards and went straight to bed. The next morning she asked me to call her, and she informed me that she had told this guy about it out of guilt. She then tells me it was a mistake, she feels horrible, we can't talk anymore. That was this previous Sunday. So I cut off all contact with all of them, blocked them on Facebook so they couldn't see what I was up to, etc.

So no contact since Sunday afternoon. Then she calls me up today. She starts saying the same things, he's an AFC, she's hating the sex, same stuff. Me being a sucker, I get drawn right back in. She tells me she's going over there tonight to talk to him cause she's tired of him. So I called her about ten minutes ago to see how it went, and guess what? She's 'getting ready to go to bed and has to let me go'. That sickening feeling in my gut returned, and I told her to NEVER call me again.

So what I'm wondering, is how does any of this make sense? This guy knows I banged her, he knows she told me about his tiny penis and lack of sexual ability, he knows it all. Yet he still goes crawling back. And she keeps trying to reel me back in as well for whatever reason. like WTF is going on?

 

[Monster]

First of all, you don't want someone like that.
Second, who cares what that other guy is thinking, if he likes to get PWN then let him get PWN.

 

[KontrollerX]

She's probably lying to you about his supposed inadequacies to make you feel good and draw you back into her web.

She just wants validation from you that she can still have you whenever she wants.

That or she is uncertain about the new guy being better than you.

In anycase rewarding a cheater like this with anything other than silence only loses you their respect either gradually or quickly.

Despite getting sex from her everytime you interact with her you are losing a little piece of your dignity.

So its good you cut it off finally.

 

[Night Time Pimp]

I'm fairly certain she's not lying about what she's said about him, as even her friends say the guy is a woman, he HAS to spend every day with her etc.

Bumping this, hoping to get some more opinions/advice here.

 

[AlphaSoldier]

This chick is a slvt. Dump her and move on.


AS

 

[Slick101]

Bro...
Call Her Up again....

tell her you wanna talk to her and meet up...

BANG HER In the assss.... and Let her go

PERFECTO !

 

[Night Time Pimp]

No, I refuse to go back to this I'm afraid.

Bump once more.

 

[KontrollerX]

Well since you are not going back to her it seems all that you want from us is some answers as to why she would do all this and why the new guy she is with would put up with it.

So I'll attempt to answer...

"So what I'm wondering, is how does any of this make sense? This guy knows I banged her, he knows she told me about his tiny penis and lack of sexual ability, he knows it all. Yet he still goes crawling back. And she keeps trying to reel me back in as well for whatever reason. like WTF is going on?"

The guy is an AFC as you said and by being this he likely has no other options so in his mind he reasons to keep her he should be a good doormat to your ex girlfriend for as long as she allows no matter how badly and disrespectfully she treats him so that he can get what ever scraps of sex and intimacy she tosses his way.

She likely went for this loser not because you suddenly suck all of a sudden but to see what else was out there and get the newness of a new guy that you can no longer provide since she knows you so well.

Its stupid but chicks do this.

That or perhaps she thought she wasn't getting her emotional needs met by you and having this AFC lap dog tell her how great she is and listen to all her crap currently does it for her so she'll stay with him for a while until her body starts craving some good sex then she'll try to run back to you for it or look for someother guy to cheat on AFC boy with and if that guy provides both the emotional support and sexual stimulation she wants its a one way ticket to heartbreak city for AFC chump.

So yeah nighttimepimp it looks like when all is said and done you will of won and lost in a way.

The AFC that took her will pay by having his heart broken and your girl will probably miss you and suffer a bit for it but she'll move onto someother guy but you will have dodged a bullet by not marrying or having this liar in your life any longer.

It sucks that this happened to you but you seem like the type of guy that will bounce back well once you get your mind straight about things.