Unconditional Love (does not exist)

[Equilibrium]

Unconditional love does not exist outside of God Himself. Even among family members it is very much conditional, albeit stronger. Of course a mother will love her mentally handicapped or physically handicapped son. But that's because being handicapped or something is not the type of thing to break the chains of love. However, there is always something even a mother's child can do which will make her not love him. I knew this kid who would slap his mother, beat his sister, steal from the family and whatnot. Eventually, his mother stopped loving him. He did that which would break the chains of love, over time, and the chains broke. She hates her son now, and it's hard to blame her. Her love was conditioned - on him not beating her and his sister, and not stealing from them. All love is conditioned, it's just the conditions differ from person to person depending on the relationship. Unconditional love does NOT exist between blood. For further examples, look to the inter-family strife during the middle ages which tore kingdom's asunder. Look at the story of Cain and Abel.

Women love you conditionally, and you love them conditionally. Would you leave your wife or GF if she decided she liked gangbangs and sought them out every Friday? Yes? Then you have a condition for your love. Maybe you'd still love her if she became a burn victim or caught alzheimers, but that's because that kind of thing might not strain the chains enough, but there are things that will break the chains that bind you together.

 

[backbreaker]

Unconditional love does not exist outside of God Himself. Even among family members it is very much conditional, albeit stronger. Of course a mother will love her mentally handicapped or physically handicapped son. But that's because being handicapped or something is not the type of thing to break the chains of love. However, there is always something even a mother's child can do which will make her not love him. I knew this kid who would slap his mother, beat his sister, steal from the family and whatnot. Eventually, his mother stopped loving him. He did that which would break the chains of love, over time, and the chains broke. She hates her son now, and it's hard to blame her. Her love was conditioned - on him not beating her and his sister, and not stealing from them. All love is conditioned, it's just the conditions differ from person to person depending on the relationship. Unconditional love does NOT exist between blood. For further examples, look to the inter-family strife during the middle ages which tore kingdom's asunder. Look at the story of Cain and Able.

this is true. I was going to go there but decided not to. but you are correct.

every bond has a limit, it's just that family's limit is a little bit higher than others.

 

[TheMale]

Unconditional love does not exist outside of God Himself. Even among family members it is very much conditional, albeit stronger. Of course a mother will love her mentally handicapped or physically handicapped son. But that's because being handicapped or something is not the type of thing to break the chains of love. However, there is always something even a mother's child can do which will make her not love him. I knew this kid who would slap his mother, beat his sister, steal from the family and whatnot. Eventually, his mother stopped loving him. He did that which would break the chains of love, over time, and the chains broke. She hates her son now, and it's hard to blame her. Her love was conditioned - on him not beating her and his sister, and not stealing from them. All love is conditioned, it's just the conditions differ from person to person depending on the relationship. Unconditional love does NOT exist between blood. For further examples, look to the inter-family strife during the middle ages which tore kingdom's asunder. Look at the story of Cain and Abel.

Women love you conditionally, and you love them conditionally. Would you leave your wife or GF if she decided she liked gangbangs and sought them out every Friday? Yes? Then you have a condition for your love. Maybe you'd still love her if she became a burn victim or caught alzheimers, but that's because that kind of thing might not strain the chains enough, but there are things that will break the chains that bind you together.

so if i got it, you said that anyone have a reason/criteria (differ from people to people) to love you, once you don't respect it, they no longer have reason to love you (applaying to family, friends, gf, wife)?