Ok I'm not 100% positive, but based on recent signs I THINK a girl I've been interested in for a long time wants me to ask her out. The problem is, it seems like everyone knows I like her now (long story how the word leaked, but it wasn't my intention for it to)...her friends know, my friends know, the icing on the cake was when this dumb jock who I don't even associate with comes up and says "hey, I heard you liked __!" Aghhhhhh now in the world does HE know was all I could think about.
And if he knows, I bet the girl is still hearing stuff too. She's been giving me looks that, to me, suggest "I'm available, you can ask me". Under normal circumstances I'd ask right away, but I can't shrug off all the people who already know I like her. And honestly, I thought a few weeks ago she made it clear she didn't want me, and I made it clear I was moving on...but heh, guess not. Now I have another shot to get her, but geez it feels like everyone is waiting for me/watching me, INCLUDING her. I hate it. Anybody here know how to deal with this kinda pressure? Should I even bother?
Thanks in advance.
And if he knows, I bet the girl is still hearing stuff too. She's been giving me looks that, to me, suggest "I'm available, you can ask me". Under normal circumstances I'd ask right away, but I can't shrug off all the people who already know I like her. And honestly, I thought a few weeks ago she made it clear she didn't want me, and I made it clear I was moving on...but heh, guess not. Now I have another shot to get her, but geez it feels like everyone is waiting for me/watching me, INCLUDING her. I hate it. Anybody here know how to deal with this kinda pressure? Should I even bother?
Thanks in advance.