You know how women want to bytch about things, and men want to DO things to get THROUGH things? Well, LOA sorta works that way. If not in a Magical way, at least in a Logical way.
Very often we sit and debate things. Perhaps it's related, ONCE again to this site and your worry or anxiety over the future. Whether words spoken here, TRULY work. The mind can do but 1 thing at a time, all else is crazy insanity. To have more than one thing in your mind, is fairly close to insanity. To have more than one thing is a HUGE waste of your power, energy, and time. In a nutshell, it means you're REALLY not here.
You can be building up POSITIVE or NEGATIVE experiences. If it's with women, and your focus is on FAILING, on the DIFFICULTY of approaching, or of WHAT to SAY...then of course it will all fall down on you. But if your approach is on SUCCESS, on what you NOTICE about her, or WHAT you notice about where you are with her, THEN you will succeed.
In Denis Waitley's audiobooks on Winning, he notes that "winners" only focus on the outcome desired, on positive intention of winning, that if they play the game, they play to win. A winner positively expects to win and focus on the good things around him. We all KNOW that in this universe NEGATIVE does exist. A downside exists, but unless it's DEATH, discard it. Disregard it.
Many guys will talk about the Feminization of America, and I can't agree more, BUT WHAT ARE MEN DOING, not saying, BUT DOING TO CHANGE THAT IMAGE? Rather than BYTCH about what people say, which is more a female habit than a male habit, men SHOULD be doing something. For starters, ignore it, and be a man. Have passions, loves, and goals, and care not for others, and die by your goals. Die by who you are and what you want. If you're ok failing with your goals (not that you ever REALLY fail), then you'll be LIVING.
See I could bytch about 1,000 things, and very often, I drop little tidbits to show we as American males are definately slacking, or have slacked in the past, but beyond INFORMING, what good is hearing this news, or this tip, or this topic? Is it just egotistical noise, or is actually beneficial in some way?
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With women, if you ever been in a relationship, and things hit the skids, you can do but 2 things, stay together or breakup. If you're NOT CHOOSING in this moment with your CURRENT girl to make the BEST of things (positive), then you're UNCONSCIOUSLY choosing the WORST of things (negative). Many girls want to "talk", but rarely do they DO. They leave up to you. And if you're the man, sitting, awaiting her to come around, you better chuck a snowball down to hades, because it has a better chance of survival. If you're NOT making positive memories with a woman now, the path of the future WON'T be positive either. And if you first don't THINK positively about your situation with her, then it can't POSSIBLY ever be good. The presumption of many things is that it will be GOOD and POSITIVE, but for the unawakened man, it's not even CLOSE to good. That is only the ego deluding you. Confusing you. Leading you. An unawakened man doesn't see reality or live in it.
There's no DOUBT obstacles exist, but you must POSITIVELY believe you can go through them, or WILL DIE TRYING to get through them. That alone is positive confidence building. To die. To not live in JUST the INBETWEEN. But to live fully at the edge of emotion and life.
What good does worry provide, or concern? Nothing. No Good. Recognize it exists and go right through, around, or over it. Know you can bust through.
If you come to this site, and linger, hoping something or someone will bite you in the arse, it won't happen. There won't be an artical that will knock you over; none of us are acclaimed writers, just men with computers, and some just trolls. Come here with the FULL intention of making it work. That even if you don't find the answer here, it's just the start of a 1,000 mile journey and you alone will find what you need at some point. SS is just a TOOL, one of many.
If you TRULY want to bring about what you want, you have to think about that, AND THAT ALONE and it will undoubtedly come to you. This isn't hocus pocus. It's true and real. People who wallow in bad relationships, do so because they FOCUS on the bad. They constantly remain in the middle. They don't know who or what they want. They remain indecisive and ignore the pieces that make relationships tick.
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I can't fathom taking advice from anyone here who's head isn't at LEAST a little on straight and has a grasp of the basics of how things work. Some guy banging slvts, dirty ones at that, with no ambitions are only going to get you what THEY got/have. Is that what you want?
I've posted on such topics before, and most of it's supplementary to keep the wheels churning, and some of them are reactionary, in response to a thought I have on a specific post, and rather than hijack the thread, I'll make one regarding it and see what sticks.
Granted, America is feminized, but it isn't America, it's men. And if men want to change things, men can't bytch or complain at all the other men, that only makes enemies of our kind. Instead, lead by example. Be the example. Be the prize. Why should we care how other's live? Why should we care if other men are pvssies? That only leaves more women for us, right? To live as you desire is divine. Yes, Feminazi's are loose. And there's an attack on us. I personally think it's Penis Jealousy. But that's just me. Because they know how important MEN are to women, and because men have LOST their focus.
Whatever you focus on now, you bring about. If you focus on nothing, you get nothing. If you focus on confusion, you get confusion. If you focus on indecision, you get indecision. If you focus on money or making more of it, you get more money, because the wheels turn and burn in that direction. The LOA doesn't have to be understood in the mystical sense that the video promotes itself as, because it makes sense that IF YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE FOCUSED ON THOSE THINGS YOU WANT, YOU WILL INEVITABLY GET MORE OF THEM. It's the only way it works.
