Ok, so I met this chick recently at a closed-social-circle sort of social setting (ie: language class, dance class sort of settings where everyone knows everyone unlike the pub/club scene).
So far, the vibes are good, but then overall, I think she's always giving positive vibes to people in general.
In any case, I want to try my luck with her. Problem is, I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend (most probably she has), and because of that, I'm not sure how far out or toned down I should calibrate my approach.
(I only know that I should be fun and playful around her)
I mean, if I know she's single, I can go all out with my guns, but if she's attached, I'll just friendzone her early.
The way I've seen most people done it (the average normal guys you see everyday everywhere) is whereby: i) they slowly get to know the girl ii) slowly build connection with her and then iii) relationship naturally happens.
This is the tried and proven approach, but problem is it can lead to friendzone if one is not careful.
In cases like this, how do you guys usually approach it besides asking "do you have a boyfriend?"
I'm trying to keep it low-profile cos' day-game-closed-social-circle settings can be very tricky to navigate and I admit I'm scared of people gossiping behind my back if I'm too obvious. ie "Look! Nikar is trying to hit on Chick A! LMAO!"
Tks!
So far, the vibes are good, but then overall, I think she's always giving positive vibes to people in general.
In any case, I want to try my luck with her. Problem is, I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend (most probably she has), and because of that, I'm not sure how far out or toned down I should calibrate my approach.
(I only know that I should be fun and playful around her)
I mean, if I know she's single, I can go all out with my guns, but if she's attached, I'll just friendzone her early.
The way I've seen most people done it (the average normal guys you see everyday everywhere) is whereby: i) they slowly get to know the girl ii) slowly build connection with her and then iii) relationship naturally happens.
This is the tried and proven approach, but problem is it can lead to friendzone if one is not careful.
In cases like this, how do you guys usually approach it besides asking "do you have a boyfriend?"
I'm trying to keep it low-profile cos' day-game-closed-social-circle settings can be very tricky to navigate and I admit I'm scared of people gossiping behind my back if I'm too obvious. ie "Look! Nikar is trying to hit on Chick A! LMAO!"
Tks!