I'm a dandy. always have been, always will be.
There is no right or wrong answer to does style matter. to me it does. A lot. but **** there is some things that i don't give a **** that matters that some guys are hell bent on, for instance, the type of car you drive. like i will never listen to a song beucse it's a song i am supposed to be listening to that girls like. Fvck that if you are riding with me you are going to listen to whatever the fvck i have in the cd player and you are going to like it.
however, if you dont'; think women don't notice a well put together man you are kidding yourself. they do. why make your job harder than it has to be?
i remember one time, and this changed my entire.. well not changed because i've always been into clothes since i was a teenager, but i was losing weight, i was at the time 20, i went to dillards. there was this very cute black chick there who i asked, just.. you know where can i find some **** lol. she was nice, she talked to me fo ra second but you could tell i mean, she was doing her job. i had just left the gym I had on gym clothes. I mean she kinda got the sense i was trying to pick her up and kinda left before i could get that far.
about.. what.. maybe a month later, it's the day after my birthday, i'm trying to find my dad a wallet for father's day, so i go here to dilliars again, however this time im' dressed to the 9. i had on some disel jeans, a blue and white trucker hat, a french cuff ed white and blue button up with a DKNY black and blue blazer. for the look i was going for i pulled that **** off.
i am not in the store 10 seconds and this girl comes up to me. same chick. hadn't a fvcking clue who i was. i sat there and let her talk.. i look for a wallet, she's looking for reasons to follow me around, then ****, just invites herself to go to lunch with me.. the whole time, she hadn't a clue who i was. when we were at lunch i told her who i was and she was like, wow you look so different. you are cute as hell lol
i ended up dating her a few months later but that's not the point. my point is, why make your job harder than it is. if you cold approach as much as i did, why would you not want every last detail in your favor.
not only that, im' the guy that all the girls take to the mall with them beucase i now what i'm talking about. and when i say i know what i am talking about, lol look at styleforum..that's the major leagues of style we aren't playing around over there we know our ****. when i was single i would have girls drag me to the mall and make me sit there and watch them try on basically underwear wtih shoes lol beucase they valued my opinion on style that much. yeah that's really bad lol.
just little ****. you go somewhere with a girl and the girl has a smirk on her face beucase her man is the best put together dude in the room. **** lke that matters.
hell all you have to do on that forum is go to the lifestyle section of the site and spend some time there. the guys there get much ass. and haven't a slightest clue about game. There are a few times over there where i will see something so bad (Game wise) that the backbreaker in me just has to say something and it's like talking in latin to these dudes, they don't have a fvcking clue at all... i remember telling this one dude on the forum about first dates and how you shouldn't spend money on dates and everyone was like wow that's a great idea. yet these dudes get primeo *****. at least a lot of them do.