A-Unit
Very often we sit and debate things. Perhaps it's related, ONCE again to this site and your worry or anxiety over the future. Whether words spoken here, TRULY work. The mind can do but 1 thing at a time, all else is crazy insanity. To have more than one thing in your mind, is fairly close to insanity. To have more than one thing is a HUGE waste of your power, energy, and time. In a nutshell, it means you're REALLY not here.
You can be building up POSITIVE or NEGATIVE experiences. If it's with women, and your focus is on FAILING, on the DIFFICULTY of approaching, or of WHAT to SAY...then of course it will all fall down on you. But if your approach is on SUCCESS, on what you NOTICE about her, or WHAT you notice about where you are with her, THEN you will succeed.
In Denis Waitley's audiobooks on Winning, he notes that "winners" only focus on the outcome desired, on positive intention of winning, that if they play the game, they play to win. A winner positively expects to win and focus on the good things around him. We all KNOW that in this universe NEGATIVE does exist. A downside exists, but unless it's DEATH, discard it. Disregard it.
Many guys will talk about the Feminization of America, and I can't agree more, BUT WHAT ARE MEN DOING, not saying, BUT DOING TO CHANGE THAT IMAGE? Rather than BYTCH about what people say, which is more a female habit than a male habit, men SHOULD be doing something. For starters, ignore it, and be a man. Have passions, loves, and goals, and care not for others, and die by your goals. Die by who you are and what you want. If you're ok failing with your goals (not that you ever REALLY fail), then you'll be LIVING.
See I could bytch about 1,000 things, and very often, I drop little tidbits to show we as American males are definately slacking, or have slacked in the past, but beyond INFORMING, what good is hearing this news, or this tip, or this topic? Is it just egotistical noise, or is actually beneficial in some way?
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
With women, if you ever been in a relationship, and things hit the skids, you can do but 2 things, stay together or breakup. If you're NOT CHOOSING in this moment with your CURRENT girl to make the BEST of things (positive), then you're UNCONSCIOUSLY choosing the WORST of things (negative). Many girls want to "talk", but rarely do they DO. They leave up to you. And if you're the man, sitting, awaiting her to come around, you better chuck a snowball down to hades, because it has a better chance of survival. If you're NOT making positive memories with a woman now, the path of the future WON'T be positive either. And if you first don't THINK positively about your situation with her, then it can't POSSIBLY ever be good. The presumption of many things is that it will be GOOD and POSITIVE, but for the unawakened man, it's not even CLOSE to good. That is only the ego deluding you. Confusing you. Leading you. An unawakened man doesn't see reality or live in it.
There's no DOUBT obstacles exist, but you must POSITIVELY believe you can go through them, or WILL DIE TRYING to get through them. That alone is positive confidence building. To die. To not live in JUST the INBETWEEN. But to live fully at the edge of emotion and life.
What good does worry provide, or concern? Nothing. No Good. Recognize it exists and go right through, around, or over it. Know you can bust through.
If you come to this site, and linger, hoping something or someone will bite you in the arse, it won't happen. There won't be an artical that will knock you over; none of us are acclaimed writers, just men with computers, and some just trolls. Come here with the FULL intention of making it work. That even if you don't find the answer here, it's just the start of a 1,000 mile journey and you alone will find what you need at some point. SS is just a TOOL, one of many.
If you TRULY want to bring about what you want, you have to think about that, AND THAT ALONE and it will undoubtedly come to you. This isn't hocus pocus. It's true and real. People who wallow in bad relationships, do so because they FOCUS on the bad. They constantly remain in the middle. They don't know who or what they want. They remain indecisive and ignore the pieces that make relationships tick.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I can't fathom taking advice from anyone here who's head isn't at LEAST a little on straight and has a grasp of the basics of how things work. Some guy banging slvts, dirty ones at that, with no ambitions are only going to get you what THEY got/have. Is that what you want?
I've posted on such topics before, and most of it's supplementary to keep the wheels churning, and some of them are reactionary, in response to a thought I have on a specific post, and rather than hijack the thread, I'll make one regarding it and see what sticks.
Granted, America is feminized, but it isn't America, it's men. And if men want to change things, men can't bytch or complain at all the other men, that only makes enemies of our kind. Instead, lead by example. Be the example. Be the prize. Why should we care how other's live? Why should we care if other men are pvssies? That only leaves more women for us, right? To live as you desire is divine. Yes, Feminazi's are loose. And there's an attack on us. I personally think it's Penis Jealousy. But that's just me. Because they know how important MEN are to women, and because men have LOST their focus.
Whatever you focus on now, you bring about. If you focus on nothing, you get nothing. If you focus on confusion, you get confusion. If you focus on indecision, you get indecision. If you focus on money or making more of it, you get more money, because the wheels turn and burn in that direction. The LOA doesn't have to be understood in the mystical sense that the video promotes itself as, because it makes sense that IF YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE FOCUSED ON THOSE THINGS YOU WANT, YOU WILL INEVITABLY GET MORE OF THEM. It's the only way it works.
A-Unit